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guy likes me but pretends he doesnt...
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:45 pm
14/f and hes 15/m (both in same grade)
ok i loved this guy for so long and towards like may of last year i told him i loved him and he said we should just be friends. but i've talked to like 3 of his really close friends and they said that they thought he really loved me. i don't understand. why would he pretend? any ideas? also, it's been awhile (seems like forever) since this happened and i still can't get over him..i really love him ..what should i do? should i just forget about him? were friends now and we do talk and stuff but if i were to just bring up the fact of me and him being in a relationship together it'd be really awkward...thanks for helpingg.
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who to choose?
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:42 pm
Okay so here's the situation. In 6th grade I really liked this guy named Jamie. But half way through the year he moved to hong kong. but while he was there, we talked on AIM and he told me he liked me and i told him that i liked him too. he came back for 4th quarter that year, but i was going out with this other guy. so then he went back to hong kong, but last summer he came back and called me and wanted to play tennis with me. after we played tennis, he invited me to a movie. we didn't hold hands or anything, and he never said he liked me again. but over spring break last year i met this guy robert. he lives in pennsylvania, and we talked a little bit, and when we talked online later he said that he liked me. i just talked to him tonight o...
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cheaters
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:28 pm
What are signs of a cheating bf..and what would make a boy want to cheat? thanks..idk if im being to paranoid or not so i wanted to get your guys imput
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i need a way to tell her
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:18 pm
I'm 16/m. How can I tell my best friend i have feelings for her...without pretty much just saying "I have feelings for you?" I mean I want to I guess hint at it, beacuse I don't want to ruin the friendship.
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A boy who's older by 2 years..
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:16 pm
There's a guy who's my brother's friend. He's older than me by 2 years. He likes to poke me, he likes to come up and talk to me.
At a Scholar Bowl match last year (when we were both in the same scool), he picked an open seat next to me when there were other seats open. At my aunt's house I was sitting on the couch, he rolls me off, and I hit the floor. I get back up he pushes me on to the couch, says 'Rarr!' and pokes me before leaving me alone.
I've never caught him staring at me, but he looks in my eyes for EVERY single second when we talk. At a dance he took streamer and tried to make me a 'mummy' by wrapping streamer around my head, and that's about all I can think of. Do you think he likes me? I think he...
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too flirtayy!
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:15 pm
ok. my problem is that when i like a guy, i make it way
obvious (not on purpose) by flirting with them and talk-
ing to them etc. and just making eye contact. i can't
help it. it's like a feeling of being noticed, sort of.
but i
only do this with guys i know i have a chance with. not
"popular" guys that i like. how do i stop being so flirty
and messing up my chances so quickly? it's like i start
digging him, and then i come on so fast like by flirting
and talking etc. that i feel like they dont like me.
how do
i take it slow, and not be so flirtatious all the time? +
please dont say "'it's okay to be flirty." cause i kno...
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how do i make the first move?
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:59 pm
15/f
i like this guy in my chemistry class and i talk to him in class and we flirt and such. recently, he's been making his flirting a lot more obvious. like he'll come up behind me and pretend to bump into me and does little things just to touch me. so i'm basically assuming that he likes me (i think that's safe to say). how do i make myself more approachable? or how do i make the first move?
(keep in mind that we only have this one class together and we're like friends but not like 'hey lets go to the movies together' friends.. so none of that.)
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hurt again
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:54 pm
So i met this guy and im in 8th grade and hes two years older. Things progressed and i felt like he was diffrent from all the rest. Obviously we did sexual stuff but he told me he wanted to have something with me later on and keep me around. But recently his parents just talked to him about me being younger and now he barley talks to me. I have to make the effort for a conversation and it seems like he doesnt even want to be talking to me. he told me he still wanted to be "together" and that he likes me. but hes not acting on it anymore. Hes also putting off hanging out with me. Should i like keep trying or just let him go? i rellly like him.
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Annoying?
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:39 pm
18/Female - Okay, i have a dilemma. I haven't had great luck with guys - i've been cheated on, lied and all that. I am currently dating someone right now. We've been dating for a little over a month. He has mentioned that i ask too many questions, and that i say too many stupid things. I don't think i ask too many questions, or say stupid things. Because of my bad luck with guys, i tend to ask questions like "would you cheat on me? do you even like me? where do you see us going?" I've had about six guys all say the same thing - that i'm annoying, and that i need to relax, and just go with the flow cause when i try to hard it ruins the relationship. My current boyfriend just lost his job, so i haven't exactly seen him in a while (f...
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losing interest
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:34 pm
im 15/f. if i find out a guy i like likes me back, i usually lose interest in him. am i not ready for a boyfried or what? its seriously annoying and id love it to stop
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what to i do?
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:33 pm
okay, well my mom does pot, and she tries to hide it and stuff, but come on im not stupid ive known for liek ever, anyway that makes me like fucking hate drugs for soem reason, im not saying i havent made mistaks and done it before but thats not the point, but that was only once. anyway, my bestfriend and boyfriend, well do pot every idk not even month or so, and lately just this past week its been like 3 times, and he knows how i feel about it and it hurts me, and i dont want to control him at all, but i dont know what to do, he says he wont do anything after 4.20 from now on...but i mean how cna i talk to him and stuff, or should i just let it go some how? please help.
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MY boyfrined is about to break up with me
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 8:48 pm
i have only been with two guys. im a female 15. i have never been dumped by a guy but i think my boyfriend is implying that we should break up we dont see each other that much but we talk to each other everyday. hes a very blunt person though. he feels as if he doesnt have a girlfriend..but i do care about him and his feelings. we've only been going out for 1 month but have been talking since january of this year. i know if he doesnt want me then its okay because i can do much better but what can i say to him and what can i expect for him to say to me.
hes already said," dont you think we've been going out for a long time now"
i said no
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make it obvious
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 8:01 pm
ok, so i'm 15/f and i'm gay, it's not too big a deal in my community, but i am still worried about coming out because there are some people who would kind of shun me and such. Anyways, there is this girl who is 17 and she's a lesbian, and i kind of like her, but that doesn't really matter because she has a girlfriend and i would never want to come between them. anyways, i kind of would like to just talk to her about it and stuff because i look up to her a lot, and the only person i can talk to is my best friend, who is cool with me being gay, but not too helpful since she's straight.
anyhow, this 17 year old girl thinks i'm straight probably and i want to start dropping hints, not just towards her, to everyone that i'm gay be...
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a crush
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 7:27 pm
i had the second best day of my lifee today and i just really want to tell someone but everyone is busy!! and i'm really pissed off at everyone cause no one will talk to meee!
so i have science as the last period of the day, and i really really have a huge crush on this guy in my class. it's not like a pathedic crush where i have no chance with him - but i do have a chance with him cause he is not so cool (like me) and i'm not saying he likes me though - but he knows who i am :)
omg so you guys the bell rang, right, and 8th period ended, and i was walking towards my locker and "he" was in front of me for a little while and he just like abruptly stopped cause his locker was to the left, so he goes to t...
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flirting help.
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 7:25 pm
so i'm horrible at flirting. like seriously horrible.
how do you flirt? & flirt good. i want to be good at it so i can get this guy to notice me.
please help?
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bf
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 7:17 pm
im 16/f and my b/f thinks im too clingy but i don't know how iam help? what should i do?
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Flirting Techniques
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 6:49 pm
I've asked many questions about this but I'm still confused. There is a boy who lives in Germany, and I really like him. I have never felt this way about ANYONE before, and I am just really happy talking to him.
I KNOW that I'll probably never meet him, and that we will definitely never go out. So don't tell me that, I know. But I still wish there was some way to tell him how much I like him. I want it to be subtle, and I don't want to freak him out. Sugguestions?
**Also please don't tell me, "He could be a 60 year old man." I'm not an idiot, and I am 100% positive that he's real.**
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Good Idea?
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 6:46 pm
Every day after school, I get on the computer. I talk to this guy that I like. (He can only stay on the computer until 5:30 PM.) Before I met him, I would work out every day at 4. Reccently, I've been starting working out later, like at 4:30. Whenever I tell him I have to go, he always says, "Don't leave me." or "I want you to stay!" I really want to stay and talk to him, but I know I'll be sorry if I don't work out. Do you think I'm right to sign off at 4:30? I like him, and I like to exercise, I really don't want to give up either. (Unfortunately, we do NOT live in the same state so "hanging out" is not an option. And the only time I can talk to him is between 3:30 and 4:30.) Am I just wasting my time?
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Lesbian love advice needed
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 6:37 pm
Hi, I'm a 20 year old lesbian and I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for over 3 years. She's the first long term relationship I've ever had. I've been living with her for about a year and a half. She pays for everything for me, and the house is hers.
I'm the kind of girl who gets big crushes that last for months. But I never really got a crush on my girlfriend, I just started dating her because she seemed like she would make a nice girlfriend. So ever since we've been together I've still been getting crushes on other women. I haven't been with anyone else, but I don't know if I should just keep staying in this relationship just because we make a good couple. If I left then I'd have to move back in with my m...
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this guy
Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 4:49 pm
i met a guy about a month ago at a mixer, i go to an all girls hs and he goes to an all guys. hes cute and nice and i like him. but hes really shy so like he doesnt call me or even IM me .. i have to do all of that. his school is having a semi in may and i reallllyyyy wanna go with him, but i cant ask him cause it's his school and his dance. how can i like get him to like me, or to talk to me more. pleaseeee help
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