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Nerves
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:36 pm
My bf and I (15 f) are thinking about having sex. He's fingered me and stuff like that, but it's the farthest we've ever gone. I'm really nervous. I'm ready, I know I am. I'm a little self consious, I guess, but I know I'm not fat or anything. I'm 5'7'' and 122 lbs. I'm just nervous about him seeing my "parts." Whenever he's fingered me, he just sort of went down my pants, they never came off.
Is there anything I can do to calm my nerves? Has anyone ever had this problem? What worked for you?
Thanks in advance
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Sex, Spitting, and Repulsion
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 5:21 pm
My dear boyfriend and I have been starting to get into s&m recently. Last night he tells me to open my mouth and shut my eyes and then HE SPITS IN MY MOUTH! Luckily I caught it before it got in my mouth. I washed my faced while letting off a string of expletives. He apologized. We finished having sex. He apologized some more. I kept bringing it up and he kept apologizing.
Recently I have been putting unnecessary guilt trips on him and now I notice and trying to stop. Which brings me to my question, how does one politely tell their partner that now they are revolted by the idea of sex with them due to an action they apologized for and said they never would do again (and agreed that if they do said action again, castration would even be reasonable)?
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overwhelmed
Posted Wednesday December 20 2006, 12:42 pm
I am so stressed out and depressed right now. My grades keep dropping and I try so hard to keep them up but some times it's so hard.
I went to the ER a few weeks ago because of my depression and my parents were so mad! I did counseling, so when I told a counselor about my suicidal thoughts that's when they directed me to the ER.
Now, I am afraid to go back to counseling, because if they send me back to the ER my parents will be pissed, also because of the huge medical bill we got from going to the ER last time. I'd hate to waste my parents' time and money over my mental health.
It's so hard to be happy right now, even when I try to. My friends tend to think nothing about it, and leave me alone. ...
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SEX
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 10:56 pm
well what if you and your boyfriend want to have sex but you are both still virgins and you dont want anyone one to know if you lose your viginity
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Lots of vaginal fluid...help
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 10:38 pm
Okay so I had sex the other day...and I was really curious if its normal to have like ALOT of vaginal discharge..and I mean a lot..like today when I changed I realized my panties were almost completely soaked, and as I went to the bathroom and wiped myself a bunch of "Cum" or somthing was on the paper...I don't mean to be gross but this is a really weird thing for me...plz answer
_17 yr old female
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weird feeling after he cums? guys if you know this..HELP
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 9:14 pm
okay so after my boyfriend and I have sex and he pops inside me..he claims that it feels really weird if he continues and sometimes even hurts..and hes fine a few minutes later..why does this happen? and how can we stop it? I mean it would be nice for the 1st round to last longer ;)
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wow
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 8:32 pm
my cervix is really low i can touch it. how will i have sex
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question for the fellows, experienced ladies
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 7:59 pm
So I need tips on how to please a guy MORE for both a blowjob and a handjob. Please give me lots of tips. Thanks
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GUYS GIRLS ANYONE PLEASE HELP
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 7:59 pm
okay so I love my boyfriend to death and does lots of sexual favors for me and vice versa. we have been together almost 2 years now and we are both 17..well he loves blowjobs and I absolutely cannot stand the taste of semon..I need to know what to do..but don't tell me to tell him know because I want to give them to him I just kinda bear with it and deal with it..and well do the deed. So no guys I do not tell him no, I just do it..but I end up having gag reflexes deep down in my throat..any suggestions how to fix my little dilemna?
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friend raped as a child
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 6:05 pm
I have a really really important question. It's gonna be long,,sorry, but plz answer!! I will rate.
My best friend told me her deepest darkest secret. Her secret was that she was raped by her cousin as a child.(7 yrs old.) He actually had sex with her, but she doesn't think that he "popped her cherry". She didn't really know what was going on...and she told her parents about it and everything when it happend. (we are 14 now) My question is: is she a virgin?
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I dont know what to do.
Posted Tuesday December 19 2006, 3:45 am
OK I'm 15/m and I have a bit of a problem. I've asked a similar question to this relating to sexual stamina so here it is: When me and my girlfriend have sex its really good. The only thing is that I dont feel enough. She's really tight and all but it just feels like I'm numb or something, I feel like there should be more. Is there any way I can increase feeling there? Is it normal to be like that?
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Birth Control questions.
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 10:28 pm
I just got put on birth control. I have yet to finish the first cycle I have a week or so left. But I have a few questions.
1.) As soon as I start that first pill of the 2nd package, does that mean im completely protected against pregnancies?
2.) Whats the chance of becoming pregnant when on the pill?
3.) Do you get a more increased hunger.. & then a feeling of bloatedness?
Thanks for reading.
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I DONT KNOW
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 7:53 pm
well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know.
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Omg SEX
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 7:30 pm
I dont no how to have sex help me!?!
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make out!?!
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 7:29 pm
i dont no how to make out help me!!!!
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vibrator
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 6:39 pm
two questions:
how big are vibrators? my bf and i can both only get 1 finger in me, so would a vibrator hurt alot? also where could i get one? i cant get order one and i have no siblings or older friends that could get it, and if my mom ever saw it she'd FREAK.
and also whenever my bf fingers me with his one finger lol it usually feels pretty good like it hurts a little but its like a good feelin pain yanno but when i do it it does nothing for me so ill usually jus rub my clit or whatever. why is this? i do the same thing he does but it seems like it hurts a little more and just doesnt feel good.
by the way im 16.
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i dont kno how to move to the next level.
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 6:30 pm
ohk. i have this thing where when a guy goes into kiss me i pull away. its not that i want to pull away i just do. i have madeout before but im afraide to make out again. I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO. does anybody have any idea how i can get over this hump. i just met this amazing guy but i dont want to disapoint him in any way but i dont know if i can get over this hump. please someone help me. give me some hints as so i dont pull away next time he goes into kiss me..
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"down there" freshness
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 3:51 pm
okay i am a virgin, so i haven't had experience with guys pleasing me "down there". i am getting married next month and i know it is something that will come up soon, so i want to know how i could make sure that it is fresh. so it doesn't smell or taste nasty. thank you:)
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Am I pregnant?
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 11:28 am
Please dont send me to any websites.
Okay, I missed my period last month and this month.
I really crave pickles with bagels & cream cheese, pickles and chocolate, pickles and crunchy peanut butter, and soda. And I HATE PICKLES!...
Also ..I weighed like 132 a few weeks ago and now Im like 150...wtf????
I dont know..I took 2 home tests.. but they were only $1.39...and they were really cheap...But they were (-)...My health ins hasnt kicked in so i cant goto the doctor. plus my family would kill me...
what do u think/
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S-E-X
Posted Monday December 18 2006, 12:13 am
ok i'm 16/f lesbian, i've just started going out with a girl, it's the first time for me so i'm very inexperienced, and i need to know: what do girls do together sexually? she's been with other girls so i need to know what to do! and also, do most lesbians like girls who shave it all off? or just some? or don't shave down there at all.
thanks sooo much in advance
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