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legal?


Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 1:31 am

Is it legal for a 15 year old to date or have sex with an 18 year old in the state of Florida?

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Doesn't make much sense...


Posted Saturday January 23 2010, 12:05 am

Me and this guy have been talking for about a month or so. We hungout a few times during winter break and whatnot then when school started,we have a class together so we'd talk a lot ,he'd kiss me in school ,sit with me at lunch,all that stuff.Last week,during the school week we hungout a lot after school at the gym and at the library to do our homework and went out to eat etc. and on the weekend we made plans to chill ,but his family was coming down and he had a sweet sixteen to go to,so he didn't talk to me to much. This week at school,he didn't even realize how he ditched me and acted totally normal in class and kissed me ,etc and we hungout after school a few times and again made plans for the weekend. Friday (today) comes around and ...

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I have a boyfriend but I'm in love with another guy.


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 11:54 pm

Female - age: 16

I'm in quite a dilemma.
First off, I have an amazing boyfriend and he's really great. But...I don't really love him anymore. I can't see myself spending the rest of my life with him.
I'm in love with this other guy who is absolutely perfect. He's just a friend but I really want to be more and I could actually picture myself being with him forever. I feel stronger about this other guy than my own boyfriend.

What should I do?
How should I tell my boyfriend this without completely breaking his heart?
How do I tell this other guy what I feel?

Help!!!

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Makes me smile everytime


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 10:21 pm

So i like this guy, and he likes me. We text pretty much all day pretty much everyday. We know eachother from a class we had together, well we dont have that class anymore. When we had the class together we were just friends and did nothing more than casual flirting because he has a crazy ex girlfriend. Well the other day we talked for the first time in person and it was kind of awkward. I dont know if it was because all these friends of mine kept coming up to me and hugging me or if it was my friends always coming up to me or people continually saying hi.
How can i make it not awkward?


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Where do I go from here?


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 8:38 pm

There was this guy I was together with for about a month. We're total opposites. He's a punk, class clown, partier and I'm a nerdy good girl. His friends said he liked me, and he always did little things that showed that he cared about me. Even though it was only a month, he really opened up to me and I saw a more mature, serious side of him that most people don't see. Then, he told me that he didn't want a serious relationship. He said that he once had really liked me and he wanted a serious relationship, but it just didn't feel right and he changed his mind. I talked to him about it and I could see where he was coming from. He was in one before and got hurt, and he said it wasn't my fault However, he said "I have a lot of girls that ...

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Addicted to a toxic relationship


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 10:02 am

I'm 22/f. I need some unbiased help with this.
I've been involved with this guy for four years. To sum the whole mess up, he doesn't treat me well psychologically, and I'm turning into someone I don't like as a result of having to play mind games with him, and as a result of trying to get him to treat me right.
At this point, it's an addiction, and I need to get out of this relationship.
The problem is that it IS an addiction. I've tried to break up with him about five times in the past two months. I was so close last time, but when he said "If you do this, you'll lose me completely," I cracked and said we could keep trying.
I don't know why, he's not even a good friend to me. I have no fear of bein...

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Does he like me too?!


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 1:07 am

17/F
So I basically just don't know where to turn really. One of my friends in his group really reminds me of my ex. I might add that just recently we all started hanging out a lot so it's not like i've been good friends with him for a long time. But we really got to know eachother really well and found out we have a lot in common. Even our nightly tv show line up it's crazy. Well this is how it was with my ex. We had everything in common but he had these little things he said and did that drove me completely insane! Well the boy ilike now is everything except those things. But the problem is I don't know if he likes me back. I know for a fact that he and my friend "k" like eachother but can't let it go anywhere, and also d...

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One complicated boy mess..


Posted Friday January 22 2010, 12:25 am

So ive been dating this guy, lets call him x, for almost a year.. and thigs are getting... too familiar.. like im just so used to him alWays being there... and since Were basically never apart, Weve both sorta lost most of our friends.. and i hate it. But getting to the problem, im not compelty sure if i feel the same Way about him as i did a year ago... and making things more ocomplicated.. im not completly over my ex, Who i dated for about a year and a half.. like anytime i see him With his currently girlfriend, i Feel sorta jealous, and as if that could still be me.. and also, i have a slight crush on one of my friends,Who ive been hanging out With more.. so im really unsure of What to do, and im unsure of Where my head is at... so any advice Would be very helpful! thanks!:)

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Guy Friend


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 9:43 pm

I am friends with this guy for about 6 years now. Im just wondering, how can I tell if he likes me? He is very sweet and im falling for him hard.
Please help f/15

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Girls being witty?


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 9:40 pm

15/f
There is this guy i like and he is pretty funny. However when we talk we tease eachother and are exact opposities. Its almost like the movie THE PROPOSAL and THE UGLYTRUTH.
Im just wondering if funny guys thinks intelligent, and witty girls are interesting and attractive. I really lke this guy. Please answer. it would be a great help. Thanks :)

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the girl in history class


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 6:15 pm

k, so there is this really cute girl in my history class, im a year older then her. I just moved to Montreal,Canada not to long ago, I waited a while then tried to add her on facebook but she declined. I havent really talked to her cause i dont know what to say to really catch her attention and intrest, im good looking but i think she is more attracted to personality, so what personality characteristics does the average girl find attractive in a guy? Im just affraid she might think im a creep or something and i really dont want that.

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First Date


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 8:22 am

14/m

This Saturday(Jan 23) i have my first date with a girl. We're goin to see a movie, and i need any advice for my first date, this will be her second date as she went out with some other guy. Neither of us has kissed anyone.

So any advice would be great thanks :)

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Me, my boyfriend and his ex.


Posted Thursday January 21 2010, 12:33 am

15/f
I've been going out with this guy for a little over 2 months. We were friends before that. His ex was one of my friends. She cheated on him a few times and all that. He deserved better. But now she claims she loves him, but she also likes another guy. She's not making any sense. She said she loved him but she also hates him, for asking me out and so on. But the thing is, she said she's totally fine with me, she only feels bad for me cause I'm dating him. I know I shouldn't let this stuff get to me. But it does, and you can't really help it.

So he is the sweetest guy to me and I know he cares about me. He was my first kiss but now its like weird. Only because it's not like a normal fast kiss anymore. He's more into...

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taken :/


Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 8:35 pm

16/f
On New Years Eve my friends and I went to my best friend's boyfriend's house. A bunch of his friends were there, they're seniors and my friends are juniors. I ended up flirting with his good friend who I always thought was really hot and there was just something about him but I had never even talked to him before that night. I never thought about being with him since he has had the same girlfriend since practically freshman year. I hear that he really doesn't like her, it's one of those things that they've been going out so long that it's just easier to be together until they go off to college...who knows. I was confused because yeah guys can be flirty even when they have gf's but he was SUPER flirty like trying to impress me, p...

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necklace


Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 5:44 pm

hey, my boyfriend gave me a really pretty ear ring and necklace set. Its gold and has a pretty blue topaz stone at the bottom and a baby diamond and there is gold little swish on it too. I'm not sure where he got it and that's the problem. I lost the ear rings and I want to replace them so that he doesn't know that I lost them. There is a little JCM printed on the clasp. either that or JCH?

do you know of anywhere that is called that? or something? any idea of where I can replace them? thanks so much

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I'm in love with two boys!


Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 1:57 pm

(20/f). My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year, on and off. I really do love him, and we've talked about the future a LOT- moving in together, getting married, all that jazz. He treats me better than any guy I've ever dated, and I can tell he really loves me. Our families know each other and we each feel comfortable with each others friends- it's nearly a perfect situation. THe downsides are, he and I don't have a lot in common.. He doesn't like reading, I do. He hates the movies and music I absolutely love. And he doesn't want to be an organ donor, which is something I'm very upset about. There are a few other differences too.

The few breaks we have had, however, have all occured because there's a BIG part of ...

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I am in Love with this guy


Posted Wednesday January 20 2010, 12:48 am

Okay well i am 14 yrs old i am an 8th grader and i love a guy. yah sounds simple but its not.here it goes i need help.

Okay well in february i met this guy and we i guess hit it off and we went out for like two days we didn't know each other so it was stupid.anyhoo he live(d) up the street from me so every weekend we would hang out he would touch my boobs and butt and stuff and i kinda really liked it anyway,,anyway he is a big player but really sweet and always could put a smile on my face anyway we liked each other on and off lots of times over this year of knowing each other. anyway he moved so we don't hang anymore i don't see him anymore i should just move on? I cant i love him so much nobody knows so what exactly should i do? get over him..how?

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valentine's day ideas.


Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 9:47 pm

F/17. Well i need some cute ideas for my boyfriend of over 2 years. I'm baking him a cake that says i love you but i want something else. And something low budget. He's leaving feb. 10 for boot camp so i'm doing this before then. Any suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks.

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my bf is getting overweight


Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 12:17 am

okay so my boyfriend and i have been with eachother for almost a year now, were juniors in highschool when we started going out he was average weight i guess for his height which is like 6'1? and now its been a year and his weight is increasing. his parents wont let him join a gym and its kinda cold to run outside plus idt he has the motivation. i cant really get him to change his eating habits because hes really kinda stubborn. he might do baseball in the spring but idk if that will help. and plus hes getting self concious about it. i want to help him but i dont want to make it like i wont love him anymore bc of it bc its completley not true i just dont want him to get down about it. and i dont want it to make it like im making fun of him...

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not going to see him for a few weeks...


Posted Tuesday January 19 2010, 12:00 am

so me and my boyfriend have been together for only a month now but our relationship is undescribable. he is the most amazing guy i have ever met and we click so well.. he is the male version of me. we dont get to see each other much because he is the in the army but when we do we have the most amazing time together and when we arent together we are always talking. problem is he failed a drug test so he is getting kicked out of the army in a month and is going through punishment which is working all day everday basically. we know we prob wont be able to see each other til he is done maybe once for a little before hes kicked out.. but he got arrested last night. he couldnt show up to work and so he is in even more trouble. the army might send...

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