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Doesn't make much sense...
Me and this guy have been talking for about a month or so. We hungout a few times during winter break and whatnot then when school started,we have a class together so we'd talk a lot ,he'd kiss me in school ,sit with me at lunch,all that stuff.Last week,during the school week we hungout a lot after school at the gym and at the library to do our homework and went out to eat etc. and on the weekend we made plans to chill ,but his family was coming down and he had a sweet sixteen to go to,so he didn't talk to me to much. This week at school,he didn't even realize how he ditched me and acted totally normal in class and kissed me ,etc and we hungout after school a few times and again made plans for the weekend. Friday (today) comes around and we had plans to chill at his house after we went to the gym.While i was driving him home from school (i had planned to go home first and then we were gonna chill) his mom called him and told him that they had to go pickup his brother at college (3 hours away) he ofcourse had to postpone our plans to later in the night.He said he would text me when he got home ,which he said he'd be home at 10pm.I told him to text me while he's riding in the car if he's bored and to let me know when he's home.He kissed me and got out of the car and said "okay i will ! " and never did.He didn't text me once since ive dropped him off.I don't get it! He seems like he likes me during the week and then this happens! Is he not interested? or am i just overhthinking?
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First off men take everything you say literly!! You said "if your bored" you should have said Please text me when your on your way home to let me know what is going on, so I know if we are still hanging out. He thought if I don't text her it is no big deal. Tell him how you feel, but be understanding. Say something like this "we had plans and I understand things happen, but you should let me know what is going on, so I don't get upset because we were suppose to hang out and you just completly leave me out of the loop of what is going on I am not mad, but for future reference just let me know". After you talk to him about it and he keeps doing it then lose him. It just means he does not care about your feelings and just wants to keep you hanging on. If after you talk with him about it he then fixes the problem then you know for sure he cares about you and your feelings. Good luck.
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I think you may be overthinking. I never text when I am around my mom, it's a little rude I to me. And if he kisses you at school and its been a month he obviously isn't sick of you or afraid to show his affection. If he has family things, that is a little more important in my opinion, especially because he sees you all week. I really wouldn't overthink it, just maybe ditch him sometime or something you know? Even it out and pretend you don't care that much. You shouldn't be at his beck and call to hang with or change plans whenever. While it's inconsiderate of him to tell you not in advance, you have to understand that stuff sometimes does come up. But he obviously likes you.
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