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i'm a bitch... =\
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 11:48 am
Okay, well I have a boyfriend who i've been with for over 9 months.. and i love him with everything that i have. he doesn't have the best life, and he's such a happy goofy kid. i love him mentality because he's always so carefree, even though alot of things in his life suck. for example- no father, very sick [in the hospital for years] mother, loser brother, and lives with his uncle. yet he's such a cheerful and funny kid. but, i tend to get annoyed very easily, and whenever he does something dumb, i make him feel stupid about it by saying something mean or sarcastic. and i've finally recognized that i do it, i just don't know how to control it. there have been several occassions that he almost broke up with me because i treat him so crappi...
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ex's birthday
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 11:37 am
hi. today is my ex-boyfriend's birthday & we ended kinda rough cause we were good friends & he asked me out... but i was intimidated cause i really wanted a boyfriend & didn't actually like him, so i dumped him. & we promised each other we would be friends afterwards but... well i sorta started ignoring him cause he is really uncool & i didnt want people to find out we ever went out. should i send him a quick email saying happy birthday, or just let it go? in the hallways, i used to smile or something but now when i do, he looks the other way. he sent me several emails saying are you mad at me & he was just being so stupid & i got so mad at him cause he liked me for less than 24 hours before he asked me out.. wh...
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Help. Jealous.
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 11:22 am
Well. Me and my boyfriend of (9 months.) have a serious jealousy problem. No big. It's just that he doesn't go to my school, and he doesn't want me talking to guys, and it's okay cause I don't want him talking to girls. He wants me to prove it to him that I don't talk to guys. He wont believe any of my girl friends, cause he doesn't like any of them. Oh well. I don't hang out with them anyways. But, anyways. He wont believe if people tell him I don't. I just need a way to prove it to him. I'm sorry this doesn't make any sense. I know it doesn't, but I need advice. I need for him to trust/believe me! Help please. :]
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3 month anniversary
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 10:17 am
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 3 months today and i was wanting to know what should i get him for our 3 month anniversary and i wanted to do something really special for him but the problem is that i don't have any money what should i do?
p.s.
If it would help to know how old we are i am 18 and he's 16.
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Boys, Boys, Boys
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 9:15 am
Ok, so I'm in a wierd situation. I havn't really dated a lot in high school and most of the boys in my class I'm just friends with. The other day I met this guy and I want to get to know him better, but he goes to a different school, and I'm not sure if he'd ever be interested in me. How should I approach this situation?
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follow up on an old question of mine (This is long)
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 8:05 am
22/f
Ok just a little over a month ago I asked a question about being envious of my friend and i got a couple of responses. If you want to know the whole story my question was under "envious of friend" dated February 28th in the love life category.
My friend Sabrina and went back to the club last night for the club's 29th birthday. We took a good friend of our with us. He is like our brother and is very protective of us. We don’t mind it because it keeps the creeps away from us( trust me you don’t want to get a glare from this guy... but he is harmless) and he gets to relax and watch us dance and shake our butts. we told him he had to behave and not get jealous of the way Sabrina and Brett danced....
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any better ways to find out
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 2:20 am
But isn't it ridiculous for a best friend to treat me as sister? In this world I know there would be a slightly possibility about best friend being treated as a sister but is there other ways that I could actually find out whether he has gone beyond just becoming best friends? If he really treats me as so called sister, why would he wants to treat me so caring, protective and also flirts with me? I do not want to speak out what is in my mind where I can also risk my friendship between him. I'm afraid he might step back and not be any closer to me anymore than usual. By the way, will it be a conclusion that our friendship will not go beyond best friends when he say "its impossible for us to be together" or "I am not too good to be your boyfriend"?
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penis size
Posted Monday April 2 2007, 12:20 am
alright so i'm a 17 year old guy and i've always wondered if i'm small or normal size or what, its 4 and a half inches soft
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should i trust him?
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 11:27 pm
there's this guy i really like... i'm not sure if it's lust or if i really care for him... but anyways he's been going "steady" on and off with this one girl for about 2 years... he says that he really loves her... but he's constantly cheating on her... and he's lied to me before about not going out with her when they were so we could hook up... now he says that they're back to being just friends and they've been broken up for about 2 weeks... he only told me this after i told him i didn't wanna hook up if they were going out... so what should i do? should i give him the benifit of the doubt even though he's already let me down, or should i tell him that i just can't trust him or what? i'm so confused...
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does sex really = love?
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 11:23 pm
quite a few people have told me that when a chick has sex it releases some chemical that makes you think that you're in love. so i was wondering does it?
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love or luv?
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 10:14 pm
I'm 13 and female my boyfriend is 14 or so he says. My boyfriend says he L O V E S me, but I don't! i might L U V him but i don't know. He has a tongue peircing and is going to get a tatoo! He's only 13! I severely disapprove of this. Should I break up with him? I think he lies to me too....I asked the advice of my best friend and she is very modest, so she doesn't know. But I really think I should, he is incredibly sweet but he makes incredibly stupid choices! Should I wait until he moves and just endure it or break up now? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!
-~-~the IcedOver heart-~-~
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falling in "love"
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 10:14 pm
i have a problem which i kinda consider a major issue. the thing is that i think i fall in "love" way too easily. and i cant figure out why.
everyboy who is hot and flirts with me. i suddenly like fall in love with them, well kinda. and i need to snap out of it.
what are some thing i can do. to not fall for guys so easily??
this yeah i have been in 3 relationships. all ended miserably... ahhh i need some help =)
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friends' ex...
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 9:30 pm
To be blunt: I like my best friend's ex-boyfriend. She broke up with him about 6 months ago because she didn't really like him anymore.
She knows I like him, and she said that it kind of bothers her, but not too much. She might like him a little bit, and they're still friends.
I'm good friends with this guy, and I'm scared to do anything. It's hard for me, because I honestly like him. Besides, SHE broke up with HIM because she didn't like him anymore at the time!
Please help me; I don't know what to do. I'm at a loss here.
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FWB
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 8:52 pm
I dated my exboyfriend for over a year and last week he broke up with me...I was very upset becuase I love him. I begged him to take me back...and he wouldn't he told me that I stressed him out so much.
Then we started talking and the way he was acting it seemed like he wanted to get back together. So i asked him about it and he said he didnt. I said I wanted to come over to his house and he didnt seem intrested
Then last night he called me and was telling me all about his day and was like "Do you still want to come over tommorrow" so I was like sure.
I went over and it was awkward, we were watching a movie and i guess you could say we started playing footsies then he started tickling ...
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Maybe I'm being silly.
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 8:26 pm
I guess I probably just need someone to tell me I'm being an idiot for this, but I'm really pissed off right now.
19/F.
I've been living with my boyfriend for about 4 months. We're both university students. We've become really close over the time we've been dating, so it's not just a casual relationship.
Today is our six month anniversary. I wanted to do something really nice for him, because he's been really good to me. I told him about my plans, and he okayed them. I wanted to have a nice romantic evening and cook dinner for him.
He was at military training this weekend (for the reserves) and he got back about an hour ago.
He brought his brother with him. He ...
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jealous problem
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 8:02 pm
i have the worst jealous problem ever and my boyfriend knows it. i think it's starting to affect our relationship. are arguments are only about that, and i'm the one that starts them because i ask stupid questions. then after the fight we are all better. but i need to know what i can do that will help me get over this, because he has no idea what to do anymore to prove to me that nothing is going to happen between me and him, and i'm scared that if things don't get fixed soon i'll lose him...what can i do so get me self over this jealous problem i have??
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My love has prerequisites
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 7:45 pm
I am a 17 y/o male. My "love" is not talking to me because she wants someone taller and heavier than herself. I am 5'10", 130 lbs, and she is 5'9", 130 lbs. She feels that i must be heavier, not just the same weight. Since my weight is distributed throughout muscle, she is insecure. I have trouble gaining weight, so what should i do?
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hes moving way too fast
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 7:31 pm
well i really really like this guy and weve been talking for a week and we hung out last night and it was amazing..i had so much fun with him and we kissed and he kept complimenting me and kissing my hand and he was just so fun and nice and i had a great time with him and we were comfortable around each other which is a good sign but heres the thing..he called me today and said he has never felt so strongly about someone and he said hes pretty much in love with me and then all the sudden he said "do you wanna go out with me?" i wanted to say yes but its only been a WEEK and is it just me or is it a little too soon to be saying he loves me? i dont wanna say it back yet cause he might just mean it in a way such as girls say they lov...
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drama with bf & bff. ugh.
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 7:28 pm
hi. i have issues trusting everyone, even myself. so that's why i'm asking this question. my boyfriend is great & i love him but i just...i cant trust him. before i dated him he dated one of my good friends & that didnt work out, but theres been rumors going on right now that he told her he still has feelings for her. and i mean this actually doesnt surprise me, because hes got a history of screwing girls over...for other girls. and that hurts me because i get jealous easily and he has the player impression. i dont know if he would hurt me. but that really hurt me when i found out that my friend was bragging that he still likes her (which is actually how i found out that hes still into her). so i confronted him about it...i dont kno...
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Is it true
Posted Sunday April 1 2007, 5:53 pm
Well hello everyone i hope everyone is doing just dandy and having a good part of there life that is happy. well lets get started you see i am dating a wonderfull girl but sometimes i am unsure if she truly cares. she sometimes tends i dunno when we talk on the phone it seems like she always gets upset with me. and i dunno what to do because i know what we have is true love and that is very rare to have or find in todays societies. so what can i do to i dunno show her how much i care so that i may know how much she cares about me. i mean is there anything i can say or do to show her that i care.
thnx for all the comments
god bless you all
monn
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