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Happy Birthday To Me?
I love my three girlfriends, they always try to make things happen for me that I'm too chicken to do myself. My birthday is in a week and they have organized a party. This is a special exclusive kind of party though, the only way you can be invited in and not be one of the four of us is if you're a hot guy.
Now they did this because they want me to get a move on with guys since I'm 18 and I haven't even kissed a guy yet.
I haven't because I've liked this guy for the longest time and I just didn't have any interest in any other guys so I didn't do anything with anyone.
Now my friends say I should hook up with this one really hot guy named Jase they're inviting and I know I should too because I'm getting so sick of not knowing what it's like. I don't want to have sex with him or anything but I want to at least make out or something.
My problem is that I just started getting closer to the other guy that I liked but I haven't seen him for a while and I don't know him well enough to invite him to my party (and I think he's away for the summer). And I don't think I'm going to have any romantic feelings for Jase. But I think if I want to get together with the guy I like (who is really experienced), I'm going to need some practice.
But at the same time Jase is really experienced too and I don't want to look like an idiot or have him not like me at all.
I don't know what I should do. Like if I hook up with Jase, we both know it's a fling but I've waited so long for this other guy, it feels like I'm throwing it all the way, even though I'm getting so sick of waiting for him.
It feels like I'm going in circles.
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Well, i say before you think about starting a relationship with Jase...
Talk to this guy that you've liked for quite sometime, get to know him, let him get to know you...
Maybe after doing this, you'll realize that he likes you too, and that you 2 are perfect for each other and that you both have an amazing journey ahead of you...
But maybe you'll see that, you guys were not meant for each other, and that you need to get out there and experience new guys....
Don't be shy to talk to this person, you never know what his thoughts are about you. :-)
Talk to him as soon as possible, don't miss the chance!!!
Just remember, you don't find him/her, you find each other. :-)
Hope I Helped~
Tyler~
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Ok first of all I have to say that I admire you for having the self respect to wait for this guy. I think that if you have been waiting all this time that a little longer won't hurt.
On the other hand, does this other guy know you like him? Has he shown any interest in you? I think that maybe when he gets back if he doesn't know tell him and if he does know ask him how he feels. I think that in the end you should follow your gut and do what is right for you.
Ask yourself would you have regrets if you kissed Jase? If the answer is yes then you probably shouldn't do it.
Hope this helped. Happy Birthday
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