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PLEASE HELP!!
Look,
My friend (we are in 7th grade, and we are 13) has a boyfriend thats a really bad kid. He does drugs, but she tells us that he told her he would stop. but i think that he's lying to her. She wont listen to me ahe thinks that he stopped but i know he diddnt. I just dont want her to go on the wrong path, she says she wont but i think she will. She probubly will without even knowing that.
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WELL I CAN RELATE BECUSE MT BOYFRIEND GETS HIGH ALL THE TIME AND MY FRIEND TALKED TO ME ABOUT AND AS SOON AS SHE DID I WENT AND TALKED TO MY BOYFRIEND YOU JUST HVE TO FIND SOME WAY TO TALK TO HER IF SHE WONT LISTEN MAKE HER
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If she thinks that he stopped and you think he didn't and she won't listen to you, then you need to prove to her that he still is doing it. Bring a camera with you where ever you go, and if you see him doing drugs, take a snap shot. or if you have seedn him do it before, then bring her along with you and show her what he does. If she doesn't beleive you, then obviosly she doesn't deserve a friend like you.
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I think you need to talk to your friend and make it clear to her that you know that this boy is wrong and that she need to either let him go or talk to him about his problem!! I hope it works!!
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You should atleast tell your friend that you think her boyfriend is still doing drugs. What are 13 year olds doing doing drugs anyway? But before you explain what you think, make sure you ahve evidence.And let her know she shouldn't follow the same path as him. He's bad news, all he will do is get her trouble, and she doesn't need that she is too young. If your friend doesn't believe you, you can only like the matter take its course. but atleast YOU will know you tired. And if she does happen to fall, you will still be there to catch her.
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What kinds of drugs? If it's something big (coke, heroin, that sort of stuff) then he could get hurt and you should tell someone right away. If it's just a puff of weed every now and then (that's what it sounds like) let them be. It's not exactly harmful (only one person has ever been killed by weed). Most people I know do it or have done it an some point in their lives.
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What drugs does he do? If they are relatively harmless then I wouldn't worry too much.
You should talk to your friend and tell her that you are worried. But if she thinks he has given up then he hasn't been pressurising her to do drugs with him.
13 is quite young to be doing drugs- how old is the boyfriend?
How long is the relationship likely to last?
Is your friend usually responsible?
If you start getting really worried then talk to an adult you trust.
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who cares it is not your problem!! If they get in some kin of trouble why is it your bussiness. so what who care no biggy. oh I hate theys kind of stupied q?
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ya bailey, alaina is so stupid anyways just let her be if she wants to act stupid and not listen let her, its her fault shes being so daft and thick-headed
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