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I want to be with this boy even though another woman just had his baby


Posted Thursday November 18 2010, 3:15 pm

okay well i use to mess around with this boy but now hes baby has been born and he hasnt been talking to me bu the is not with his babys mother and i want to spend time with him like we use to so what sould i do?

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Should I ask her if she's over her ex?


Posted Thursday November 18 2010, 12:37 pm

Okay so there's this girl who I told that I liked her quite a bit. She said she liked me too, but she had broken up with her boyfriend of 1+ year at the beginning of summer prior to this semester and she needed time to get over that. I told her that I understood and would wait, but I wanted to know if there was any chance (I didn't wanna wait for nothing) and she said I certainly have a chance and she was really glad I told her how I felt. It's been about 3 weeks since she told me this. The other day I told her that if she ever needs someone to talk to (I noticed she was pretty sad looking lately) that I was there for her. She said that she appreciated the notion and that I didn't understand how much that means to her. She never told me wha...

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ex vs. new bf


Posted Thursday November 18 2010, 2:39 am

Alright well about 5 months ago my ex boyfriend who was my boyfriend at the time cheated on me. We had been together on and off for two years, but for distance reasons. He left me for the girl he cheated on me with and I was hurt really bad. Well things didn't work out with the two and they split. He came running back. The only problem is I moved to another state right afterwards. I couldn't stand living there and being around that, I knew it wouldn't go for a good recovery. He wants me to move back and move in with him. The problem is I've met this guy here and I really like him. He treats me really good and he really likes me. I've been lying to my ex and tellin him that I haven't been seeing anyone because I don't know what to do. I love...

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Should I go to the prom with my new boyfriend?


Posted Thursday November 18 2010, 2:18 am

I'm dating this guy right now. He's nice and everything but we've only been dating for 1 month. Prom dance is coming up this year and we have to pay the fees before the end of December if we want to go. I haven't asked him if he wants to go with me (he's a sophomore, and I'm a senior so I have to invite him for him to be able to go) because I don't know if we'll still be together then. Should I ask him if he wants to go to prom with me already or what?

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How to tell if my boyfriend really loves me


Posted Thursday November 18 2010, 2:14 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. Yesterday he told me that he loves me. We've never said the L word to each other before. I told him that I liked him a lot that I was glad he cared so much for me. I know it sounds harsh but I don't think we're able to really fall in love because we're so young (we're both 14). He knows I care about him, and he said it was okay if I didn't say I loved him back. How do I know if he really does love me though? I don't want to act like this is no big deal, because it's HUGE, but I don't want to encourage to say things like this if he only THINKS he loves me or something?

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Are these signs of him liking me back?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 9:25 pm

I'm a girl, almost 13 and I need some opinions on this. So, I have a crush @ school. He drops lots of hints, bombs as I like to call them. Just today he did all of these things!


His shoulder brushes up against mine A LOT (I don't mind because I like it and I do it right back to him. I guess that's our way of flirting.) He's warm, by the way.

He wants to hug me all the time.

He tries to make me jealous (and it works) by hugging other girls then peeks at me to check if I saw, (I always do)

He raises his voice when he says something funny to his friends and then looks at me to see if I laughed. (I always do)

He goes out of his way to talk to me (I gladly talk to...

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I don't want this to happen again.


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 9:17 pm

Hello, I'm really confused. I'm not sure if I'm 'inlove' my family tells me I'm too young, but I'm 15. It's not like I'm the age of 10, like a lot of these girls.. this was my first 'love' I believe. but everyone just has the same opinion that I have talked with. I would like someone elses.
If theres any advice anyone could give me that would be great..

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Only a little time to ask


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 7:05 pm

Okay, there are only two more days left of my drivers' training and my drivers' ed partner is totally cute and from the conversations we've had, we have some things in common. The only thing that bothers me is that he's into weed and I don't know much about it, I just know it's bad for you... Anyway, I really want to get to know him more and ask him out, but I'm afraid he might not like me back and I have no idea how to ask him out in the first place. We don't go to the same school and we're not taking segement 2 together!! I need help please, I really like this guy :')

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i dont know if he likes me!


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 7:02 pm

Im a female and i dont know if he likessss meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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Will I sound too desperate?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 6:15 pm

I am an almost 13 year old female. Please read!

There's a guy I really like @ school.

Will I sound 2 desperate if I tell him that I like him? What if I asked him what he would do if ppl thought we were a couple? (ppl do think we are a couple BTW). What are the good things & the bad things about doing this?

Thanks 2 everyone who answers in advance!

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How do I find people for a sick party in Vegas?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 4:01 pm

Going to Vegas for 5 nights on Dec 15 staying at the Mirage on one of the top floors in a very nice 1250 sq ft suite. Just Google Mirage Tower Suite and you'll see (look at the Mirage site, not the older pics since they're out of date).

Want to throw a sick party with fun people in the suite one of the night's that I'm there and am trying to figure out how to do it since I don't know anyone in Vegas.

Wondering if I like printed tickets for a party and handed them out for free admission? What would people think? Would they show?

Assuming that people would show (maybe like 5% of the people that got tickets?), then the question is: how to deal with the first people that show up? I mean, once there a...

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what to do?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 11:55 am

I met a guy (Chris) through my guy friend.. (a guy friend I hadn't seen since about 2 years ago) we bumped into each other in a club. I've known Chris for over a month now.

Any way Chris flirted a little, asked for my fb and number and I gave it to him. He kissed me that night. We went on a date a week later and he seemed really nice.

Problem with him is, I have heard he still likes his ex. We have been in a bar with our friends and his ex has turned up, and they always end up talking... and the other night she turned up, started talking to him and him and his friends LEFT the bar with her and her friends! and left me and my friend in the other bar on our own, he didn't even say bye!

He flirts ...

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seeing someone else but still texts me?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 10:16 am

My ex broke up with me 3 months ago...pretty long story, basically he broke up with me as he had a feeling I was gonna break up with him (true to some extent, I was crazily stressed with work & didn't think it was fair for him to deal with me like that) OK so I realize that was a mistake. any way he's tried staying friends with me but I have refused...all or nothing. I told him I want to get back together but he said he's not sure what to do. he's been saying this for 3 months now!

when we first broke up he didn't do much, but ever since I told him I went to clubs a lot, I've met new guys, he turned crazy and he's honestly out every night! more to the point, after I told him id gone a date with a guy, he started seeing t...

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should i just give up?


Posted Wednesday November 17 2010, 6:45 am

18/f hes 19.
ok so there this guy, i've been into him for a while but he had a girlfriend. conveniently, they broke up. I was there to help him through the horrible break up etc etc. the more we talked the more we realised we had in common. However, i might add that he's in a band and has all his little teenies after him etc etc. so i have more then enough competition. He has a gig next week that he wanted me to come to, and to excuse him if he was shy to me.

Then i notice that he's saying how he 'gets excited everytime he has a new text =]" and i realised he must be starting to like someone else because i dont even have his number... then it hit me that i obviously dont stand a chance. I also found that he was ...

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illegal sex


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 11:16 pm

is it illegal to have sex if you are 14 and your mate is 17 in peoria illinois

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oh dear I don't know if he likes me


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 10:19 pm

19/f. i know this will sound stupid, but hear me out: so there's this guy in my class, that i like. We tease each other. Like one day i turned around and said those sunglasses look like something my mother would wear. then when i got up and left he was still smiling. The next time the class met I came in late and he told me Your Late. and i turned around and said umm thanks mom. it was funny and he thought i was calling him stupid but later on facebook chat i told him i think he's pretty smart. lol so i mean idk i mean he does talk to me outside of class. like on other days. and on Wednesday in class he looked up and smiled at me and i looked at him and smiled and he looked down. haha so i am not sure if he likes me. i mean does he?

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Trying to get pregnant?


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 9:23 pm

Before you read this, yes im very young and if your going to be mean and negative dont answer this, ok?

16/f. Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. and we are engaged. Im head over heal's in love with him, as he is with me. He live's with me also. He and I both want a child. And have been trying to get pregnant. Im on the depo birth control shot, but ive only had one, and am due for another one in exactly a month. I seem to not be able to get pregnant though. Its un protected, and he cums in my everytime. Ive had unprotected since i was 14 and have been came in before and ive never been pregnant. What will increase my chances? By the way my parents know im trying. Thanks in advance!

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How to flirt?


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 7:43 pm

12/girl
How do u flirt with a guy? How can I tell he's flirting back?

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Him as a waiter


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 5:01 pm

My boyfriend has been looking for a second job since he could get kicked out of his house any second now. He dropped some of his classes, and just took one online class. Which he just finished. He was applying as a waiter, which I for some reason didn't like because seeing my sister work as a waitress for such a long time; she has a lot of health problems, such as back hurting and etc. I didn't want him to become one because of that and also because since he has a curfew of 10, he won't be home till later, especially if it includes counting tips and etc. But what bothers me more is that, he probably won't have enough time to see me. I mean, I have school every day morning to afternoon. He doesn't, but he's training now in the afternoon till...

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how do i get through this?


Posted Tuesday November 16 2010, 12:31 pm

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months. i love him uncoditionally and i never want to lose him,but rumors are going arounf that hes cheating on me. He keeps denying them and i want to believe him, but i have really bad trust issues and im scared to trust him because what if he is cheating, then im gonna feel like crap. but i dont want him to leave because he feels ill never trust him. what do i do????? im 14 and so is he.

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