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get him to like me!


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 12:06 am

Hi, I'm sixteen and I'm having the typical boy issues. I can't go to my friends about it cause all they do is bring the topic back to themselves.
So I'm a junior in high school. I've never been kissed and i've never dated anyone. I feel so extremely lame. Some of my best friends have already had year long relationships and had sex. A girl I played on a u16 hockey team with just gave birth to her baby. Its totally not like I want to have sex, I just feel so lame not having even been kissed. Whenever anyone hears that i've never been kissed, they freak out because I'm "gorgeous. I have the whole blonde blue-eyed, white teeth skinny thing going on. I'm a lot of fun too.
I always like guys, they like me at first. Then they ...

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complicated:(


Posted Tuesday May 6 2008, 12:01 am

so i am like.. in love with my best guy friend. we are both 15 years old. we had liked each other about 2 months ago but he also liked another girl. him and i hooked up and stuff but after a while he started to like the other girl more. it was confusing on how they got together but he wasnt trying to be a jerk to me. now him and her are broken up because she was a jerk to him. should i make a move on him? im scared to do anything with him because i dont want to get hurt and he doesnt know that i like him still. half of me doesnt want him to know anyway.
helpppp:(

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how do i.... and him!! and how do i talk... communicate!!!!!


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 10:13 pm

soo the guy i've been crazy over...well we arent really friends...and well i like him...we arent friends because we arent getting along and we went out three times...all times hes ended it. well we might become friends now and i would really like that!!!! but i mean i know to be myself and to talk and communicate and to be there when he needs a friend, and to respect him and if he wants his time to be alone then i respectt. but i know what to do and how to be a friend...but then again in the same way i ma completely CLUELESS!!!!!!!!!!! i mean this saturday my choir is going to kings island and hes going to go to...but i wont really see him...he isnt in my group...but if i see him what do i do...i mean we arent really at the talking stage, o...

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telling him I like him


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 10:06 pm

hey so i really like this guy and we have been flirting for a couple months now and nothings really happening, so I decided im going to tell him how I feel.So I was wondering if anyone had any advice on how I should tell him. We sit next to each other is one of my classes and his locker is near mine. Oh and I want to do this in person, no AIM, txt,or stuff like that. thanks in advance for your help!

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Theres this guy i liked and were dating now but......


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 8:16 pm

Well Im in 8th grade and hes in 6th grade. Im 13. Hes 12. He really cute. Well last night was our last school dance. I thought i should ask him to dance because he wont be at the dances next year because ill be at the high school and i would have to wait for 2 years. Well one of my friends boyfriend is his friend. So my friends ask him to ask the guy i like if he would dance with me. He said yeah and he asked me. He asked if i had a boyfriend and why i didnt have one and stuff like that. Then he asked me out and i said yeah. But now i dont know if he actually likes me or if he felt sorry for me. WHAT DO U GUYS AND GIRLS THINK?
Heres another thing. Im not that good with boys...as boyfriends....i can talk to guys who are my friends ea...

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anniversary ideas


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 4:45 pm

My bf and I havent been going out for too long. but next week, on May 12 is our 3 month anniversary. most couples don't do anything but i really wanna show him i care this time because for our one month and two-month, he did extremely amazingly sweet things like leaving 61 roses in my locker with a note attached to each one, telling me how special i am after we dated for two months (61 days). He did something INCREDIBLY sweet on our one month too. I know that its not a big deal and people don't normally do stuff like that but i really wanna show him I care too since I usually end up sitting there and accepting everything without giving anything back. So what should I do?? Like nothing big but something cute and sweet and extremely unique an...

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my friends ex


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 11:19 am

ok well my best friend went out with this guy and he broke up with her and now i like him. we talk all the time and she has a new bf and it was a pretty long while ago that they broke up. i dont want to tell her because she might be mad but i think he likes me too. what to do??

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birthday gift idea. :]


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 10:31 am

Ok so my boyfriend's birthday is May 17, and I had this idea for one of his gifts.

We have this inside joke, where we were talking this one time, and I said something dumb like, "You're 89 point 10 % nerd" or something like that, cause we were just joking around. :-P

So I know that sounds absolutely ridiculous, but we think it's funny and say it all the time. So for one of his gifts, I thought I'd get 89 hershey kisses to symbolize 89 kisses (obviously haha). But I'm stuck on what I should do to complete the whole "..point 10" thing.

So any ideas? It's random, I know, but I'll take any ideas into consideration. :]


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I need to know about girls


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 10:14 am

I am 13 and really upset all the girls think im sexually frustrated and now none of them will go out with me. what should i do?

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Am I crazy to think I'm in love?


Posted Monday May 5 2008, 12:31 am

Hi. I'm an 18/f. I've been dating my boyfriend, Joe (also 18 years old), for 4 months now, and I can honestly say I've never been happier. Even though he's 5 states away for college, he still comes to town at every chance available and I talk to him everyday over the phone, through MSN messenger, and through text messages. He came here for my senior prom and we spent 2 weeks together in March.. it's been magical.

We've fought and have had our bad days (or weeks, sometimes), before, but we always work things out openly and honestly with each other. He's the first person in a long line of loser guys to actually make me feel like I'm worth everything.

I've told my friends that I've had thoughts about ending up wit...

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13 and kinda prude.


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 9:56 pm

i just got my first kiss. and i REALLY REALLY REALLY want to make out with a guy. but all the guys i know and/or go out with are kinda prude and dont make out with girls.
so my questions are;
1. how do you make out with toung and without tounge
2. how do i get a guy to make out with me
3. how can i make sure im a good kisser.
lol thanks!

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answer please


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 8:56 pm

How do you french kiss really good?? and how do you make out and kiss really good?? i know it is based on what your partner likes, i looked on google but nothing really helped. So please tell me everything you know!! haha

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seeing him again in 2 weeks.


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 5:13 pm

16/female =)

okay so basically theres this guy. and i don't like him now but i see him like once a month or once every 2 months. we've been friends for a few years. anyways, i feel like everytime we hang out or i see him (he's in my youth group so that's usually when i see him now.. but we were friends before youth group) i start liking him. i feel like there's like something between us. my friends tell me that he looks at me differently than he looks at other girls. i feel like he's like embarrassed to like me because a lot of people from his school (including his friends) don't like me. (LONG STORY). but anyways we hooked up at like the beginning of december (he made the first move) and well i'm seeing him again in 2 weeks ...

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confused.


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 5:07 pm

okay well. basically i likED this guy. i might still i'm not really sure. but he's liked me on and off for like 2 YEARS. yes years. and i feel like that's a reallly long time. but anyways i finally started liking him a few weeks ago. but i'm not really sure if that's because i actually liked him or just because there was no one else to really like. see this is my problem i constantly feel like i have to like someone because it just keeps me occupied. i don't know. like before that i had a thing with this other guy and we got in a fight so i just went back to the guy that i know will always like me. it's bad i know. but see this guy is like one of my best friends and i can talk to him about anything and trust him with anything but it just fr...

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whats happening to our relationship


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 5:00 pm

ok i have been dating this guy for 8 months and things were going great until yesterday on our 8th month anniversary he started snapping at me about some guy who was asking me to be his girlfriend. he got really mad and started cussing at me. its like he lost control of himself and turned into this monster or whatever. and today he did the same thing and he kept asking the same question over and over again until i snapped at him and said something i shouldnt have said and then he got really pissed and signed off of aim. until 2 hours later and now our conversation is really awkward. how do i break this awkwardness? i apolgized and he said he forgave me. but still. how do i break it and how can i control how much we fight?

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is this a big deal?


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 4:55 pm

Okay so i was on the computer with my boyfriend and his friend and they were on some girls profile on facebook... i know the girl really likes my boyfriend and has since she met him. last september i was really jealous of her because they saw each other a lot more then me and my boyfriend do. But i got over it. Anyways they were looking at her profile and my boyfriend says to his friend yeah if she adds you im sure you could get pictures out of her i mean she sent me ones of her in her bra. So I didnt want to jump to conclusions i didnt want to accuse him of asking for them so i tried to keep myself from getting angry at him so i asked him if i could talk to her about it ( ive always been nice to her even though after we met in person she t...

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is it just me?


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 4:40 pm

ok so like sometimes i'll be like "yah i'm kinda slow in the head" if i say something stupid and my bf will be like its ok you're cute. Or i'll ask if he's mad at me and he'll be like you're too cute to be mad at.

Is it just me or does that sound totally mean? like oh your personality sucks but you're physically attractive so i put up with it.

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in love with someone elses man


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 4:31 pm

15/f. this might be long...

So I guess starting last summer I started talking to this guy lets say R. We didn't talk like to get together but just as friends. But we dont go to school together. I met him because I went out with his brother. So after a while I told him I liked him, but nothin ever happened. He would come to my house a couple times over this course. Well now I really really care for him. Like i love him to death but I dont want him to know like I dont wanna mess up our relationship. But I can tell he knows it. Oh and hes 17 though. He's a junior but he has a girlfriend that's a senoir. Me and her are cool and all. Like she invited me to one of her parties I went it was all good. But like I love him, and it rea...

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questionable bf...


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 3:53 pm

so theres this guy and he's kinda my bf i guess and he says that he only wants me and all that stuff but like on his facebook most of his friends are highschool girls with slutty pictures. He's 22 so yeah thats kinda nasty but he says that he just accepts everyone that requests him. And he wants to try a threesome (with another girl) so i don't know i mean i don't think it would really bother me if he was cheating or not i just wanna know if he's lying to me.

any advice?

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kissing tricks


Posted Sunday May 4 2008, 3:43 pm

me and my boyfriend only just make-out and french. we are always open to try new things but we dont know what to try. any ideas?
all are welcome =] thx!

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