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Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 1:17 pm
uhm yeah a little awkward question LOL
so i have a boyfriend and weve been dating for a while and hell never tell me this but i can tell he wants me to give him a hand job or blow job. I was wondering if girls could tell me simple tricks that worked really well and guys liked. ANd guys if you can tell me what you liked
thanks everyone!
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cute things to do for the guy
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 11:24 am
so this boy and i have been "talking and having a thing for each other for like over a year" but ive had other hook ups and crushes during that but recently in the last 4/5 months we have got so much closer and no guy matters, like hes all i want. he took me on a date in july, it was amazing. and we just went to homecoming together, and it was even more amazing. plus we just hooked up for the first time at homecoming (making out) so we are taking it extremely slow, but when he took me out he paid for everything and was such a gentleman. i loved it. plus he knows i like him and i know he likes me. im not sure if its time for an offical realionship, because we bascially are dating..but my question is: what are some cute things that ...
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in love with my ex; what to do?
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 6:45 am
15/f
It was finally over with me and my ex boyfriend just over a month ago. See, up to the point that I met him, no one ever really cared about me. No one. And slowly I lost more and more people that I could talk to. For the first time in my life, I actually met someone that cared about me, that loved me, that adored me and would do anything for me.
The relationship was on and off for about a year, but he always loved me and he was always there for me.
Then suddenly, he was acting as if I didn't exist. I have never been through anything so hard in my entire life. I had no one. After this went away, and I started feeling better about myself, I realised that I was in love with him.
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ummm... guys?! were do i start?
Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 5:24 am
hey im kind of a shy person and i want to be loud and outgoing.
i really want a bf and i dont have many guy friends in or out of school.
(only one close guy friend who is like one of my best friends, i like him but hes 3 years younger then me so thats out of the question.)
i dont know how to become close to guys in school and find guy friends out of school.
also im not very good a flirting and being myself around guys what can i do to fix that?
thanx in advance
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Posted Sunday September 28 2008, 5:00 am
okay so i'm in college & i've seen this kid matt around school who lives in my building around campus and i think he is soo attractive. well, he was at a party that i was at tonight and i played pong against him..how wouldn't it be weird to add him as a friend on facebook & start talking to him? i need help asap!!! thanks :)
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confused
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 11:55 pm
im sarah, f/14
his name is greg, m/15 but only by a few months
okay so i am pretty sure this guy likes me but i wanna know what you think
alright so i met this guy this year and he is in my last bell, he flirts with me a LOT! but he flirst with some other girls in our class too
however im starting to get suspicious, this is why
-he have confinded in me a few times
-we had to write a paper and in his i was beautiful sarah? his ex girlfriend(at first he wanted to rape me in his story but then our teacher said it wasnt appropiate)
-i told him about my dream and how some guy asked me out and he asked if he was jelous in my dream
-in the hallway he came up and put his arm ar...
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Senior
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 10:14 pm
Okay so I reeeally like this guy in my school. He's been my sister's friend for a long time and I've hung out with him a few times but never really talked to him. He's really hott and I really want to get to know him and stuff. But the problem is he's a senior and I'm only a freshman. So what should I do to get him to notice me and stuff? I have lunch with him on A days... xD Thanks.
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boyfriend, weed, bulimia
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 8:35 pm
Okay here it goes ( i posted asking for help but wouldn’t say what but now I decided to just say everything)..I have a boyfriend of 9 months as of the first of October he lives five hours away, well I kind of want a relationship here and lately we’ve been really disagreeing on things. i admit, i smoke marijuana but i really don’t think that its that bad.but yeah, i do it during lunch at school but have c's or higher in all my classes but one. My boyfriend hates it that i get high period. I want to stop for him but i love being high it feels so much better than sobriety and another thing i used to be bulimic but i stopped for three months but like a week ago i gave up and started throwing up. my boyfriend also doesn’t approve of this...
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What do i say?
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 8:17 pm
So it goes like this.. me and this guy have been friend for about 3-4 yrs. I had feelings for him in the beginning but they subsided b.c. "we're friends" and i didnt want to ruin that. I always said i would only get with him if he told me he wanted to be with me first.. one day about 3 weeks ago we were hanging out and he kissed me. for about a week and a half after that i would get txts everyday and we'd always talk but then the txts stopped coming. we would chill and still kiss but i wasnt sure on letting him go further. when i denied him the txts really never came and now idk what to do. i want to tell him that i have feelings for him but i dont want to look dumb. I dont want him to hurt me b.c. i dont want to jeoprodize our friendship.. URGH what do i do?
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My relationship
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 5:18 pm
Ok so im sure youve gotten a lot of questions about relationships...but maybe not like this. ok, so i have a black boyfriend. i'm not black but im mixed and have been brought up into a white family so yeah.
Im pretty sure my moms boyfriend isnt racist but when i asked her if he could come over here, she said he'd throw a fit and that it was a completely different ballgame just because he is black. the way i see it, is boys no matter what skin color are all basically the same in general.
So ive already been to his house after convincing her i could and she said not to tell him about the whole situation. So yeah, my boyfriend and i are almost to a month and arent like in love yet but i mean we do like eahcother alot and i just d...
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taking me for granted
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 4:25 pm
my boyfriend and i have been dating for quite some time now he and i are both in school but we both go to different schools. he is getting a lot of homework and plus he works at night at the radio station. so we are getting to spend less and less time together and it doesnt even seem like he cares that we arent spending alot of time like we used to. it feels like he's taking my time and my love for granted and he thinks that i will always be there to talk to him. what can i say to him to make him understand my time won't alwasy be available and he shouldnt taken me for granted
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Awkward
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 3:46 pm
I want this guy to like me, and he kind of does but not enough to go out with me and I asked him out and he likes one of my friends. What do I do? I still want him to like me but I want to go out with him too but if he just wants to be friends I dont want it to be awkward.
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what do i say?
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 1:05 pm
i'm 16 years old, almost 17 in about 3 months, and i've never had a real boyfriend or been kissed.
yeah :\
SO. there's this kid i like. and last year in school (sophomore year) we had one class together but i NEVER talked to him. so this year, thankfully, i have a 2nd chance, and we have history together! and even better, i sit RIGHT next to him. problem: i don't know what to say to him. AND i have like no chance to talk to him in that class because my teacher is kind of scary and talks the whole time and gives us notes.
what should i say to him? i'm pretty shy at first, so i have no clue how to start a conversation with him. there's just nothing to really talk about? i was thinking of dropping my pen (i know, l...
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insane mess!
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 12:35 pm
okay so theres this kid and hes my neighbor. we went out for a while then he moved and then came back into his same house. were a couple years apart. hes a little older. and weve hung out and what not. well there was a rumor that weve been having sex and its not true. he acutally started it when he was drunk. wel i guess he has a girlfriend now which im kinda upset about. i dont get it bc when we hung out we really really connected and i thought it was alot of fun. but did he? bc he got a girlfriend 2 days after. then he just stopped talking to me. well now ive been talking to and hangin out with his best firned. sence we were kinda friends before this. and i dont know what to do. i dotn like his friend i still like him. he says hi to me st...
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Im turning 16 in dec. hes turning 18 in nov.
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 11:07 am
ahh! i need boy help.
this guy lets call him mike, he asked me out on wednesday and i said yes because i like him a lot! So, obviously now im the happiest girl on the earth. But, heres a problem... I'm a sophmore and hes a senior! Well, hes turning 18 in november and i'm turning 16 in december. Well, I know once he turns 18, everything illegal. But i snuck out last sunday to see him and i got caught so my mom doesn't really like the sound of him. I've been giving hints by wearing his football jeresy home, he picks me up for school every morning [but i go to my bus stop so my mom doesn't see that but yesterday he got me at my house because it was pouring] My mom like doesn't trust me with him! What can i do to make my mom li...
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It's bothering me.
Posted Saturday September 27 2008, 5:04 am
For the past 5 months...or in fact more, I haven't been attracted to any guys.
I'm straight, so it's not like that, but I mean I talk to a lot of guys, a lot of them cute and everything, but I don't like like anyone.
This bothers me because I'd love to have a boyfriend I could spend time with. But I don't.
Arrhh. What the hell is going on with me?
15/F
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so there's this guy
Posted Friday September 26 2008, 9:35 pm
okayy, i'll start with a short biography.
well i'm 17[next month]. haha. im a female. and.. i've NEVER had a boyfriend. [unless elementary school counts]. i have been asked out alot in middle school. not so much highschool. in highschool i got really insecure around guys, and i didn't dare to flirt with guys because my past experiences with flirting.. and once i was playing rate you, rate me with a bunch of frinds plus other people. and this one guy rated me a 1 on a scale from 1-10. that really got to me. i couldn't get over it for a LONG time. and i started to pick out my flaws alot more in the mirror till that was all i saw, so i got really unconfident. i would keep asking my friends if they thought i was ugly and stuff. i just f...
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wanting the past back.
Posted Friday September 26 2008, 4:24 pm
ok so say your boyfriend breaks up with you because yall dont ever see each other but yet u dont care and yet he breaks up with you.
you want to get back together with him but hes over it.
so yall decide to be friends but its sooo awkward how do i get him back?
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I’m not sure where to go from here…
Posted Friday September 26 2008, 3:51 pm
I was in a relationship, and had a male friend who I had a real connection with. When both our lives (me and the friend’s) got busy, I kind of let go of the friendship. My relationship was on the rocks (I sort of knew I should never have gotten so involved with that boyfriend in the first place...) and I was afraid that if I continued to hang out with him I might do or say something inappropriate.
So, I’ve been out of that relationship for while now and I had dinner with my old guy friend and well, the feelings came pouring back really quickly. Although I know he had a bit of a crush on me before, I’m not sure he if he does now. For all I know he might have met someone.
I’m not sure what to do now or w...
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How do I get them to ask me out?
Posted Friday September 26 2008, 3:35 pm
(I'm sorry about the length)
Weeell, I'm 14, and I kind of need some help. See, this is pretty much what I'm like: I'm pretty, not beautiful, but, you know, pretty high above norm. I'm smart, I guess. I laugh EXTREMELY EASILY-not in an obnoxious way, but I have a very boy-ish sense of humor, and I'm pretty funny myself, too. Last part, I'm very shy in school. But, anyways, I've noticed boys really like being around me. And I feel totally comfortable around them. A lot of popular boys are always teasing me, talking to me, you know. A LOT of boys like me, too, which makes them fool around with me a lot more, and I totally LOVE my "gift" as most people call it! I'm so lucky. But here's my problem. None of them have ever asked ...
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