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so there's this guy
okayy, i'll start with a short biography.
well i'm 17[next month]. haha. im a female. and.. i've NEVER had a boyfriend. [unless elementary school counts]. i have been asked out alot in middle school. not so much highschool. in highschool i got really insecure around guys, and i didn't dare to flirt with guys because my past experiences with flirting.. and once i was playing rate you, rate me with a bunch of frinds plus other people. and this one guy rated me a 1 on a scale from 1-10. that really got to me. i couldn't get over it for a LONG time. and i started to pick out my flaws alot more in the mirror till that was all i saw, so i got really unconfident. i would keep asking my friends if they thought i was ugly and stuff. i just felt so ugly, so i got really insecure around guys and if they tryed to flirt with me, i would turn away or pretend they had no impression on me when they did. so after that game, i've had no luck with having guys ask me out. haha. sad. but some how, this year, i'm confident again[i think it's my emo medicine or god] haha. i just don't care what other people think any more and i'm not insecure, instead i laugh when i do something i use to would've thought would be embarrassing.
okayy so im getting a little better with guys, yet i think i still kinda suck because i have no experence. i think this one guy liked me, but i dont think he does anymore. [i didn't like him/ prylly why]
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okayy, well this is about another guy, haha.
he goes to my school. he's drop dead sexy. i don't know his name :[
he is in my advicement, but we only have advisement maybe once a month. and the only other time i see him is when going from first to second, but i would have to run to catch up, haha.
well, i have spoke to him before. last year after school at soccer tryouts. i tryed to get his attention so i kicked a ball really hard at his head. it was funny. then he was like bragging "that girl kicks hard" haha. well, like i said before. i was insecure. like the next time we had advicement after that, he was still bragging and trying to talk to me. but i ignored him because i was so scared and you know insecure. i really regret that now. im pretty particular when it comes to guys and he is so my type, haha. i really want to just talk to him but i barely see him, and who knows when the next time i will have advicement again. sometimes when i stay after school, i see him playing football out on the field[he's not on the football team].
any advice with what to say, or how to get his attention, or catch up to him, haha. i don't think any of my friends know him, and i've never had a class with him. i just really hope he likes me. my friends now say im pretty or cute..etc. i just hope i'm his type, haha >.<
please help, any advice, any stories, or just any words to say is appreciated.
also thanks in advance :]
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Hi,
I'm glad you got your self-esteem up and got your confidence back. That's hard to do. Good for you. No one is perfect. Someone is always going to find something wrong with you. YOu just have to shrug it off and move on.
As far as the guy is concerned, he probably thinks you don't want to be bothered since you ingnored him. That's okay. Don't dwell on it. Try this. The next time you are in advicement with him, try to sit next to him and just start up a conversation. Just say something simple like "how's your head?" That should break the ice a little bit. Once that's done, say "why aren't you on the football team? I see you playing on the field a lot. YOu're really good." Men love compliments. That should get thing going. Hopefully after that everythimg you see each other you'll talk and maybe exchange numbers. Start off slow. I hope things work out for you.
Good luck,
Ediemarie
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