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Should i stay with my b/f?
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 10:28 pm
Me and my b/f have been together for 3 weeks. out of those 3 weeks we have only spoken and seen eachother for 1 week. no were not avoiding eachother. before we got together he signed up to do this lincoln challenge thing. so he will be gone for 6 months.I have liked him since I was in 8th grade which was like 2 yrs ago and he has liked me for 3 yrs. He will be home on labor day for a break. should I break up with him when he gets back?
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i think i may like my boy best friend...?
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 10:03 pm
13/f
i have been friends with this guy for about a year. he's really cool and all, and i consider him my guy best friend, and i guess he considers me his girl best friend. we have a lot of things in common, and we talk about all anything. from sports to music to girls and all that stuff. one time we talked in AIM for 8 hours straight! the last time i talked to him, before he left for vacation, we talked about how we talked for 8 hours straight. [[it's always been random things that we talk about]] and somewhere along the line of conversation, i said something like, "well, i wouldn't wanna waste your time talking to me."
here's a quick scene from that conversation::
HIM: oh come on. you're one of the on...
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girlfriend vs. girlfriend
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 9:24 pm
So, I have this friend who i've known for a long time now, that really really likes me. She tells me i'm beautiful, treats me really well, and even takes me out on dates to carnivals, movies, and the beach.
The problem is, I already have a girlfriend. I know that she loves me, and we've been going out for at least 5 months now. I love her SO much, but she often treats me horribly. At the very begginning of our relationship, she cheated alot, but she hasnt for at least 4 months. Now that i've cheated on her with this other girl, I've realized how much I truly love her. I'm not sure if I should stay with my current girlfriend, or break up with her and date this new girl. I'm less attracted to the new girl physically, but my old girlfri...
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camp crush
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 8:49 pm
i just got back from an all state choir camp and one of the guys i go to school w/ was there. ill be a sophmore and hes gonna be a freshman but he turns 15 in 2 months and i wont be 16 til february. we flirted alot at camp, at our meals together in the group of people we were w/, we hung out together at the talent show and danced together at the dance. basically, we flirted ALOT hes cute and taller than me (which is a big deal b/c im 5'9) and ive known him for a while. do you think im being silly about this since hes gonna be a freshman? my friends will think im crazy but he makes me laugh all the time. hes a total sweetheart. what do you think? thanks!
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Girlfriend Or Family- Pick One.
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 8:44 pm
I'm a bit older than the people that usually answer questions on this sight. I'm 28 and my girlfriend will be 27 in about a week.
We have been dating for about 7 months when I was in medical school in Cincinnati. I had to move to Rhode Island to start my residency, but she stayed in Cincinnati. I love her and I miss her terribly.
It gets difficult because my family is from a very traditional Indian family (Asian Indian), who do not believe in cross culture dating (or anything fo the sort). My girlfriend is caucasian. I kept the relationship secret for a while, but then I told my parents. My vacation is comign up and I want to spend it with her, but now my mum says that if I go to see her- she will not let me ...
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hmmmmmmm
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 7:36 pm
welll i was out with my boyfriend and his friend and my friend today and i got the impression he was flirting with her i know i may sound paranoid but he was like rugby tackling her and like stuff and the way he looked at her and stuff and alwas standing closer to her than me and it was really getting to me and it was the first time they'd met and she said she thought he was nice and that she was happy i was going out with a good guy am i just getting paranoid and protective???? please give your ides love me xxxxxxxxxxx
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i thought he was different (help ASAP)
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 7:21 pm
i met this guy at orientation for work and we hitit off from the start aftr a lil bit of talkin he asked me out and after that everything seemed so perfect i loved spending time with him and talkin to him everything about him was perfect to me( i know there is no such thing) Out of nowhere he broke up with me today... i didnt see it coming at all... i thought he was happy...i dont know what to do i have been cryin since he dumped me...
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i screwed up, badly
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 7:14 pm
ok well i like this boy, cant forget the faggot.(sorry) i've tried telling him & myself that i hate him. didnt work. tried saying sorry, sounded desprate. what can i do? did i screw up to badly? please&thankyou
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phone
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:59 pm
umm today i was talking to this guy on the phone who i like alot but someone very close to me is going out with him and well he said something to me that makes me think he likes me too but i don't know if he thought it was his girlfriend or if he likes me too and well what do you think
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awkward
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:55 pm
do you think it would be awkward to IM a guy that you liked for 3 years but havent talked to almost 1 year? i really want to start talking to him again. what should i say and what would be a clever way to talk to him again without making it seem obvious. also my friend said i should IM him just making small conversation then after a few times tell him how i feel and if he says he likes me too then continuie talking obviously but if he says he doesnt or doesnt say anything then stop talking to him so he'll feel bad do you think that'd work? should i try that? but how do i start talking to him again i have a 99% feeling he doesnt like me but he used to so it could happen again? how should i start talking to him again? thank you
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first boyfriend
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:52 pm
this is for everyone to answer.
what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?
i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.
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not much in common
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:45 pm
I just realized that my boyfriend and I don't have all that much in common anymore and i'm afraid our relationship will suffer or anything. I mean we still have some stuff that we both like just not as much as I had thought.
Personally, I don't want to have a partner that likse everything that i like. I mean, it would be like having an exact copy of myself and things wouldn't be as interesting. I think we'd run out of things to talk about eventually.
But i don't know if that's the truth or not.
I just need a little advice. We both love each other very much but could this be a potential problem down the road?
(we've been going out for a year and a half)
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Which one should I choose?
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:37 pm
im 15/f
okay so i have a boyfriend, lets call him "Mark". We just started going out like couple weeks ago. The thing is that we were BEST friends before we started going out and now that we go out, I cant see him as my boyfriend... just a friend.
So, theres this guy, lets call him "Joe". Well, Joe likes me. He wanted to go out with me before Mark asked me out but I said I wanted to get to know him more. Well, now I've gotten to know Joe more and I really like him too.
I know if I break it off with Mark and go out with Joe, things will definitly not be the same as they were. But I really just cant see myself in a relationship with Mark.
So what should I do? Stick with Mark or go for Joe?
Please Help! Thanks in Advance!
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help me to help him.
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:25 pm
ok. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 5 months. he told one of my friends he cut last night, i hung out with him today and saw/felt nothing. i dont know if he was lying or if he didnt do it to his wrists but he specifically said i cut my wrists when i asked him. i want to ask him about it...like why i didnt find anything...but i dont wanna get him upset and push him over the edge if hes been contemplating doing it and just hasnt yet. please just tell me ANYTHING. any way i can help him or help myself. itll mean so much to me if you do. even a suggestion is fine, i just need something to work off of. thank you in advance for your help.
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my best friends boyfriend
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:22 pm
13/f i like my best friend's boyfriend. i know he doenst like me. hes obsessed with my best friend. all our other friends tease us that we like each other cuz we're always getting into arguments and stuff. my best friend used to say i could tell her if i did, but i know i cant, i know it will just upset her and theres no point. lately me and my best friend havent been as close so it wud be almost impossible to tell her. what should i do?
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boy help
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 6:01 pm
i really want a cute loveing boyfriend that is sweet. but i cant find him and idk how to...i mean im not fat or ugly. but i still cant find some1 who likes me. i neede aome advicee.
thanks
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too soon for love?
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 5:57 pm
My boyfriend & I have been together for several months now. He has recently told me he loves me. Since then, I've felt weird. I'm not sure what love even is! I care about him alot and I can't picture my life without him, but how do you know when you truly love someone? I've tried saying it to him, but the words never come out. I don't know if I'm scared of giving him that part of me he could break or if I really don't love him. How do I determine from the two?
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Men. UGH.
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 5:40 pm
Just tell me.. Should I tell him I like him?
Me - Fifteen. Single.
Him - Sixteen. Going out with a girl.. who
according to my friend who knows both of them, is 'an exact replica [sp?] of me.
Us- Close friends. He used to like me, and I didnt know how I felt, so I tried to just stay friends, and put down his attemps to get close/hold hands/ect. I grew to like him more and more and now I really realllllllly like him.
Currently - Even though he has a girlfriend, he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me and Im the only one who can keep him up all night talking, and how he cant wait until after Highschool so he can see me everyday. Yet, his girlfreind is still his girlf...
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Happy Birthday To Me?
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 5:32 pm
I love my three girlfriends, they always try to make things happen for me that I'm too chicken to do myself. My birthday is in a week and they have organized a party. This is a special exclusive kind of party though, the only way you can be invited in and not be one of the four of us is if you're a hot guy.
Now they did this because they want me to get a move on with guys since I'm 18 and I haven't even kissed a guy yet.
I haven't because I've liked this guy for the longest time and I just didn't have any interest in any other guys so I didn't do anything with anyone.
Now my friends say I should hook up with this one really hot guy named Jase they're inviting and I know I should too because I'm getting so sick of not kn...
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Want or Need? (boyfriend)
Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 5:07 pm
ok well me and boyfriend are SO close. I don't know if it's jealousy, that if he was with anything else, that i want him. or that i love him so much i dont know what i would be without him that i need him?
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