Hi. I'm an 18/f. I've been dating my boyfriend, Joe (also 18 years old), for 4 months now, and I can honestly say I've never been happier. Even though he's 5 states away for college, he still comes to town at every chance available and I talk to him everyday over the phone, through MSN messenger, and through text messages. He came here for my senior prom and we spent 2 weeks together in March.. it's been magical.
We've fought and have had our bad days (or weeks, sometimes), before, but we always work things out openly and honestly with each other. He's the first person in a long line of loser guys to actually make me feel like I'm worth everything.
I've told my friends that I've had thoughts about ending up with Joe in the long-term, like us getting married and all. They think I'm crazy. Am I? Am I being completely irrational for daydreaming about wedding bells?
Also- I'm not in any rush to get married- I want to finish college and get my own place and everything before I make any committments to anyone. So I'm not after a ring just to get married young. I can wait. But I can't see myself being happy with anyone but him.
There are plenty of us that see wedding bells before our counterparts do. And because you're at such a young age, it might make heads turn a bit more. It's perfectly ok and rational to daydream about wedding bells and what the caterer would serve.
Just keep the more imminent goals in focus. Because they're going to happen a lot sooner than a wedding.
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