Theres this guy i liked and were dating now but......
Question Posted Monday May 5 2008, 8:16 pm
Well Im in 8th grade and hes in 6th grade. Im 13. Hes 12. He really cute. Well last night was our last school dance. I thought i should ask him to dance because he wont be at the dances next year because ill be at the high school and i would have to wait for 2 years. Well one of my friends boyfriend is his friend. So my friends ask him to ask the guy i like if he would dance with me. He said yeah and he asked me. He asked if i had a boyfriend and why i didnt have one and stuff like that. Then he asked me out and i said yeah. But now i dont know if he actually likes me or if he felt sorry for me. WHAT DO U GUYS AND GIRLS THINK?
Heres another thing. Im not that good with boys...as boyfriends....i can talk to guys who are my friends easliy but im shy around my boyfriends....usually he has to start a conversation because i dont know what to say...what should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xlovexx463 answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 7:56 pm: I don't think he's going out with you because he feels sorry for you at all! I bet he asked you out because he was flattered that you liked him. He probably then realized that he liked you. I wouldn't stress too much because the point is that you two are together. Guys at his age usually don't think too long and hard about which girls they like. He probably woke up once you came right out and said it.
Honestly, don't worry honey. I don't think guys at his age would ask girls out out of pity anyways. Now you two can build on the relationship and I'm sure your feelings for each other will grow.
Good luck!
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anniemaylane answered Wednesday May 7 2008, 7:51 pm: Okay. This is a typical school day thing, and here's how to deal:
If you can answer these with all yes's then He's so deffinatly into you:
1. He seems intrested in you by the way he looks at you, or a certain way he talks.
2. He wants to spend time with you as much as you do with him. Such as dances, calling on the phone, leaving notes in each others lockers, ect.
3. MOST IMPORTANT! You feel that he WANTS to be with you, and he's not presured. Or ...desprate.
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