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I have no love life!
Ok so My sister is totally alaways ranking on me because I've never had a b/f!I am a female 13 year old ! I get all depressed too. My friends alaways brag about there boyfriends and either I'M GETTING TIRED OF IT OR IM JEALOUSE!!! I dont know what to do! Boys just think of me as a friend and nothing more! My mom says its embrassing to ask them out but I am soooo confused! Tell me your oppinion!!!
*Double_B*
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What do you think having a boyfriend will do for you? Why should it matter whether you have a bf or not? And yes you will haev heard what im saying before but boys can wait! and your jelous, of what, the fact boys mess you around, lie, cheat, and often are generally crap, if you havent found someone yet, well no one has been right and you wouldnt have wanted them really anyway. And its not that bad asking people out, and if ur scared, do it on the phone!
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weoll i rank on my sisster because she doesnt have a b/f..i tell my sister that she needs to talk to bioys alot more..i always say oo hes cutie go talk to him..shes always saying no he proably doesnt like me!!!dont be jelous of your sister..you just need to talk to boys more!!
*hope i helped*
-BRIDGETTE
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First of alll what school do you go to? Another thing is im not saying you should change but guys usuall are attracted to big breasts. If you dont have them you could try to stuff or sometimes just wear different clothes. But if you dont want to do that than just try asking someone out. The worst they can say is no but i dought that they will try picking a guy that you like but you dont think hes had a girlfriend. Please write back to me so i can find out what happens.
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Try to tell your sister that her teasing bothers you. If that doesn't work just try ingnoring her. As far as the guys go, friendships are okay for now, at least until guys start to mature. Also there are lots of people out there that never have had a boyfriend at 13, it's perfectly normal. Hope you benifited some from my advice.
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Oh my God.
You're thirteen and you're worried about not having a boyfriend?! I'm eighteen and I've not had a boyfriend in over a year now. Enjoy your childhood, for goodness sakes! It's short enough. Hang out with your friends, do things you injoy. Do NOT worry about not having a boyfriend; you have plenty of time to enjoy that sort of thing in a few years time. Having guys as friends is the best, just go out there and enjoy it till you're ready for it.
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i have the same problem. i guess that we just have to wait till we get asked out.
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Don't let people give you crap for not having a boyfriend! Just tell them the truth, you haven't found a guy worth dating yet. There is no point to having a boyfriend for the sake of having a boyfriend. You should never have to feel bad for not having a guy! I didn't have a boyfriend until I was in college, and now I am happily married. So don't worry so much. With some time and patients you'll find a guy worth dating.
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Dont worry your so young its not really good to get in a realtionship that early you need time to explore and find out who you really are give your self a break and tell your sister to mind her own bizness you'll be in highschool soon everything will change .. but if your relly lookin to get guys to notcie you in a girlfriend way mabey try changing your image thats what i did just be careful! good luck!
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When I was 13 years of age, I too, had no boyfriend nor a prospect of one. It seemed as though all of my friends had boyfriends and I only had male chums. I listened and watched, learning much from the experiences of my friends, learning what mistakes not to repeat. I also had close male friends and learned to tune in to what they were saying about girls. Be yourself and don't try to get attention with outrageous clothing or behavior. Keep it simple and you will attract someone who is interested in YOU, not who you seem to be. As for your friends, they are not being true friends in the sense that they are ignoring your feelings. Sisters, on the other hand, will always be sisters!
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hehe don't rush yourself.. maybe your not into boys yet...and if you are they will find you and it will be when its least expected it's better to wait then to go out with any one that askes you!! trust me xoxo Kay
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ok. if there isnt someone special that you like right now then dont worry! if someone comes along and youre like WOW, then try and get to know him a little and flirt and stuff and if everything seems to be going ok then just ask him out. loads of people dont get their first bf until their much older than you so dont worry, your friends are probably exagirating anyway. maybe youre just not ready yet. good luck, RC
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I think you should just I guess be more of a social person to boyz. Mayb it will work. And your mom is definetly right about asking boyz out, it makes the girls feel like they would do anything for a boyfriend and its just not really cool. Just find the right person you like and go for it!Best of luck!
-Stephanie
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