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preasure hey alicia. you are soo pretty omg.you dont know me i just found your site. i need advice. it is goin to sound reallly dumb but oh well. my friends always talk about how they have gottn drunk adn stuff and i dont know i f i want to drink or not. i need to know if you do because u seem like really cool and nice and if you think i should still hang out with them even thought they might preasure me. answer ASAP
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NEVER drink!!! if they pressure you 2 much they aren't really your friends!! Find some new ones!! ]
If you are thinking about drinking just to fit in, then you should not do it. If you really want to, just for yourself, go ahead. Just make sure that you are old enough. ]
Thats kinda like me, My friends smoke weed. And I always wanted to try, but I thought to myself, what if? What if that was me like all them people are on the tv, talking about dying and stuff. You really shouldnt! I think if it were me and Alchoal no I wouldnt do it, I would make an excuse or go hang out with my mom or a different clique! Hope I Helped! ]
The bible says that you are not to get drunk. I know that giving in to peer-pressure is hard alotta times. You have to think it over. Go over in your mind the pros and cons of drinking. Like:
Pro: It would be fun Con: You would have a hangover. Also, if your friends are truly your real friends, then you should be able to tell them that you don't want to drink. You don't even have to go into detail, just say, "No thanks!" And that can be it. ]
If you dont want to then dont, your friends should be cool with that if they are really friends... And pressure is spelled
P-r-e-s-s-u-r-e. ]
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Well don't do anything you don't want to. And i know i'm not Alicia but i'm telling you that all you have to do is tell them that you're not drinking, and if they still try to force you to, then you don't need them.If they can't respect your desision then there's no need to be around them. ]
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