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absence of affection


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 4:17 pm

I have a lot of guy friends, and they show signs that I see as affection. None but one has ever asked me out. I like these little signs of attention that others may not get, and I want it to go somewhere, at least in my mind. I imagine what it would be like date each of them, but in real life, I could never actually see myself actually hooking up with them. I love guys and love to hang out and chat with them (it's less drama than my girl friends), but I am nervous that my affection could be taken a way that I want it to be taken, but I know that I would never feel comfortable dating one of them. Does that make sense? I am super confused with myself.

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how do i get him ?


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 3:38 pm

Okay. So heres the situation. I like a guy and he really likes me Im 15 and Hes going to be 17 pretty soon. we've known each other for 2 years and we are very close! the other day he told me he liked me . but the problem is we live in 2 different towns and they are about 45 mins apart from each other. And pretty much what i am asking is how i can work around the distance and make things easier for dating and how can i get him to ask me without seeming pushy.?

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My boyfriend won't grow up!!


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 1:20 pm

So ever since I was like 17 I've wanted to move out straight after high school and still go to college. I found a boyfriend and me and him were together my entire senior year of high school... and things were great between us! We had talked about moving out for a year and when the day came to sign the papers, he didn't want to because his mom said that she wouldn't approve. He listens to everything that she has to say and he is a year older than me. He doesn't speak his mind to his mom and we are stuck doing what she wants us to do... like get married at 23 and have kids at like 27.. I've had all these plans about getting married when I was 21 and having kids at 23.. and majoring in elementary education. I have a feeling that I'm pregnant a...

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The All Too Common "Does He Like Me" Question....I Really Ne


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 4:56 am

Okay there is this guy I like. Im 20 and he is 26. He is over at my house all the time, and we will be sitting in the backyard and he will pick up a handful of rocks and playfully throw them at me. Or I will get a text from a friend and he will text me (when he is like 2 feet away) and he will be like "is this the only way you will pay attention to me? I’m an attention whore" or "I’m shy around you. I have a hard time talking to you, you make me blush" Or when he leaves he sometimes will be like "don’t miss me...I know you do when I’m gone". He always stares at me and when he talks to me he is always looking me in the eyes. I will be sitting on the couch and he will sit right next to me to where our le...

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am i being slutty?


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 4:10 am

okay i like this guy and he likes me and we're not going out because i cant date yet and he said he'll wait for 2 years to date me but we cuddle a lot and stuff and this guy friend who has a gf likes me saw us hugging and stuff and he was like "if your not going out why he be grabbing you and when he calls you your like a pet to him you go right after
not to be mean but if you really werent.. then i am ashamed of you cause you should KNOW better soo do you really let a guy do that to you when ur not together? just think about it" what is he trying to say? am i being ****/easy? i like him but then im kinda confused because i like this one guy too >.< any advice?

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NICK and Bs.


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 1:00 am

It started with nick calling me beautiful and him wantint to date me we made out at some party and then over the next month i didnt wanna date anything then finally on the 6/20 we started dateing. he was nice and called me and we partyied and hung out all the time he also took me to movies and he was whiped at one point then i started careing to much and he broke up with me 1st time bc he didnt want a girlfriend then a day later we began kiss the kissing goes on for like 2 weeks then we start dateing again this point its the beginning of the school year tthe next few weeks were very deep and i told nick i loved him and he said it back.. but he was more a asshole by not answering my calls and he just didnt care as much like my pictures used...

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making out!


Posted Friday October 19 2007, 12:57 am

okay so my name is lauren.
14/f
so i like this guy who has a girl friend and he wants to make out with me and i want to too. the problem is i have never made out with someone b4 but he thinks i have. will he notice that i havent. and do you have any tips!??


thanks

~LaUrEn~

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Guys are so confusing


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 11:45 pm

Theres this guy who's reallly cute. Im not going to say i like him, because i dont, but I wanna flirt with him more and get him to wanna talk to me and stuff. I dont see him that much, but when i do i flirt with him like crazy. He does it back but neither of us has been like "can i get your number?" is there anything i can do to make him wanna ask me out on a date, or ask me my number? flirty tips, or just conversation tips would be greatly appreciated! thankss

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Wat do i do


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 11:36 pm

Look...i really like this guy and he really likes me but i also like this other guy...and i think about them both all the time....wat do i do? the guy that likes me back means the world to me while the other one is just a "man Whore" but i like them both...help me

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whats the diffrence?


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 10:51 pm

whats the diffrence between being a flirt and a slut? because im a natural flirt and i dont wanna seem as a slut =/

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whats wrong with me?


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 10:50 pm

okay im a natural flirt and sometimes i dont even know when im flirting just my friends tells me that im flirting and such and when i like someone and they like me back i always back off or my feelings for them starting to fade away and stuff why is it like that? i never had a boyfriend do you think i have a commitment issue? even though they are hot and cute and all i lose interest if they likeme back what does it mean?

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Ex-girlfriend Returning


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 10:38 pm

Okay, this is rather long, I'm sorry.
I'm currently dating this guy, we've been together for about a little more than half a year, maybe about two months more. But recently, his ex came back into the city. They were together, two years ago but then they broke up and she left for Penn, (or at least this is what his friend told me) But anyways, it has been really awkward knowing that she is in our same school and she is his ex. I guess everything would be okay- I could live with it if she didn't happen to be living with him as well. Because her parents and his parents are very close friends and since they just moved back and they didn't seem to find a house to settle down in, they are living in my boyfriends house...which is extr...

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kissing


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 10:36 pm

Any advice on kissing? tonight was my first one and I am awful... lol

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me & this guy


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 8:13 pm

alright ok sorry for one of these "does he like me" questions lol.
alright so i like this guy and he's in one of my classes and lunch.
my friends say he's really quiet;;;which i could totally see...except for when he's in my cultural geography class...he kinda talks a lot.
except see we've never talked before
i have a MAJOR problem talking to guys i like.
i overanalyze EVERYTHING i say and get sooo self-conscious
my friends say he always looks at me & it seems like he likes me even though we;ve never talked lol. i even sometimes catch him staring.
ok so the problem;;what should i do to get my confidence to talk to him or whatever?

thank you :]

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love trouble


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 7:09 pm

15/f
I don't know what to do anymore I really like him but he seems to be interested in my best friend. I've tried everything but I'm about to just give up because what ever I seem to do isn't working. I've already talked to her and she respects my feelings but she still flirts with him he says he doesn't like her but yet he flirts back with her. It just hurts because I really like him. I don't know what to do.

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Personally bout love trouble


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 5:30 pm

What do yuh do wen yuh fall
nd ur broken peices remain
wen yuh balme others 4 anothers mistake
wen u kant think he is not out doin wrong
jus bc he didnt pick up his fone
Confused
Very Dumb
not at all
I wont let shyt happen more than once
But I wanna give him that trust..
but dats hard bc once he lost it
Its gone
What happens wen things happen to fast
but yet the it dosent feel like
the puzzle is complete 4 sum odd reason
...wow..
Where could I start with the trust..
How should I go about this...
So now here is the thing ervy1 said he is different but that is not the frist time I heard that
My bestfriend t...

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freinds with ben vs relationship


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 4:29 pm

Me and this guy were freinds with benetfits like we hooked up adn he felt me up. we've been best friends for a while but that was fun to.. Then one of my best friends Lisa he asked out the next day. I was really upset and all I want to do is cry!! I feel betrayed adn cant get over him! any advice?

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Boyfriend =[


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 4:28 pm

My boyfriend broke up with me for another girl and i love him so much i just want to how cal i get over him please say just dont talk to him and it might help. ='[


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so i like this guy with my whole heart.


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 3:32 pm

so theres this guy and i like him a lot. but the problem is i dont talk to him that much. i went out with him last year and i liked him ever since. but hes a huge jerk and dumped me bcuz i didnt make out with him right away. i was over h
im but theres just something about him that is just adorable. what should i do about it.?

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How to know if I should go for it or not.


Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 2:34 pm

I'm having a crisis of faith at the moment.
I've been dating this guy for over a year. And I guess things are getting a little stale.
I've met this boy Dan, who is very similar to me.
And to me, he's more attractive than my current boyfriend. He has a lip ring and a mohawk, and thus more my'type'.
And lately I've been feeling really attached to him, and I think I like him.
It's just, I have a really great thing going with my current boyfriend,and I don't know what i should do.

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