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There are so friggen many!!!


Posted Tuesday January 23 2007, 1:52 am

I can't seem to stop comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends and old "crushes." I know he loves me, but I just can't seem to stop thinking, "She's thinner than me," or "Wow, she's so much prettier than I am," and "She's so funny, do I make him laugh as much as she does?" The irritating thing is a lot of them are still his friends, and he sees them when he's away at college. He's completely against cheating, but I still worry that something will spark between him and one of his exes and he'll leave me.

Incase it matters, I'm 19 and female.

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I miss my ex horribly


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 11:53 pm

Here's the story: I met this amazing guy a couple months ago. We hung out one day and started going out. We tried a relationship for a while but things didn't work out and he said he wanted to be just friends. We turned to be friends with benefits but only made out and thats all i allowed. well i ended up falling in love with him. i wanted so much to be with him. We hung out all the time and became good friends. Well he ended up telling me one day he needed to talk .. i was hoping he would want to get back together but he didnt he wanted to tell me that he likes another girl but wanted to make sure i was ok with it since he broke up with me weeks prior and didnt want me to be upset about it. Ever since that day things weren't the same. We s...

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Should i Tell her? (might be long)


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 11:35 pm

A few years ago i went away to a ball camp held by a local college, that had the players as the actual camp counselors.
To this day she still plays ball, but she is a senior now, and they only have about 4 home games left. I email her sometimes, and i meet up with her after the games to just catch up, but its not that often.

~~~The Prob~~~
I think that im in love with this woman! I even broke up with my girlfriend of almost 1 1/2 because of the way i feel about her... the thing is, i dont even think she has a clue. Everytime I seee her I think about telling her how I feel, but age, sexual orientation (yes im gay) they all play a factor in this. Like i said, she only has a few home games left, and I dont know if...

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I love him but he is moving


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 10:56 pm

I love a guy in my class named Raul. But he is moving 3 hours away. What should i say to him becuase tomorrow is the last day for him. He knows i like him and i think he likes me. What should i say? what is i start crying again?

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should i ... what would happen


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 10:13 pm

okay... so im 13 and my boyfriend just turned 14 he want to do setain thing that im afraid if i do i will get pregnant but the thing is i havent started my period so do think i will get pregant if i havent started my period.

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the younger brother hook up


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 9:23 pm

ok.. so my ex & i have been on & off, but i've hooked up with his brother.. his brother & i have decided to be friends with benefits. i'm in college right now.. && well there is a semi coming up && i want to invite him.. how should i? i want to ask him in a special way and is there anything "special" we can do after the semi?

Sincerely,
Hooking Up

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turn on's and off's


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 9:07 pm

what are some turn-on's that guys like about girls, and what are some turn-offs that guys don't like about girls.

(does that make sense???)

thx, much appriciated

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Eyes


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 8:51 pm

alright so this may or may not be a dumb question
but my boyfreind told me that his biggest turn on is when a guy "eye f*cks" him

and i dont know what that is or how to do it...any pointers?

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Boyfriend?


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 8:46 pm

Well, one of my guy friends who I actually did like confessed that he liked me. We decided to give going out a try. The thing is, he's more experienced (he's 17, I'm 16). I feel like I'm less experienced for my age, but now I don't know where things should go. He doesn't do much, sometimes we hug, but I'm afraid to do anything. And I don't know if we're technically boyfriend/girlfriend. I feel as if I should know all this, but I don't. What do you think is appropriate for the beggining stages of dating? And how can I be less nervous about it?

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Does he want to be more than friends?


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 8:18 pm

He's in the same group of friends as me, so we see each other quite often. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me, or follow me into a different room. He often looks at me from across the room and smiles at me, and when we're in a group laughing about something he'll make eye contact with me. He often seems to be listening to conversations I'm having with other people and sometimes joins in, or comments on something I've said. I'm too shy to say anything about liking him, and he's shy as well. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? What other clues should I look for?

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love bites. [sort of long] but please help!


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 7:11 pm

okay. i'll apologize that this may be long..

i have a wonderful boyfriend. we've been together 10 months. for being freshman, we're doing pretty good. we've only gone as far as fingering/handjob, & hes not a pushy guy at all. the only thing is that he gets really jealous. and i "flirt" a lot. especially with one boy in particular named john. well, john and me are good friends. and john likes me but i've made it clear that i love my boyfriend, and he understands but still says he likes me.

now my boyfriend recently said that it seems like i enjoy talking to john more than i like talking to him & thats not true at all but my boyfriend is convinced that i like john. and i dont ! i just can't get ...

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birthday present


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 5:41 pm

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and I want to get him something special. Hes into theater and things but I want to get him something to show how much I love him. Does anyone have any ideas?

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help


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 5:24 pm

13/f
well i have a friend thats a boy that i knew 4 a while and i would usually go to him when ever i needed help with my life.so me,him and my other friend sit together in science class and me and her would always steal his hat.when ever we stole his hat he would be like give it back and w/e and we wouldn't.so when i stole his hat he was like give it back and i was like no and he was like im not ur friend anymore you can't have my hat give it to vanessa(my frind that sit next to me) and i was like fine w/e but now im really starting to get irratated cuz he's still not talking to me and i don't even kno wat i did wrong.i wouldn't be so pissed if i at least knew wat i did wrong.so can someone help me out her please and thank you.P.S.w...

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i'm falling for the wrong guy and I can't help i


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 5:18 pm

I went out with this boy like a year ago.. we started going out June of 2005 and Broke up Around February of 2006. So we were together for awhile. We loved each other deeply. He was my first that I did sexual things with, and he was my first person I madeout out with. Our love was strong, and we were confident we were getting married. However, he couldn't support me. He had no job, no car, and the only money he got was out off weekly allowance. He usually spent it for himself over me and whenever we went to the movies or out to dinner I had to pay. I didn't mind it for awhile until it became a habit and he was relying on me for money. He didn't get me anything for valentines or my birthday because instead he spent it on other things. He als...

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does he ? please answer is he giving signals


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 5:17 pm

theres this 1 boy who always stares at me & sometimes looks away he stares me in the eyes
and also only talks to me online .. today i first talked to him and i asked him if it was really him online last night he said yeah and like smiled /got all happy type..lol and then i looked back and he put his hand up like come here or something and i kept on walking idk who he ment it to i thought it was one of his friends or something but there was no1 infront of me.. then he was in the same class as me & i came from a different class and i was outside near the lockers he came out and looked and then went back in the room he also has a gf .. but she lives like an hour away from here. the other day (friday) he did that nod thing i aske...

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breaking up


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 4:42 pm

me and my b have been going out for awhile but now i dont really like him that much, i sorta lke some else ): i was thinksing of saying " i dont think we should go out anymore" but that seems a little cliche. anyone have any suggestions?

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Posted Monday January 22 2007, 4:09 pm

omg!!!! ok heres how it is... i like guys VERY easily. i mean one night i'd just be thinking bout some random guy and then i'd think about all the good things bout him then i just go crazy for him!!! but then like a week later i'd be like omg how could i have liked him ?!?! and now its REALLY getting on my nerves bcoz i like this one guy now and i KNOW i really really like him bcoz he's just sooo great and kind nd ive liked him for bout 3 weeks now. but how do i keep hold off him?? i mean i dont wanna just 'go of him', bcoz i really do like him!!

please help!!!!!!
xxxxx

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yeah, yeah, yeah i know..another one of those questions.


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 3:33 pm

15/f

alright so theres this guy that i kinda have a thing for. there are some signs he gives me that says he might like me too, but theres also signs that say he doesnt.

the ones that say he does are:
he asked for my number, and i asked for his. but right after he asked for mine, he asked for another girls' also, but she didnt give it to him.
we joke around all the time, and always make eachother laugh.
when we talk in class, and i whisper, he always asks me to repeat what i said, and i say "nevermind" and he says "you always say nevermind. what did you say?" (and normal people would just drop it..ya know?)
sometimes in class i put my head down and then i turn my...

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military ballllllll =)


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 3:27 pm

okay, my boyfriend is in JROTC, and he invited me to the military ball, but i'm not really comfy wearing like the dressydresses you have to wear to go to those, im VERY modest, and also, hes shorter than me, so i wouldnt be able to wear heels, what should i wear? any ideas? i cant tell him i dont want to go because i dont want to dress up because he's really excited that i'm going and i couldnt do that to him. i need HELPPPPPPPP!


greattlyyy appriciatedddd

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valentine's day


Posted Monday January 22 2007, 3:13 pm

i live in chile. just moved here and i start school feb. 17. i had something with a boy in my old school in costa rica but we havent really talked about it since. and when i do try to talk about it he avoids it. so we werent going out or anything but we sort of had something. im getting over him but i really want someone for valentine's day. it would be perfect if i started school earlier but i cant. what can i do? im not asking for you guys to find someone or anything like that. just i want to know what can i do to get over WANTING to be with someone. what should i do?

thanks. i hope you understood and are able to help me a little bit?

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