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seeing him again in 2 weeks.
16/female =)
okay so basically theres this guy. and i don't like him now but i see him like once a month or once every 2 months. we've been friends for a few years. anyways, i feel like everytime we hang out or i see him (he's in my youth group so that's usually when i see him now.. but we were friends before youth group) i start liking him. i feel like there's like something between us. my friends tell me that he looks at me differently than he looks at other girls. i feel like he's like embarrassed to like me because a lot of people from his school (including his friends) don't like me. (LONG STORY). but anyways we hooked up at like the beginning of december (he made the first move) and well i'm seeing him again in 2 weeks and i don't know what to do. it's always awkward when i see him and we don't talk that much but i want to change that. how can i get the guts to just like go up to him and give him a hug and say hi like all the other girls do? i just feel like it's awkward because we hooked up. and everyone in our youth group knows we did so it's like embarrassing because i feel like they're all watching us when we talk. i don't really want to like him again because it never gets anywhere. so tips on not liking him again? or should i let myself like him again? the problem is it always drives me crazy when i do. and even if he likes me back he's just really difficult. i know he doesn't want a relationship.. (he's never had one either). he's basically just a really big flirt but when it comes to me he's different. usually he just like leads girls on. i was the first (and only) girl he ever actually made out with.
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aw, i actually think this story is really cute haha. you should try to think of how he feels when you wonder why he isn't coming up to you and hanging out with you at youth group after you guys hooked up. think of how you feel, and think of why you aren't going up to him, because your embarassed because everyone knows? thats probably how he feels too! if your friends say he looks at you differently, he made the first move,and your the only girl he's kissed, he obviously likes you! i think you should definitely like him becaues it seems like it would be a good relationship, who cares what his friends think! like seriously they don't matter AT ALL, and maybe if this works and things get serious you can try to resolve and patch up your problems with them. but only if you want because that isn't the point. next time you have youth group, even if everyone is watching you and it might feel awkward be brave and walk across the room, go up to him and talk to him with as much confidence as you can. or if you are hanging out with one of your friends and you both go up to him then it won't be as much pressure on you. if you do go up to him alone (which i think you should) he will be surprised by your bold move and prob. be happy, just try to be chill and don't act weird or anything and have a casual talk. and if you have his phone number DEFINITELY text him. it might be harder to text him like out of the blue, so go up to him at your youth group and act like nothing is wrong and just be confident which is the most important thing. then if you talk to him you should definitely text him when you get home. this way you guys can talk and flirt without eeryone watching you, his friends knowing, or either of you guys feeling pressured. and if he doesn't act interested at youth group it's probably because he is just nervous in front of everyone, and some people get awkward after they've had their first kiss and want the other person to make the move, so you should do that! so you say he is a big flirt and leads girls on, but notice how your the only one he's every actually pursued and cared about :) not just ohh let me flirt with her and lead her on, then whatever i'll just forget about her. he actually likes you still. and most importantly,remember: usually the guys that are the most difficult to have relationships with are the most worth it in the end.
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