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my friend hates me now
my friend pat just told me my friend jessica hates me. she hates me cuz i told pat something she did while she was sleeping over my house. well pat says she was so mad she was swearing and stuff. i feel really bad and want to call and say sorry but pat says she will probably yell at me and hang up. whenever jessica and i have fights they are usually easily resolved, and im hoping pat is exaggerating, he does a lot. im mad that pat told jessica he knew, but i know im mostly to blame. so what should i do now? please help me, i hate losing friends :(
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well i think u should try and talk to her tell her that u are sorry and explain to her how u feel if she hangs up on u after u tell her all that then maybe yall arent meant to be friends..hope i helped and good luck
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Call Jessica..talk to her..and if she hangs up on you..go over to her house...and just set and talk it out..if u are true friends...u can resolve it =)
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Tell Jessica that she has every right to be mad at you, sincerely apologize, and you are extremely sorry. She may be still really angry but just give her a little time (and maybe a little present =). A card and some candy, maybe?).
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everything will work out. Just call jessica up and explain to her gently and nicely why you told pat what she did while sleeping at your house. Since it is your fault, if she is mad at you for a few more days or whatever, just deal with it. But, don't start fighting with her on the phone or anything bc she has a rite to be mad at you.
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Apologising is best, even if you don't think Jessica will take it well immediately. You need to show your friends that you are genuinely sorry rather than just sorry that she found out. Hopefully in time Jessica will see that you ae remorseful and will value your friendship once again.
It's also worth examining how this managed to happen. You told a friend (Pat) about what another friend (Jessica) did, an action Jessica obviously thought was a betrayal of trust. Ask yourself some questions: has this happened before? Has it caused probolems before? Would you be annoyed if another friend did the same to you? etc. Hopefully some reflection on your part will help you see where things went wrong, and will stop similar upsets happening in future. I hope you manage to talk successfully with both Jessica and Pat about things. Good luck!
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Just try calling her anyways, or try showing up at her house and tell her you're sorry and stuff, it's better to get the apology in with her yelling so she knows that there is an apology then not apologize at all...
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