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my best friend has 2 other bff and i just got used to it! but i can't stand one of them! no offence to my bff but i don't know what she is thinking! this girl is everything you would not want in a friend!
what should i do?
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You cant change weather a person likes someone or not maybe she sees other things in that girl other then what you dont .. so just let things be as it and try to be aroundt eh girl as less as possible otherwize you will really go up the wall. So just sit back and relax dont take everything so seriously. And spend time with your best friends as much as possible and maybe find another best friend. xoxo trix
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what i think u should do is start hanging out some other friends and she will start 2 miss you and then she will star hanging out more with you
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Try and explain to your friend that the person doesn't seem like they{the person} has good friendship . Express your concern for the person and just back off because if you don't you might as well push your friend toward the other person {that you think has no good friendship qualitys}.
There is only so much you can do to help a friend, you seem like a good friend you just have to let your friend be friends with whomever he/she wants and stay away from the person if you really can't stand to be around the person.
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Talk to her about this. What is it that she is doing that bothers you (the new friend)? Talk to your best friend about it, and try to talk to the other person if you want. Tell her what it is that bothers you. I would talk to them separately.
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I know you only want what's best for your friend, but these are her friends , and you have to respect that . If you think that these friends may influence her to drink, do drugs, or smoke then you need to talk about that with her . As long as she isn't influencing her to do negative things , then I am cool with the friendship . I know you are trying to do what's best for your friend , but this will probably start conflict between you two if you were to approach her like this . By .
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Maybe your friend does not see these bad qualities her friend has, or maybe she does and just excepts her for what she is. You have to remember, she is your friends friend, not yours. But if she is a bad person, and you think she might get your friend in trouble, you should have a chat with her about the way her firend is acting.
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Actually,its not your decision in the end. And how do you know what is always good for your friends. Sometime they need to make mistakes to help them learn. And maybe there is a reason she is hanging out with her. But the best thing to do is confront her, don't be around the bush (if you know what I mean). Thats the point of friends they should always be honest.
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Well, if it's only one of them you can't stand, then you still have 2 good friends. If your friend likes this girl, then you can't change her mind. If she really is as bad as you say, then your friend will soon see it.
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