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I'm being used, so y can't I just walk away?
Hey Alicia, ok I'm really stuck & I need help. This guy named Josh has lived 2 doors down from me for about 5 years, but I just recently met him & we started hanging out. I thought he was cool & everything & I had fun hanging out with him, but slowly he started hinting that he wanted to fool around..By the way, he has a girlfriend..Well we would make out & stuff even tho I knew I shouldn't & he kept wanting to have sex, even tho he knew I was a virgin. Well one night, we were laying on his couch & we started messing around & one thing kinda led to another & we had sex. It wasn't in for very long at all, but I bled, so I knew that I had lost my virginity. He would keep inviting me down to his house & then would want to do it again, so it happened 2 more times, even tho I didn't even really wanna do it, but he kept asking & asking, so I gave in. If it wasn't bad enough that he has a gf, my 'first time' wasn't special or anything. I miss the Josh that I first met. But that was obviously a fake & it kinda disappointes me. Of course I have feelings for him cuz he's the furthest that I've gotten with anyone & I lost my virginity to him, but he's using me. We barely talk anymore, & the very few times he does IM me online, it's just to see if I want to "cum over." How can I get over & forget about him & try to move on? It's not fair that I have feelings for him & all he wants to do is use me because he doesn't get it from his gf or whatever. Please help me.
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Ya no one should be used, that's an awful feeling, but your better than that. If he asks you to "cum over" tell him anything BUT yes becuase you are going to hurt sooner or later. Guys change alot, people change, but you are just going to have to get past the fact that he isn't interested in you for 1.) he has a gf which he isn't faithful to, and 2.) he only wants sex. You deserve a guy who will be loyal and like you for you. Good luck!
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well first you should start ignoring this guy, when he asks you to come over..say your busy or you have other plans, or maybe you should tell him straight out that you have feelings for him and you dont appreciate being used. try getting closer to other people and soon enough youll find a guy who really likes you for who you are and not just sex.
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