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I miss my ex horribly
Here's the story: I met this amazing guy a couple months ago. We hung out one day and started going out. We tried a relationship for a while but things didn't work out and he said he wanted to be just friends. We turned to be friends with benefits but only made out and thats all i allowed. well i ended up falling in love with him. i wanted so much to be with him. We hung out all the time and became good friends. Well he ended up telling me one day he needed to talk .. i was hoping he would want to get back together but he didnt he wanted to tell me that he likes another girl but wanted to make sure i was ok with it since he broke up with me weeks prior and didnt want me to be upset about it. Ever since that day things weren't the same. We stopped hanging out alot and talking. After he stayed home from school for a week and came back, he completely changed. We havent hung out since then and we only talk every now and then. He is "together" with that girl he liked. I really miss him and its been months. I thought i was over him but we've been talking, flirting, and always looking at eachother lately. I think he misses me too but he's afraid to tell me. How can I get myself to talk to him again? I never see him alone that much to be able to talk to him and see if he wants to talk or hang out. I don't think things between him and his girl are good right now. & Im not one of those girls that like to get in between things like that. Tips on how to get a converstation on how to hang out with him and talk, it would be great. THANKS.
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Yeah you don't what to mess things up with him and that girl. He might like her. But you should tell him just find time too,he might like you. But you said he changed right? So you might just miss the memories not him. This is what I say to other people, talk to other guys and maybe you'll start falling for one of them. Just try something and maybe something good may happen. It will be real hard to get over him but you've got to try something right? I hope everything goes well!
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hey, well like you said you dont want to get in between him and his girlfriend. even if things arent good for them right now, there must be a reason that he got together with her in the first place and you wouldnt want to break that. i would get back to the friend level that you were at with him before. always be there for him no matter what. even if its girl problems and it kills you, just be there. that will score you extra points with him. if you guys are meant to be, love will find a way. just continue being friends and then hopefully love will re-develop between you two. also while you guys are at that friend stage, dont be all over him and flirt. if he starts flirting with you then its okay to flirt back. just dont be the one to start it cause that might be a turnoff.
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It sounds like he took advantage of you a little bit but boys will be boys and it sounds like you had a good friendship and if he is what you think than focus on that try to reestablish your friendsip with him just start telling himt hat you miss him and that you don't want to not have him in your life and that all you want from him is the friendship that you once had if nothing more because frindship can last when a relationsip won't and if you really care about this person than you'll accept what he can give you and not be selfish to cut it off if you can't get what you want. Get your friendship back and take it slow really try to be just friends that way you don't have to live without him rather he has a girlfriend or not and you two can be honest with each other and see how far you can go. trust me i've done this before and don't let someone take advatage of you to wher they get everything their way they don't have to claim you and they can get freaky with you when you know deep down inside you want more it is either a friendship or a b-f g-f relationship nothing in between. But always cherich a good friend
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