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Does he like me too?!
17/F
So I basically just don't know where to turn really. One of my friends in his group really reminds me of my ex. I might add that just recently we all started hanging out a lot so it's not like i've been good friends with him for a long time. But we really got to know eachother really well and found out we have a lot in common. Even our nightly tv show line up it's crazy. Well this is how it was with my ex. We had everything in common but he had these little things he said and did that drove me completely insane! Well the boy ilike now is everything except those things. But the problem is I don't know if he likes me back. I know for a fact that he and my friend "k" like eachother but can't let it go anywhere, and also don't want it to go anywhere. He has dated someone while he liked her in the back of his mind and I understand where he's coming from with that because I have been in the same situation. Well the thing is he drops hints that he likes me but also it's easy to see he likes her too. We talk all the time and text. Well he asked me to the dance and this is what he said: "would you want to go to the sweatheart dance with me?" I said "awww yeahh of course" then he added, "like you, you know as friends." okay so he def could have asked "k" and I don't know why he didn't but then again he said "as friends" so do you think he might like me too or not at all?? On our way home from out of town we were wi eachother just talking and he told "k" I was a really great person and we had a lot in common. She made it sound like we maybe he did like me but when I asked her specifically if she had heard if he did or if he had told her he did or maybe if he just really hinted towards it and she said she hadn't heard anything from him. Please help, I'm growing attached because he reminds me of my ex but with none of the negative sides to him. Ahhhh! Oh ps. I normally would just ask him or tell him how I feel but this time I'm worried it will jepordize our friendship.
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he is into you he is just really confussed and maybe doesnt want to hurt your feelings when hes thining of k you get me ? i mean i would do the same. you know what really works? putting yourself in his position and really feel how he would feel right now that always gives the answers so right now if i was him and i liked you and k i would ask you to the dance but not lead you on and cause problems and ruin everything because he knows for a fact that if he never mentioned friends then you would sooner or later rushing into thinking that he likes you and only you and would ask you out but thats why he said just as friends until he figures out what to do between you too. i think you should just hang out with him more get him jelouse make him pay attention to you not just some friend that he may have little feelings for and can easily go away make him want you more than k
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If this helps at all, you could start flirting with him more and if he starts flirting back a lot, when you get to the point that you're sure he likes you back ask him to do something with you but when he asks "As friends?" You should say that you like him and just see where everything goes from there. If it's meant to be it will be but if you only like him because he's just like your ex chances are he'll figure that out. But hope I helped(:
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