But isn't it ridiculous for a best friend to treat me as sister? In this world I know there would be a slightly possibility about best friend being treated as a sister but is there other ways that I could actually find out whether he has gone beyond just becoming best friends? If he really treats me as so called sister, why would he wants to treat me so caring, protective and also flirts with me? I do not want to speak out what is in my mind where I can also risk my friendship between him. I'm afraid he might step back and not be any closer to me anymore than usual. By the way, will it be a conclusion that our friendship will not go beyond best friends when he say "its impossible for us to be together" or "I am not too good to be your boyfriend"?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? iwantthetruth answered Monday April 2 2007, 3:00 am: i think he is confused about what he should do. i think it could be more than a friendship if he wanted it to be. it could work. and by a sister i mean he loves soo much but in a friendly way. maybe he does like you but doesnt really want a gf at the moment or is afraid it will mess your friendship. another possibility: ok this may sound weird but it happened to me. i was in the same exact situation as you detail for detail exactly the same. but then i realized he never asked me out because he was gay. or at least he was confused. but not anymore. i know this may seem outrageous but maybe he is gay.
also another girl suggested that the best way to tell if a guy that is sending you mixed signals feels about you is to kiss him. cheek would be better so that he isnt totally freaked out. his reaction to your kiss will make it obvious that he either like you or doesnt. well hope this helps. [ iwantthetruth's advice column | Ask iwantthetruth A Question ]
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