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Do I need popularity?
Over the summer I was a counselor at a camp with my friends. This other guy I know also was a counselor. He goes to my school and I started liking him. Turns out he likes me to (he told my friend). He says he doesn't want me to know (too late!) and he doesn't want to ask me out because asking people out is stupid to him. His last two girlfriends were both extremely popular and deemed the 'hotties'. I'm just worried he doesn't want to go out with me because I am not popular. Now I'm not a geek, I'm pretty high up there...but not as high as his ex-girlfriends. Any advice would help.
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Well, I'm guessing that if he had girlfriends in the past, he had to have started somewhere...maybe he wants you to ask him out. And, if he told your friend, he wanted it to get back to you.
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If ya guy wont go out with you because you arent popular.. its not somebody you want to be with.. I think that you should ask him out.. if he likes you.... then there shouldnt be a problem... you should go for it... I hope I helped... If anything comes up.. e-mail me!
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Don't worry about being very popular, he will like you for who you are not by your popularity. If he doesn't go out with you for not being poular enough the guy isn't worth your time.
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Any guy that wouldnt go out with a girl because shes not popular is pretty low and not worth going for. He might just think since his last two ex's were a waste of time then maybe he thinks that the next one will be too. Talk to him and just be like oh so who do you like dont let him know you know but give him signs that you like him or whatever. And hang out... maybe you will change his mind. Best wishes
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well if he likes you he would go out with you no matter how popular you are!!!
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crystal
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It doesn`t matter that you`re not popular. If you`re not, then he didn`t like his other girl friends just because they were popular-he liked them for them and thats probably why he likes you too.
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If he likes you it shouldnt matter if your really popular or not so pretty. He should like you for who you are and if he doesnt want to be with you because you not so popular then its his lose not yours and you can do much better than him. Good Luck!!
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Who needs popularity? All the so-called "popular" people become nobodies once school finishes. The fact of the matter is, "geeks" rule the world. So what if you get laughed at for a couple of years in school? You can laugh at then when they're serving you your coffee or your McDonald's.
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If I was in your situation, I think I'd tell the guy I heard that he likes me, and admit that I like him, too and see what he wants to do about it. He doesn't have to "ask you out," really. You can just agree to date...
As for the popularity issue, you shouldn't have to worry about not being popular enough for the guy, and it shouldn't be enough of a problem to stop him from liking you, which he does.
I say open your mouth, tell him what you know, and see what happens. That's what I'd do, anyway.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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Sweetie, just listen to what you're saying. 1) Those are his EX girlfriends. Why do you think they broke up? Maybe because they were tooo popular? That's a possibility, right? And 2) He already likes you! I don't think he wants you to change into someone that you think he'll like, when I bet he likes you the way that you are. So if I were you, because he doesn't like asking girls out, maybe you should go up to him and make the first move. What do you have to lose?
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