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I don't know if he likes me!
I've liked a certain guy for over a year, and finally let him know. I had my best friend tell him, but she told him in front of his friends. So, his friends started saying all this totally untrue stuff about me (like that I'm a slut & that I'm easy, even though I've never had sex w/ anyone!) My friend also told me that my crush likes someone else. I know I should get over him, but it's soooo hard. Any suggestions??
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I personaly think that you should try to get over this guy. I know it's hard, but just try talking to and meeting other people. and when you do find that special someone, tell him yourself, it will mean alot more to him if you do, and the good thing is your friend won't mess it up! good luck and i hope you find a guy who likes you and and has alot nicer friends! ;)
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well, what i do is walk up and down the halls in school and look at other guys to see wich ones i could also like. And there must be someone else that uve had ur eye on for a while. Or you could somehow get him to like you, but i dont recamend that, but its your choise.
GOOD LUCK!!
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Okay, first of all, YOU need to tell him his friends need to stop dissing you. Or better yet, tell THEM to stop spreading lies. Secondly, you do need to get over him. He's being an ass by letting his friends say all this mean stuff. Based on that, he does not deserve your affections. As for tricks for getting over him, take your diary and make a list of what you like about him and what you don't. Try to find more things you dislike than things you do. Could you really stand to be with a guy who has all those faults? I don't think so. ^_^
I've had this problem before, and it sucks. I hope everything works out. =)
-Siren
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YOU talk to him, his friend are just jelouse thats why they feel the need to spread fake rumours, talk to him more let him get to know you for who you really are so he can see for himself instead of having to go by the stupid rumours. dont let other people put you off each other.
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I think maybe you should try plucking up the corage to talk to your crush face-to-face and finding out if he really does like another person, and setting him straight on what his mates told him.
If it is all true then my best advice is to have a good hard cry, some comfort food and a night out with your mates :)
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