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Up n left
What should I do about this...me and my boyfriend were talking about college and I got upset that he wasnt goin to be going to the same college as me the first semester, he wants to start the second.So I got upset over it and then he told me to drop him off so I did at like 3ish yesterday. An hour later he shut his phone off and it has been off since. I called his sister who I'm friends with because my boyfriend didnt show up to work today (he works for my dad) and she said he didnt come home last night. She also said that him n his friend went to her work last night but his friend is on vacation 2 hours away. He could of came back to pick him up though. If he went he wont be home untill Sunday. I tried calling his friend and his friend isnt answering his phone. What should I do? I'm so upset that my boyfriend would just go away and not tell em especially when I was so upset. What should I do if I can't get a hold of him? I feel like I'm lost
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OK! Get over yourself! It won't kill you 2 go 2 different schools 4 like 1 semester! And stop bugging the guy! If he did go on vacation, SO WHAT?! Everyone likes vacations! Let him have his relax time! if he loves you, he'll be back b4 you know it!
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Dear Up n Left:
Wow! I can see how you might be a little hurt by his actions. Don't make yourself look crazy by calling everyone. Simply call his sister once more tomorrow and ask if she has heard from him. Let it go at that. Let him do what he's doing and then deal with him when he calls. Apparently he doesn't respect your feelings enough to tell you what he's doing and thats just not right. Tell him when you talk to him that it doesn't bother you that he went away but it DOES bother you that he up and left without saying anything and then didn't even bother to call you, especially when he KNEW you were upset. See what he says and take action from there. Don't let yourself get upset about it. From the sounds of it, he HAS to have a good reason for doing what he did. Otherwise, he's a J-E-R-K! Haha! Best of Luck with this. *Melissa*
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UpNLeft,
maybe he just loves you so much that he got upset over the fact that you got mad. if you love him that much you shoulda been happy. not mad.
xox Manda xox
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CALM DOWN HUN!If you can't get a hold of him then you need to just wait and hope for the best.This is the time you need to pray to the lord that everything is ok!And you should keep trying to get a hold of him.Do anything you can to find him!Just pray!Don't 4get to do that!If you reach out to the lord he will make sure everything if ok!
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like icy said, give him space, dont pressure him. The next time you see him, approach him with a smile, and dont automatically jump to the subject thats on your mind. Ask him how his day was....just untill he talks to you about it or you feel that hes ready to go on that subject. Remember, the first step in a relationship is to LISTEN, as i have all so often reiterated.
Hope i helped!!
Alissa
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I think your bf just needs some space and time to think. Let him do his "manly guy things" or w/e and give it a few days..maybe after this...he`ll be ready to talk. I think you`ll be able to get ahold of him..just give it a couple days
hope i helped
-melissa-
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