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Should i Tell her? (might be long)
A few years ago i went away to a ball camp held by a local college, that had the players as the actual camp counselors.
To this day she still plays ball, but she is a senior now, and they only have about 4 home games left. I email her sometimes, and i meet up with her after the games to just catch up, but its not that often.
~~~The Prob~~~
I think that im in love with this woman! I even broke up with my girlfriend of almost 1 1/2 because of the way i feel about her... the thing is, i dont even think she has a clue. Everytime I seee her I think about telling her how I feel, but age, sexual orientation (yes im gay) they all play a factor in this. Like i said, she only has a few home games left, and I dont know if I should tell her, or just go through life not knowing the answers to anything!
Someone plz give any advice!
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hey, if your a girl, then you should find out her orientation. you cant force her to turn lesbian or bisexual. if shes straight then i think that you guys should just stay friends for your friendships sake. it might completly break your friendship apart if you try to turn her lesbian or bisexual or make moves on her.
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If you just sit there and wonder the "if's" and "if i've done that" or "this might've..." it's not gonna get you anywhere dear.
It's hard to ask a girl out when you're a girl because you never know what response you're going to get especially if you don't know the orientation of the person you're going to ask out. Do you know if she's bi or not or lez or not? (age would've helped..for you that is)
Just get a fake screen name, ask her what her sexual orientation is and if she doesn't reply to that, add in the "i'm a girl and i like you." part without your name. See how see reacts to that. If she's bi or lez, ASK HER OUT. If she isn't, ehh you can't really force her to turn bi or lez so ..hmm.
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I think you should consider saying something. You never know how she feels unless you ask.
If you don't ask, you will go through life wondering "what if" and "what might have been."
Sure, there is a chance for rejection, but there is also a chance of not being rejected. You will never know if you let your chance to find out pass you by.
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