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ummm... guys?! were do i start?
hey im kind of a shy person and i want to be loud and outgoing.
i really want a bf and i dont have many guy friends in or out of school.
(only one close guy friend who is like one of my best friends, i like him but hes 3 years younger then me so thats out of the question.)
i dont know how to become close to guys in school and find guy friends out of school.
also im not very good a flirting and being myself around guys what can i do to fix that?
thanx in advance
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Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Don't become "loud" because that may come off as being obnoxious (and guys find that annoying), but I understand what you mean by that.
If you want a boyfriend (and believe me, there's no rush), just act normal! Seriously, guys like girls who are themselves and who are relaxed.
And flirting (without being too over-the-top) can be just smiling.
Be confident, you can do it :] !
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Yeah i can definetely relate to this. Personally im pretty shy too and i know firsthand how hard it can be to talk to new people and especially guys.
I know its hard but sometimes you have to step out of your comfort zone while still being yourself. Maybe you could find like a group of people that have similar interests as you or are shy like you. I've found that since im shy too, if you talk to another shy person it doesnt feel as awkward.
Anyway, maybe you could join a club at your school. Thats an easy way to meet just people in general.
And how did you meet your friend who is three years younger than you? Maybe you could start hanging out with him and his friends and see what happens. hope this helps kayla
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