i honestly only want to hook up , do you think she has the same intentions?
Question Posted Saturday August 18 2012, 9:32 pm
this sophmore ( im a juniro) asked me to come over to her house, randomly. she always texts me throughout the day and im sure she likes me. Does she want to hook up? even if i dont respond in a minute or 2 she has sent me a message saying stuff like "you dont want to tlak to me." shes sexy and i honestly only want to hook up , do you think she has the same intentions? PS . this girl kept texting me a while ago but i ended it cuz she was obsessive but she just started texting me again.
You really should be honest with her. She may actually have some real feelings for you and out of respect, it'd be better if you let her know that you are only interested in hooking up. After that let her make the decision, as to whether or not she wants to keep talking to you.
It wasn't until I was in college that I didn't mind relationships that are more casual. Girls think differently than guys do, but it's always important to be honest about your intentions.
Please don't be rude and lead her on and just assume. Don't be afraid to be honest about things. Tell her what's up, tell her you're only interested in the "friends with benefits" role, and go from there.
Razhie answered Sunday August 19 2012, 9:37 am: There is no possible way for us to know.
Maybe she isn't all that into you really and is just text-crazy.
Maybe she wants to hook up.
Maybe she wants to marry you and make beautiful babies.
You are going to to have speak up and be honest if you want to move this forward AND to keep from hurting her feelings if it does move forward. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.