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brown discharge


Posted Friday January 30 2009, 6:05 pm

i'm sorry if this grosses you out but i need reassurance. i'm 17 years old and i've been on yaz birth control for the past 5 months. i take it religiously except for 2 tuesdays ago, and i took it as soon as i remembered wednesday morning. then on friday night i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend for the first time. this past wednesday i started noticing brown discharge in my underwear.. it's now friday and it is still happening. i'm not supposed to start my period until next week. i googled it and alot of people said its normal and not to be concerned in the least, while others said its a sign of early pregnancy.. but really? could i be showing symptoms this early? please, ALL advice is welcome. i NEED an answer. thanks for your time:)

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Thoughts of being gay/bisexual when thought of sex with men makes me cringe


Posted Friday January 30 2009, 3:56 pm

It's very confusing. I suppose I should backtrack. So, I was in the shower one day and, having a few gay friends, I wondered what it must be like for them - you know, coming out, persecution and what-not. Then I thought 'What would it be like if I were gay?', which filled my with this awful panic. Then I was fine for weeks until I saw a program on homosexuality, which reminded me of that panic in the shower. So I thought to myself, 'Well, if you got scared does that mean you're gay?' and from then on it's been on and off. Sometimes it really gets strong and at others it is non-existant.

So, I think - so what if I am? So I watch some gay porn, think about having sex with some traditionally good-looking guys; that kind of thin...

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feelin a bit ill


Posted Friday January 30 2009, 2:53 am

heyaaa female 17!

thanks for reading :D

i had unprotected sex , i no its wrong but its done now, and he told he didnt cum but i think he did coz he stopped after he said he didnt , 3 days after im starting too feel ill, icould just be me thinking about it , could i be pregant or watever sti?

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Just kind of curious about this. O.o


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 10:27 pm

I've got a very off period, and I was just curious does sex/masturbation have the ability to postpone a period in any way? If anyone has a clue, please let me know. I'm very curious.

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I'm stupid


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 8:53 pm

15/f. boyfriend-15/m

Okay. I know I'm probably going to sound super stupid and all, but I'm beyond paranoid and this will just make me feel better. Yesterday, my boyfriend and I were making out. I had already told him I wasn't going to have sex if we weren't being safe. But, we got naked and he was on top of me. He didn't go in, and he says he didn't cum or anything. But, I coulda sworn I felt something. Or maybe that was just me? I don't know. I'm just so paranoid. And it's probably about nothing. I just need reassurance, I guess that I'm not pregnant. Haha ? :/ I felt really sick today and I don't know. I'm just weird. But yeah. Help ? :D Haha..

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I feel ashamed, opinions?


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 4:53 pm

so 17f
I masterbate, never had sex, but do watch porn. Is watching porn bad? I never really understood if it was or not. Sometimes I feel like I am betraying god, other times I say to myself I am not doing anything bad. opinions, anything please!

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Masturbation


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 3:24 pm

I just masturbated again. I feel so horibble! I just want to die. I feel like God will never forgiive me. Some one just kill me. I feel like a whore. Some one help me please. Oh my dear God please help me. I feel like such a horibble person. HELP ME!!!!! What can I do. I feel horrible. Will someone please tell me how to stop this?

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Masturbation (please only answer if your Christian)


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 3:04 pm

Is it really bad to masturbate? I really really really want to. I have not had sex and plan not to until marriage. But I really need masturbation. Is it bad to masturbate. Even if its only every once in awhile. Like every month or every other month?(I havnt masturbated since november)

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Masturbation


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 2:45 pm

Sorry, I dont really know if this is in the right catagorey. Is masturbation better the less you do it or the more you do it?

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What does this mean?


Posted Thursday January 29 2009, 11:02 am

14/f.
ok, so all my friends always say "the big o" and i was wondernig what tht meant? i know i should know this becasue im 14 but i dont!!!

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STD's ? Could I have one


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 6:08 pm

2 weeks ago me & my boyfriend had sex (oral first) & then we went to actual penis- vagina sex.. That part lasted like 5 minutes. My period had ended a day before but it came early and lasted longer.. And then after we had sex I was bleeding. I wasn't a virgin so I knew it couldn't of been my hymen- and the bleeding lasted around a week. Last week we had sex again (oh both times a condom was used) and I was bleeding again and still am.. I looked it up online & it said it could be Chlamydia- bc I was spotting between periods. Also nausea and abdominal pain/cramps.. What are the chances of having an STD if we used a condom and only had sex for a short period of time?
If it's not an STD then what could it be? I also wanna go ...

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I dont know what to do or how to go about,I want a way out


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 5:25 pm

When I was 12 my mom died from breast cancer and that was a big shock. Now I live with my aunt and life is hell. I had to move. Now i dont live with my 2 sisters. I have to be with my 2 cusins. I feel like i dont belong. They treat me as if im theyre dog. I always have to do something, and if i dont i get in trouble. My aunt treats my cusin better, probably because its her daughter. shes 19 and she gets everything and acts like im the problem child. If i tell anyone she smacks me. Ive thought of suicide. I dont know what to do ... help ...

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vampire baby?


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 10:50 am

okay so my girlfriend is pregnant and she dont get her period does that mean the baby is like drinking the blood?

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will i lose him for this?


Posted Wednesday January 28 2009, 7:53 am

Okay. I have been off and on with my current boyfriend for almost 2years! Ive done some real stupid bad things during the time we were broken up. I dont know if i did these things cause i was hurt or no. When we broke up the last time he got a girl and it really hurt me bad even though i made the decision to break up. Anyways i started to talk to alot of guys to get him off my mind but it didnt work. During this time i half way had sex wit two guys. .when i say half way i mean it started but i stopped! With one of the guys the condom broke and i got sooo damn scared of being pregnant, std's, everything! So i took this pill called the plan b, its suppose to kill all sperm cells and it did! Thank God i wasnt pregnant! But the real problem is,...

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Maybe, maybe not? It's ruining us.


Posted Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:55 pm

Hello. I'm in need of much help. My boyfriend and I have never had sex but we do fool around. My period is extremely light, like less than a drop if that, and both of us are really worried that some sperm may have been transferred from him to me down there somehow. Maybe through a hj and then me putting my hand down my pants for some reason? Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? It's tearing him and I apart, and I love him. Please help me, please. I'm 15 if that helps any.

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want me.


Posted Tuesday January 27 2009, 8:41 pm

what are some things you girls say to make your man want you. now i'm not going to be saying this to a boyfriend because i dont have one but i AM going to take your advice on a situation. i'm just in need of some "comments" to say that lets a guy know you want to become sexual with him without it being totally random. maybe in a text, maybe in person? we're both attracted to each other obviously but i just dont know how to bring it up in a hot kind of way that will make him think "wowwww, that turns me on" haha anything will help!

18/f by the way

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oral sexy


Posted Tuesday January 27 2009, 10:16 am

Okay my boyfriend wants me to give him head the next time we fool around. My question is how exactly is it done. Do you suck on it the whole time or just slide it in and out of your mouth? And what are some tricks I could do to make it interesting.

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mensuration & pregnancy


Posted Monday January 26 2009, 10:45 pm

i am from india.is there any need to worry if i get my periods every 26 days?will there be any problem in becoming pregnant?which day i ovulate?

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Posted Monday January 26 2009, 7:18 pm

ok well i might be giving my bf a hj this friday and if i do i was wondering a couple things. mainly what do i do when he cums? and is it hard to clean up? it'll be at my house. please help. i need to know how this works lol

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want to be pregnant? ..


Posted Monday January 26 2009, 7:05 pm

For the last few months, I've had this ricidulous urge to become pregnant (I'm only 16). At first I thought it was a phase but lately all I think about is how wonderful it would be to have a child. I understand how insane this is; I don't have a job, I haven't even finished high school yet and I'm certainly not ready for a baby.
I started birth control 3 months ago and take it religiously but one night I had sex with my boyfriend and for some reason he was freaked out that I would get pregnant. All I could think about was how happy I would be if I was.
I've also had a few dreams about being pregnant and having miscarriages (over the past 6 months-not consistently)
This doesn't seem normal to me and I want these though...

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