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flirting...


Posted Wednesday August 22 2012, 8:06 am

Okay, 13/f so this guy I used to like 12/m (Jake) we used to have a thing for each other. He likes me and I used to like him. So now, I'm over him and he moved away but he thinks that we're still a thing you know?! He's like flirting with me and it's all very flattering, but like I don't know. Like we chatted on Facebook today and like he keeps flirting with me. I don't think it's wrong..I just don't know how to let him down easy...I really like this guy Andrew 13/m and he's amazing, but I just don't feel the same way for Jake...I don't know how to let him down easy...can you please help?

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New School ... New Boys... Should I Talk To Them?


Posted Tuesday August 21 2012, 9:57 pm

Im a 14 female
I go to a new school and I like a few boys but I dont know what I should do.. Should I talk to them? Wait since its only the second week of school? Wait for them to come to me? Have a friend do it? Haha Im used to them coming to me first but high school is different.. Any type of suggestions will be great(:
Also what would I talk about if things get awkward??

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Am I being ridiculous?


Posted Tuesday August 21 2012, 5:26 pm

Okay so this boy (Ty) and I dated and broke up. We are on the verge of getting back together (no comments on that please). But we need to talk before we get back together and I said to him that he needs to find a day to do that and then he told me that I am in charge of that. He was the one who broke up with me and he is the one pushing to get back together (I mean I want to get back together but I wouldn't have tried to unless he told me he wanted to(if that makes sense)). I think he need to make the plans and talk but he thinks I should. I just want to know if an right that he should be the one to make the plans because he was the cause of the break up. But then I started thinking, it's not just the guys job to do all that. It has to be equal. Right?

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I really like this boy and I can not stop thinking about him... but he hates me.


Posted Tuesday August 21 2012, 7:13 am

I really like this boy and I can not stop thinking about him.
But the thing is, he hates me and he teased me in primary school.
I don't really see him anymore, but I can't get him out of my head and when I do see him, my stomach flutters.
What do I do?
Should I just get over him?

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I know my relationship won't work and he doesn't. I'm so confused


Posted Tuesday August 21 2012, 2:02 am

So back in April I met this guy named Luke. The first time we hung out at the bar I told him BLUNTLY that I was not in any way whatsoever looking for a relationship. Well, we ended up going to his house and getting drunk and having sex. Before we had sex, I told him this was just a "fuck buddy" kind of sex, not a relationship kind of sex. He said that was just fine and that we could be fuck buddies. I knew what I was doing and it wasn't a drunken mistake. I know NOW that this was a mistake tho so don't focus on that.

Since we were fuck buddies we had sex often. To me, it was just sex, but to him it was love and relationship building. He started telling me he loves me and can see a future with me. I have NO idea why ...

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just had my first kiss<3 but am confused about something. (Please help)


Posted Monday August 20 2012, 8:45 pm

Hey there(: I am 14/f and three days ago I had my first kiss, with my my boyfriend that I love with all of my heart<3 well I'm just making sure you all agree with me that this was my first kiss, because back when I was 12 and still in middle school, three years ago me and my best friend were friends with our friends little brother that is three almost four years younger, and well like one day we were playing around and we all three acted like we were having a friendship marraige, and we decided to " kiss" each other on the lips, but me and my friend kissed him on the lips at the same time but missed half of his lips and he was 9 and I was 12 he just kept still, then we did it indivdulay and I pressed my lips on his barely for ...

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I'm so confused, why would he be acting so weird?


Posted Monday August 20 2012, 3:12 pm

This guy at work asked me to hangout one night after work so I told him to text me when he got out and he did but said he was too tired to hangout. He asked me to hangout two more times after that and did the same thing. Eventually we did get together and he kissed me. Now he still asks me to hangout almost every day but then cancels out, or just doesn't bring it up again. I'm so confused, why would he be acting so weird?

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keep him or let go


Posted Monday August 20 2012, 9:30 am

hi im 20yrs old me and my boyrfriend have been together for nearly a year and engaged for 5 months. recently we have been stressing out so much bout the wedding we have been arguing daily about everything including us being together. i love him dearly but i am no longer in love with him as a result and i have told him this we are trying to see if we can re build it or not. in the past few days i have had to find out things about him from others and it hurts! i have asked him why and all i get is i dont know. im hurting so much as we have lost a child together and i have found out about a new medical condtion that i have. im finding it hard to deal with my new heart problem and with this on top i feel like ending my life or running away but ...

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He broke up with me for his ex. Now he wants to have sex with me? What do I do!?


Posted Monday August 20 2012, 12:32 am

We dated each other. He broke up with me for his ex. They don't like each other anymore and he started to talk to me again. He says he likes and he wants to go out with me again but after a little bit of time. We hadn't talked in 2 weeks and we saw each other at a friends house that we have in common. I didn't know he would be there and he had no idea I was gonna be there. There was my best friend, me, him, his friend, and our friend in common there. He ignored me the whole time! I told him last time that we hung out that I didn't want people to see us together just yet so they wouldn't get the wrong idea. Maybe he didn't talk to me as much because of that. But our friend in common was hanging out with him today and asked if he still liked ...

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My friend leaving and I'm so scared to tell him how i feel about him....


Posted Monday August 20 2012, 12:10 am

Hi... I'm 13 and I have a friend (a boy).. he's 16 and leaving for Canada an he's not coming back... one day he told me he loves me... well duuh I told him back but I'm so scared to tell him how i feel about him...... very scare... just need some help!!!

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My boyfriend doesn't want to get married, and I understand his reasons, but I still want to... Should I insist?


Posted Sunday August 19 2012, 10:01 pm

I've been contemplating over this for a long time and I can't seem to come to a conclusion. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years, I love him very much, and I'm happy with him.
However, we have a huge issue over marriage. We got engaged almost two years ago New Years eve. We talked about it and decided we were going to get married a few years in the future.
He had told me that he didn't believe in marriage when we first started dating but I put it aside and thought, well, if he loves me I'm sure in the future he will change his mind.
Well not exactly, he says that he will marry me because he loves me and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me but he does not believe in it. He believes that marriage is unnec...

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What is going on with him? Am I overreacting? I am so confused. Help?


Posted Sunday August 19 2012, 4:10 pm

Okay so we dated. Broke up with me because of his ex gf. They dont talk anymore because he realized it was old feelings. We are sort of friends but maybe more. We hung out one day and made out for like 2 hours. We talked about getting back together soon. We didn't talk for two weeks because his phone is a piece crap and it broke. We talked to other day on the phone for like 5 mins and we were going to hang out but he couldnt get a ride. I was hanging out with my friend today and he came over. We both didn't know we would be there. He basically ignored me the whole time. He never ever has acted like that before. I got so mad that I left with my best friend (who was over there too). Why was he acting do weird. He wants to get back together one day and the next ignores me? I am confused.

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Should I tell him that I like him?


Posted Sunday August 19 2012, 3:34 pm

Alrighty, so Im 14/f and I kinda like this guy named Sam, 13/m. Him and I talk all the time on facebook but we hardly hang out or anything, he lives next to my bestie =P Anyways, I leave for my cottage tomorrow and I want to tell him I like him, he has rated me an 8 and told me I am cute. I would like to at the end of a convo say "I like you, kk bye". Well what do ya think? I have feelings for him and I'm not sure what I should do. I need to tell him somehow before I leave tomorrow though. Advice??

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kiss


Posted Sunday August 19 2012, 3:13 am

i had many kisses with my boyfrend some times when he kis me he kisses on my neck alsoo but we had no sex just kiss so i dont want to get pregnent does it makes me pregnent

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Dating: Ways to meet other single people when you are in your 20s


Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 9:35 pm



What are some ways to meet people if you are single and in your 20's? I'm not a huge club type so that's really not an option. I was just wondering if anyone had any pointers on where to look. I don't trust dating sites..

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i honestly only want to hook up , do you think she has the same intentions?


Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 9:32 pm

this sophmore ( im a juniro) asked me to come over to her house, randomly. she always texts me throughout the day and im sure she likes me. Does she want to hook up? even if i dont respond in a minute or 2 she has sent me a message saying stuff like "you dont want to tlak to me." shes sexy and i honestly only want to hook up , do you think she has the same intentions? PS . this girl kept texting me a while ago but i ended it cuz she was obsessive but she just started texting me again.

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i luv my friend


Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 2:37 pm

im a girl, 20 yrs old. i like my friend who is very close to me but iam so afraid to say this. iam in love with him for more than 1 year. he told me that iam very important to him and he considers me as his 1st best friend. what should do?

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Long distance relationship in college


Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 2:41 am

18/f

My boyfriend left a few days ago to attend a college 5 hours away for his freshman year. We've agreed to try and make our relationship work long distance but I am so scared and almost everyone I talk to is less than supportive of the idea. I care about him very much and would like to continue dating him, so can anyone give me advice on sustaining a long distance relationship? Also, every since he's left I've been feeling majorly depressed. I'm commuting to school (it's a city school so it does have a large population of commuters) and I'm worried that I won't be able to make any friends. My big fear is that he'll have tons of fun at school and I won't have a good time at all.
It's like everything is happening at once and I am so overwhelmed.

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how to get sex


Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 12:22 am

Hey I'm 17 and I was wondering if I could get a hookers number or something I'm not a virgin but need sex please help

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Boys at school


Posted Friday August 17 2012, 11:32 pm

Im a freshman in high school .. I just moved so I go to a new school and I dont know anyone .. There are a couple of boys I like but its only been 4 days of school .. Should I talk to him? If so, how long should I wait.. Or should I wait for him to talk to me?? I was thinking to wait 2 weeks when we get homework so I can have an excuse but I dont know what to do , im used to boys coming to me first... Help?

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