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do you think it would be awkward to IM a guy that you liked for 3 years but havent talked to almost 1 year? i really want to start talking to him again. what should i say and what would be a clever way to talk to him again without making it seem obvious. also my friend said i should IM him just making small conversation then after a few times tell him how i feel and if he says he likes me too then continuie talking obviously but if he says he doesnt or doesnt say anything then stop talking to him so he'll feel bad do you think that'd work? should i try that? but how do i start talking to him again i have a 99% feeling he doesnt like me but he used to so it could happen again? how should i start talking to him again? thank you
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i was in a position like yours a little while ago. I say go for it, IM him and see what happens. I agree with your friend, start with small conversations and get to know him again, he's obviously changed in a year. If you feel comfortable in telling him your feelings then go ahead, but i would hold up for a bit and just talk to him as a friend. It may be hard to just be friends for now but later on he may realize that he likes you again, since you started talking to him. anyways, just go with what you feel is right, and good luck.
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i think that you should IM him. and just tell him what you told us. well just be like. "wow ive really missed you, how have you bee, ect." and see how he reacts to that. if hes just like "oh hey, yea, uh nothing" you can tell if hes not interested. just talk to him for awile untill your comfortable telling him how you feel. and if he doesnt like you, then dont just stop talking to him, be his friend. i hope that helps
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