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what should i do about chad?!


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 9:01 am


hi..lets call me jane...okay so im like obsessively in like with my best guy friend, lets call him chad. okay so my best girl friend lets call her...well her names sam. okay so i told sam that i told chad i liked him and she was like OMG RLY? YAY so then she messaged chad on myspace and was like "omg jane told you she liked you!?!?!?" but hes not on right now..the thing is I NEVER REALLY TOLD CHAD! what do i do?! do i lie and make up a story saying that i was joking or do i actually tell him? thing is-- im POSITIVE he doesnt like me.

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my bf/bff is shy!


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 6:31 am

13/f ~ Much help needed

Ok, so my best guy friend and I have gotten together 2 days ago. He was always kinda shy even when we were just friends, but when we IM each other its like we can talk about anything, ever since we got together we have been talking for almost 3 hours, on AIM, but we don't seem to have that kind of convo in person. What kind of topic starters could we talk about in person.

Secondly,
He is shy but I want to hold his hand or hug him so much, (I am not really wanting to kiss him until we can have a good convo in person.) but I don't know if I should make the first move or if I should wait for him, should I say something about it on AIM, or not? Help please!


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OMG making out but where????


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 5:10 am

okay so me n my bf hav been goin out for the past two months n the thing is we like makin out n stuff but its totally taboo in our school...i mean there was this huge scandal when a guy n a girl frm our school ran away together and the school got a lotta bad publicity so now its like we get sent to the principal if we're caught holding hands and the teachers act suspicious if you talk to a guy for too long...so my bf really wants us to make out in the library...n its not lyk i dont want to...i totally do..just as much as him. n i'm ready n everything but isnt it a [HUGE] risk?? and also both our parents dont know so could we lyk hav sum suggestions on how to do this...cuz in a few days practice for our annual concert's gonna start and thats...

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i cant date till im 18?


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 3:29 am

okay i like this guy and this guy likes me back but the thing is i cant date till im 18 and im 16 right and and he is too and i dont know what to do if he's gonna ask me out because i cant date and stuff my parents said i cant date till im 18 he already holds my waist and stuff what do you think i should do? =/

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my boyfriend & my mom


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 1:26 am

I met my boyfriend 3 years ago & we went out for many many months, but never saw each other. We were young & he's a year younger than me. (We were about 14 & 13) We broke up bcuz I got mad at him for not calling me when we were supposed to meet somewhere. (Stupid, huh?) Anyways... over the summer he saw my myspace & told me to call him. I did and we talk everyday & about ANY & EVERYthing. We laugh all the time. So I work at Six Flags and he met me up there AFTER 2 years yesterday. (HE GREW UP. TALL. NICE MUSCLES. CUTIEEE hehehe) We had so much fun and he met all my co-workers/friends & manager! We laughed all night. He says the funniest things. His hugs are amazing. The way he holds me is just right, you know? So...

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Homecoming.


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 12:48 am

Homecoming is next weekend, but I'm not sure if I should go. I haven't been asked by anyone, but a bunch of my friends are going as a group. The problem is, I am deeply in love with my best friend, but she has a boyfriend; of course, they will be going to the dance together and will probably make out with each other half the time.

If I don't go, I will just stay home and be miserable. But if I do go, I have to watch my best friend and her boyfriend as well as all the other couples and I'm not sure if I can handle that.

Should I go? And if you think I should go, what advice do you have for coping with watching the girl I love be with another guy? And don't tell me to just move on and get over her; I have been trying for over six months.

15/f

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quote help!


Posted Monday October 1 2007, 12:16 am

i met this amazing guy, who likes me for who i am. and everything. :) but i wanted to send him this qoute like .. i may not have the smallest waist, or the blah blah blah but i promise to have the biggest heart to love you with. i cant remember it and its driving me nuts. haha if you can find it or one thats simliar id appreciate. :) thanks.

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kissing


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 11:46 pm

i've never kissed a guy before :[
how do you kiss? please explain to me with full details im kind of slow hahaa
thankss,

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guys


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 10:30 pm

THe guys in my grade either dont no me or think im annoying. I think i just talk alot but wutever. Can someone please give me tips to look sexy and stop being annoying! or any confidence boosting tips.thanks=D

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Halloween Costume


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:45 pm

So this coming month will be 8 months for my boyfriend and I. he's 17 and i am 16. He always tells me what his parents were for halloween ( they were highschool sweethearts ) soo i ended up buying a costume already for myself but decided that i really wanted to do something fun with him. Any funny/cute halloween couple costumes.. you could think of?

thanks soo much!

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he kind of freaked me out


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:40 pm

okay, so i was bored and i randomly texted my boyfriend and was like if you could do anything with me what would it be? and he texted back saying f**k you hard and long.. and he never talks like that, and never even acted like that, so it kind of freaked me out, so um what should i do??

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lesbian?


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:04 pm

i have a girlfriend right now. ive been with her for 2 years. i love her to death. were both 20 years old. the thing is, shes the first girl ive been with. it doesnt matter to be because im really in love with her and i know i cant live without her. so ive been with guys all my life before her. the other night...i was at a party [she wasnt there] and this guy was all over me. he was SO CUTE. but i dont like guys. i dont think theyre bodies are attractive. just their faces i think? i have no idea! im so confused. ive been thinking about this guy all weekend. what is going on? i have no idea what to do.. i really like him. i also have a class with him a few times a week to make it a little harder for me to get him off my mind! :[

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Making out.


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 9:01 pm

Okay, so I just started going out with this boy. I've never hooked up with anyone before. So I've hooked up with him a couple times, but I have no idea what I'm supposed to do with my tounge. He puts his tounge in my mouth, but I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Please explain. =]

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communication problems


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:58 pm

Okay, so first off...I'm a REALLY bad phone person.

I'm 16/f and a junior in highschool. (hes 18 and we dont go to school together...he doesnt go to school)

After about 5 months of little random hook-ups sometimes and "i like you's" then "i don't like you anymore's" (haha), i think things are starting to go SOMEWHERE with this guy.

but anyways....i get so nervous with phone and communication and stuff....and ill be thinking of a guy all day the next day after we hang out and i ujst get so nervous to make phone calls and stuff and i always just dont do it cause im nervous and then they feel like im not interested or i dont care and stuff...i really mess it up for myself
...

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i dont get it


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:51 pm

one time one of my girlfriends was talking with all of my guy friends. there's about 7 of them. somehow they got on to the topic of who was the prettiest of the bunch. i was not with them when they were talking about this. they said that another one of my girlfriends was the hottest but i was the most beautiful, and i wasn't there so they weren't saying it to be nice. anyway, i hear about this and before i never thought i was really pretty and thats why i never got a boyfriend. but now i know they think im really pretty yet still i have not gotten a boyfriend. well i had one but it didnt last long. i'm not slutty. i know i talk a lot but i try not to around the guys. i flirt occasionally but not with everyone. i've told some of my guy frien...

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Heart Throb


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:31 pm

Okay, so I like this guy. I have for six years now. One problem is he lives in another country. How do I flirt/show him I like him?

I like him a lot. :]

(15/f)

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torn


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 7:15 pm

17/F

I've been dating my boyfriend for about 10 months now, and i love him dearly. Nobody has ever cared about me like he has. We've hit our rough patches, but always manage to come back to each other. I trust him completely, and he trusts me. He goes to a private school and lives about 20 minutes from me. But this hasn't hindered much of the relationship.

However, at the beginning of our relationship i had met another guy from my own school, a year older. Since i met this kid (around december of last year) i've had a mini "crush" on him. We both showed quite the interest in each other. This year for some reason, it must have gotten back to him that i really had a little thing for him, and he is still...

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Homecoming.


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 6:58 pm

Well, my boyfriend got homecoming king and he told me and he said "I don't know who the queen is but I really don't care."


So, he's probably going to be dancing with another girl...I'm so scared tho..
what do I do?

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cheating??


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 6:56 pm

If you was with your boyfriend like last week, and you guys madeout.. and you started getting a bump on your lip a few days later..like a coldsore? does that mean he's cheating on you? or he's not clean or something?
Well, I got one, I don't think it's one tho, cause I popped it and I think it's a pimple cause yeah, I don't know, I'm confused.


Is he cheating on me?

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boyfriend


Posted Sunday September 30 2007, 6:28 pm

Where are some good places that is just random to makeout at? I already took my boyfriend in a elevator! and we went to a park=] so yeah any ideas?


thanks in advance=]

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