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ok, so i had this party at my house the other night and there was alot of like 21 year olds there. and i started talkin to this one guy, i talked to him for like 5 hours! hes awsome! hes 21 and im 13, and i know nothing seriouse coould ever happen but theres just something about him. i mean he works at ym dads work and everytime i go to my dads work i want to see him. i have a crush on him ya know, but is it ok to have a crush on someone 8 years older then you?
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well lets look at the lesser of the evils..
its only 8 years right? lol.. yeah right
okay well.. in my opinion i have mixed feelings on younger girls dating older guys. because i hate to say it but NORMALLY they are only going for one thing, and thats sex. so i would watch out. and im sure your parents would have some say into who you date. just be careful girl. and dont get too involved if you do decide to see him.. because older guys have a strong hold over younger girls. they make them vonerable. besides.. if he tries to pull anything on you. its stagatory rape.
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brandi
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Of course it's ok.I have a crush on Tyson Ritter from AAR.Unfortunately for both of us it's never going to happen.Age and stardom in my case and well...just age in your case.As long as you just have a crush on him and know nothing can ever happen between you two it's ok.I mean you two are at different stages in your life.Him legally able to drink and almost ready to start a family and a new life.And you still dependent on your parents and the biggest decision of your day might be what shoes to wear with your new skirt.I don't say it to be mean really.I'm just tryng to get my point across.
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Crushes happen - older guys, movie stars, people you see around school and have never talked to. They can be fun and harmless, but they can also hurt.
There's a quote I read once which said, 'Crushes aren't easy - if they were any less painful, they'd be called something else.'
Focusing all your attention on someone with whom a relationship would be lopsided (emotionally, physically, developmentally, maturity-wise, etc) can blind you from seeing guys your own age who could be completely cool and genuine.
I think the next time you throw a party you should invite more people your own age - they are going through the same things as you, and will be at the same stages throughout middle school, high school, and beyond.
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It's not only OK - it's normal. But as for actual relationships, stick with boys closer to your own age. This older guy might make a great friend/mentor/brother.
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It's okay to have a crush. Perhaps when you are older, it might work out. I've dated people as much as 26 years older than me. It all depends on people, not age. :)
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yeah sure its okay to have a crush on someone older than you. but just remember he is alot older, too older and nothign could ever happen.
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it's ok to have the crush as long as it doesn't go anywhere
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ugh.. hes to old for you and plus if u actually dated or anything it would be ILLEGAL...... well basically everyone when they are young might have a crush on an older guy... so take it from me its just a fling.. he'll be gone from your mind in no time!
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its ok to have a crush on someone that older, but its not ok to hook up with him. because if anything was to happen between you, that would be a lawsuit. because ur not legal yet. sooo yeah. you'll probably wanna stick with people your age. but you should still hang around him, if you like him.
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Yes; you can't help youR infatuations. And long as nothing seRious happens [cuz it's illegal]it's fine to have a cRush on him!! Hope I helped!! =D
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