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what to i do?


Question Posted Wednesday April 18 2007, 9:33 pm

okay, well my mom does pot, and she tries to hide it and stuff, but come on im not stupid ive known for liek ever, anyway that makes me like fucking hate drugs for soem reason, im not saying i havent made mistaks and done it before but thats not the point, but that was only once. anyway, my bestfriend and boyfriend, well do pot every idk not even month or so, and lately just this past week its been like 3 times, and he knows how i feel about it and it hurts me, and i dont want to control him at all, but i dont know what to do, he says he wont do anything after 4.20 from now on...but i mean how cna i talk to him and stuff, or should i just let it go some how? please help.

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RaDeuX answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 11:28 pm:
Well you'd be surprised how much more deadly caffeine or nicotine can be, despite the fact that they are legal drugs. Using marijuana just kills brain cells. However, if you smoke marijuana constantly for a long time, (say one or two years) then there will be some unwanted side effects. If it's every month or so, then your boyfriend and best friend aren't even damaging their lungs. They're just killing brain cells which is no big deal.

I suggest you let him smoke marijuana each month or so, but if he smokes it on a daily or near-daily basis, you should make him stop.

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god-smusgrove answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:48 pm:
ask him why he does it. and if you dont like the answer, convince him to stop, if you can't influence him then dump him.

random fact:

did you know that if you eat bacon every day of your life, you have an 80% more chance of developing lung cancer and emphazima than you normally would had you not?

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Lalagurl answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:22 pm:
your supposed to hate drugs....

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JJbaYbe answered Wednesday April 18 2007, 10:16 pm:
you shouldnt be around people that do things that you uncomfortable. im actually currently going through the same thing. you may need to take a break from your boyfriend and friends that do it. try to be around people that dont do it. i still managed to be friends with the people that smoke weed but ive become closed to the friends that dont and its helped alot

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