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i like this guy and hes my friend a really good friend but hes really shy. right? and i thought he liked me by the way he acted but idk how ican find out with out him knowing or being too obvious. HELP
love stricken brunette
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You can't just look for signals when you want to know whether a guy likes you or not. Guys are the biggest flirts there are. So if a guy flirts like, one time, that doesn't mean he likes you. Just ask him. Or if you're uncomfortable with that, ask his guy friend to ask him. Sounds simple, eh?
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Well this is a tough one! I know because this same thing happend to me last year and what i did was flirt and see if he did it back maybe that will work with you too!
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Ok, I do this all the time! If you guys are close enough of friends, just ask him who he likes. Or get one of his GUY friends to ask him for you. That way it doesn't look obvious. K?
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Are you happy with just being his friend, or are you only his friend because you want it to be something more? Do you "like" him enough to risk ruining your friendship if the two of you ever broke up?
I think that the idea "you guys shouldn't date because it'll ruin your friendship" is rather stupid... Obviously you like him and want to date him. And, believe it or not, he probably has at least somewhat of a clue that you'd like to date him... You're probably sending him signals even if you're not meaning to... Smiling more at him, gazing lovingly into his eyes, laughing more at his not-so-funny jokes, talking to your friends about him more... So, I guess the question is, have you noticed him acting any differently around you? Has he been any more shy or uncomfortable around you lately? Has he ever mentioned the possibility of the two of you dating?
The bad news is, if you start analyzing every little thing he does as a signal, you are going to eventually go crazy. The only way to really find out for sure if he "likes you" is to ask him... Whether or not you ask him yourself depends on you... Some other popular methods among teenagers are the ever present "do you like me?" note, or the "get my best friend to ask him without me being around" technique. Other than that, you're going to have to keep guessing.
Of course, part of the fun of having a crush on a boy is the constant guessing of whether or not he likes you, and the giggling about how cute he is with your girlfriends. But when you grow tiresome of the giggles, and feel as though your head will explode with the constant guessing and anguish you're experiencing, maybe it's time to ask him out by yourself. Good luck!
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i think you need to tell him that you like it but if he's your really good friend i wouldnt waste a relationship with one of your good friends because after yall brake up yall wont even be a little bit of friends so i think you just need to talk to him!! i hope this advice works fro you!!
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