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Question Posted Friday August 20 2004, 3:12 am

My frend has problems wit cuttin herself, wen she finally stoped for about a month or two maybe even longer things started to get better for her she even went through a break up wit out cuttin i thot that was awesome nd i thot she was done wit it, but then the guy went back wit her for one day nd they had sex, he knew she would think he wanted her back but he didnt that night he started goin out wit this chick emily who he knows my frend hates more than anyone well wen he told her she got really mad nd upset nd sed she didnt want to be frends ne more nd then she started cuttin again nd its much much worse now than it has ever been before nd now shes cuttin deeper nd all over herself like not on the rists ne more but like everywhere nd she used to really care if she couldnt get it to stop bleedin but now she doesnt care as much nd her grammy desided she doesnt want to take care of her ne more so shes goin to a foster home or family or w/e nd she cant go wit her parents cuz theyre coke heads but i dont think a foster home or w/e would be good for her or ne thin cuz she needs her frends, she would call me weneva sumthin happened she couldnt deal wit nd i would help her thru it but i feel so bad cuz i havent been home very much lately or ne thin nd she couldnt get ahold of me nd idk but that could be y shes cuttin cuz she doesnt hav ne one to talk to bout the stuff thats goin on but the cuttin has gotten so bad that she does in front her grammy nd her counciler nd she cant even shave her legs wit out takin the blade to her wrist im also wicked worried cuz if she goes to a foster home or family i heard those kinds of places can be really bad like if she had a family that wasnt nice to her or sumthin or if she went wit a family that didnt no how to deal wit her cuttin or sumthin i would get my mom to adopt her or take care of her for a while but she wont do it i kno my mom could prolly really help out wit her cuttin cuz shes the one who got me to stop cuttin wen i did it nd im soo worried that she mite actually kill herself cuz i kno she would be capable of sumthin like that!! im just sooo worried bout her nd i dont kno wut i can do to help or ne thin!! i just dont know...
can u please help, wut would u do??
sorry its so long.. wut do u think i should do???


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Roxybabii922 answered Friday August 20 2004, 6:15 am:
Maybe invite your friend over and let your mom talk to her, like you said your mom helped you stop maybe she can help your friend, just let her know that you will be there for her and let her see that cutting isnt the thing to do, really try and have a deep conversation with her about it

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