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Annoying?
18/Female - Okay, i have a dilemma. I haven't had great luck with guys - i've been cheated on, lied and all that. I am currently dating someone right now. We've been dating for a little over a month. He has mentioned that i ask too many questions, and that i say too many stupid things. I don't think i ask too many questions, or say stupid things. Because of my bad luck with guys, i tend to ask questions like "would you cheat on me? do you even like me? where do you see us going?" I've had about six guys all say the same thing - that i'm annoying, and that i need to relax, and just go with the flow cause when i try to hard it ruins the relationship. My current boyfriend just lost his job, so i haven't exactly seen him in a while (few weeks), he gets mad when i mention seeing him, or when i try to help him out. Am i really that bad of a girlfriend? How do i just go with the flow, and not worry about stuff? How do i stop myself from asking too many questions and saying stupid things?
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I'm afraid to say that if six guys are telling you that you ask too many questions, then it may be true. I think you should go out with a guy that you can actually trust, and not just rely on your luck and hope for the best. Finding a good partner takes a lot of time and patience. I'm not trying to be mean, but just realistic.
For the part about your current boyfriend, the best thing to do when a guy loses his job or something important is to make him forget about it. Not forcefully, but by giving him a good time. Don't directly tell him to just forget about his job, or else that'll irritate him even further.
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well that sucks, honestly get a nerdy boyfriend, he won't ask many questions, he'll be very quiet, he'll get turned on easily, and if things get serious, he'll be a millionaire when he starts his first major career.
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it sounds like your scared of getting hurt again and thats completely understandable. you need to remind yourself that just because the last guy hurt you doesnt mean this one will. this guy is probably getting annoyed with you cuz he thinks you dont trust him. you just have to forget about the old relationships and try to start fresh
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First off, you need to explain to him the reason why you ask so many question.
It is because of your past that you have some issues with trust. If he doesn't understand that, then i'm sorry, but this guy is not worth it. If he loves you, he will understand and help you get through this.
As long as you both try together and make an effort to fix this.
It's not your fault and he shouldn't make you feel like it is.
Good luck!
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