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my cuzin and his gf
ok my cuzin is 21 we r really close...he had a 19 yr old gf of 3 yrs....and she was really close to him...we went to get him situated for college a yr ago and it was far away frum his house and he missed his gf so bad he moved back...i mean...they wer just incredibly close...well sh got really posesive and weird on him so they broke up recently....she wont even speak to him now...hes called and she wont answer n everything...he even went to her house and she wasnt home and she had a box in the trash that he noticed and it was ALL the letters they wrote to eachother, the diamond ring he bought her, stufed animals, etc...he took the box home and hes really depressed...the bad thing is hes goin to anothr college now far away and shes goin ther too....hes really upset...hes lost wieght and everything...is ther nething i could do to help him?? =(
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just talk to him. im sure you already know what the problem is..but ask him what is bothering him. make him look on the bright side that hes gotten somewhere in his life by going to college and he has a family that loves him and friends that love him. just talk to him...be someone he can talk to with his problems
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College is so much bigger than high school, and there is so much more to do. He may not even see her while he is there. Just drop him a line now and then and ask how he is doing. There isn't that much you can do. You might ask him if he would take you to the football games every once in a while to see how he is doing. Hopefully, it will pass soon.
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well i see that he is your cousin and all but it hink this one yuo need to stay out of and then when they see eachother at college maybe he'll find out whats going on.....i think that it is very caring of you to try to help him
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nope, sorry hunni. just tell him you love him, and that you are always there for him. give him your oppinion on this girl if you want, but thats about all you can do.
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You should talk to him. Talk abouthow he's feeling, and why he's feeling this. And maybe write him notes and call him just to wish him a good day or see how he's going. Break ups are super hard... Specially of that long. She's probably torn up to. Just tell him to keep his head up and keep trying to get ahold of her if he wants her back. I hope all goes well. If ya need anything drop on in my inbox... Best wishes :)
-Britty-
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