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ok i'm 16/f lesbian, i've just started going out with a girl, it's the first time for me so i'm very inexperienced, and i need to know: what do girls do together sexually? she's been with other girls so i need to know what to do! and also, do most lesbians like girls who shave it all off? or just some? or don't shave down there at all.
thanks sooo much in advance
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Well I guess I could say I am part lesbian and I dont know about the hair isssue but what they do is basicly have regular sex suck on each other make out and get naked to gether. Hope this sorta helped
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The thing about lesbians is that there is a lot of sexual variety. You've got fingers, hands, tongues - basically, you can do anything any other combo of people can do, and more!
Not only is there a wide variety of actual stuff you can do, each person is different. Some girls may love being penetrated, for example, while someone else would rather stay away from it.
Just as in any relationship, why not just see how things go. You may be surprised at what comes naturally. Once you get to know this girl better, it might be a good idea to let her know that while you find her attractive, you're a virgin and not sure what to do. She might actually enjoy the chance to take you under her wing!
As for shaving, it's completely up to what you feel comfortable with - emotionally and physically. Some girls let it be completely natural, some trim the hair, some only shave the bikini line, and some shave it all (though this isn't incredibly common). You want to make sure that whether you're mostly hair or mostly bare you feel confident and sexy - particularly as it's your first time.
While I do understand your nerves, I'd like to point out that chances are you won't immediately hop into bed with this girl. Sexually, you'll start slow and work your way up over a period of time. A lot of kissing and making out will probably happen before any full fledged sex, so you'll have a chance to gradually become more comfortable.
If anything your new girlfriend says or does makes you uncomfortable, makes you excited, or makes you anything at all - tell her! Sex with every person is a new experience, particularly for lesbians, and she won't be able to mindread what you enjoy, either. If you both care for each other and are attracted to each other, chances are things will end up fine.
I wish you the best.
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you can tell her to teach you that can be sexy but have you ever watched porn that can teach you somethings but how about finguring eating out playing with her clit feeling up and touching and suckling her boobs you can also be creative what about dildos and some gurls have different tastes some like shaved some dont it will be sexy if you asked her the same question ask her what she likes you know hope i helped
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Girls do the same things sexually that a guy and a girl would do. Touching, kissing, making out, oral sex, etc etc.
As for the shaving thing; Every girl has their own preferance. If you are dating her and dont quite feel comfortable yet, I suggest waiting a little bit before doing sexual things. Once you are comfortable with her and talking to her about things, ask what she prefers that way you know.
I wouldnt just shave for her though.
Its your preferance too.
If you dont want to, then dont. She should understand.
Just let things flow though. Ive only dated one girl myself, but Im bisexual. It was a little odd the first time, but we didnt do anything sexual. I just dated her to get back at my ex boyfriend so it wasnt anything serious, but people knew.
I just sort of went with it. The first kiss with a girl is the weirdest because I was always accustomed to kissing guys.
Anyway though. Talk with her about it. Say that you're a little nervous and dont want to disappoint her. Have her talk with you through it and give you pointers. Just let things flow, and I'm sure she'll guide you along the way!
Let me know how it goes love. ♥
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