Question Posted Thursday October 18 2007, 10:50 pm
okay im a natural flirt and sometimes i dont even know when im flirting just my friends tells me that im flirting and such and when i like someone and they like me back i always back off or my feelings for them starting to fade away and stuff why is it like that? i never had a boyfriend do you think i have a commitment issue? even though they are hot and cute and all i lose interest if they likeme back what does it mean?
hershikissescanhelp answered Friday October 19 2007, 5:41 pm: hey,
WOW you are NOT alone,i'm EXACTLY like you. It's like I can flirt with any guy or a guy that's "hot" without even liking them. It's like kind of fun in a weird way, and then you get that after feeling..lol. But then when it comes to a guy liking me, i tend to get shy or back off like you. Well, i'm thinking you DO sort of have a commitment issue. Because, think about it. If a guy comes along and you like him, wouldn't you want to flirt or "get to know him?"Since you could flirt AND THAT'S IT, like no relationship or any of that..that's all you want to be, you just don't know it yet. My guess, is that you probabaly enjoy being single,end of story.=]
ninobluv answered Friday October 19 2007, 5:15 pm: OMG im just the same way. I mean if I know he likes me back I forget all about him. But when He doesnt pay me no mind I get all back with him. You need a guy who is like supper bussy and knows your this way and is cool with it. Or maybe like a guy your hardly see then when its almost time to see him your all excited. In My opinon of course.
DepthofHeart answered Thursday October 18 2007, 11:29 pm: It probably means you're only in it for the chase, you like flirting and chasing after guys to see if you can get them. As soon as they start liking you, you've got them and you lose interest because that's what you wanted. There's nothing wrong with you, and as soon as you find a guy you genuinely like...once he likes you you'll still like him.
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