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New School ... New Boys... Should I Talk To Them?
Im a 14 female
I go to a new school and I like a few boys but I dont know what I should do.. Should I talk to them? Wait since its only the second week of school? Wait for them to come to me? Have a friend do it? Haha Im used to them coming to me first but high school is different.. Any type of suggestions will be great(:
Also what would I talk about if things get awkward??
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It's not as different as you think. They will still approach you per usual and maybe more often. However, you don't have to sit and wait and I would advise you not to.
All you need to do here is treat talking to anyone new let alone someone you are interested in like talking to a parent, other adult, friend, whomever and just introduce yourself and start asking them questions. Mention you and your friends hang out at X and maybe you can join us etc. in conversation to gauge interest.
You have to remember guys are just as intimidated of you than you are of them but someone has to move. If things get awkward always resort to your bag of tricks (which are questions and things such as jokes they might find funny)and keep going back to interests, sports, stuff about parents, classes etc. Ask any conceivable question about themselves which will lead them to ask about you and get things on track.
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Go ahead and talk to them. Just don't be forward or too flirty or anything like that. You don't want to freak them out. You could probably just talk about anything in general. School would be a good topic.
I would definitely not have a friend talk to guys for you. It's better when you show confidence.
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