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Attraction
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 9:13 pm
I really like my bgf possibly even love him and i know he loves me. He just told me. I may be going into a serious relationship with him soon. The thing is we have an amazing friendship and bong or w/e but im not physically attracted to him. I really wish i was. Some things i like but i have had other bf's that i thought were just SO hott but hes not like that. Hes attracted to me and i turn him on and sumtimes when he says sweet things to me im turned on but not really when im with him in person or he does sumthing. im not meaning like to have sex or anything cause we def. arent planning for that! but i would just like it if i was attracted to him. its kinda saddening that im not haha. any advice? thanx!
and is 14 to young t...
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Semi-relationship
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 7:58 pm
So I'm talking to this guy & we both have similar feelings, well that's what he says. We talk daily. I'm a bit nervous about it though because I have strong feelings for him & his probably aren't as strong as mine. I get disappointed when we talk regularly & aren't flirting or something, because I'm not sure if I'm just going to lose him to another girl since we live far away. How can I tell his true feelings despite what he says?? I sometimes doubt his feelings because maybe it's just easy for him to say them back since we don't live near each other or he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. Is there any clear cut signs or is it ok that we have days where we just aren't flirty??
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myguy.....
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 6:58 pm
okay ive been going out with this one guy for like 2 and a half months, but just reciently i met this guy david and he's like i dont know hes emo/goth and thats a BIG turn on for me, and im friends with his sister and she told me that he likes me. that was 2 weeks ago and david still likes me, and now i want to break up with my bf cauz he's getting boring, thats just how i am cauz i cant stay with someone for so long , it gets boring. but im worried about breaking up with him, cauz then david is gonna ask me out and, im gonna say yes, bu tit'll look like i broke up with my bf for him, when i didnt!!! is there any other way i can do this without it looking bad???
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dancing
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 6:19 pm
when dancing, what's the best way to grind? like not sexually grinding. but grinding in a way that makes me a good dancer. and look like a good dancer. thanks for the help!
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how do say it....
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 6:11 pm
i want to break up with my boyfreind but i just dont know how to tell him, i mean i like him and all but he's just just sooo much like me, cuz im usually not real quiet, but i am if you dont start a conversation and keep on going, and he doesnt he's just real quiet, i mean sometimes he'll talk but not very often.
is there any way that i can end it with a good reason?!?!?! cuz i know he's gonna be like "why?" and i wont know how to answer....
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love and in love
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 5:59 pm
whats the difference between loving someone and being in love with them?
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Guy i like gift 4 xmas
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 5:39 pm
Ok, so theres this guy i like, and im having a holiday party. I am going to get him a gift, but i dont know what to get him. (Im 14/f)and i dont want to pay a million bucks, or look like i did, but i want something special, that kinda shows i like him, but not so obvious its weird. What should i get him?
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WRONG in all the RIGHT ways....
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 5:23 pm
16/f okay so there is this boy who i am really falling for. and he is one of those boys that you know you shouldnt like and he doesnt hit my usual criteria but for some reason he is wrong in all the right ways. so there are alot of people that are against me and him (arent going out yet, supposedly asking me out tomorrow)...anyways alot of people are against it(younger sister,friends,best friend) cause he doesnt exactly have the best reputation with girls. i guess you could say he was somewhat of a player. But i see him diff. then everyone else. i truly feel that he likes me. and yes i know that i am taking a risk and that i might end up getting hurt but i am willing to take that risk for some odd reason. i know i will regret it if i dont d...
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he likes me not?
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 4:53 pm
hi im allie and in 17. ok so this summer i stayed with my cousin for about a month or two. and during that time she hooked me up with her boy friends best friend so hey what could be better. he was really cute, shy at first, but then just amazing. we clicked and it worked. we really liked each other. well at least thats what i thought. well we had a fun time and when it was time for me to leave he told me he would call me or message me or something. ( just to key you in im not one of those nieve girls who falls into puppy love and let guys do whatever and are all clingy and everything) well turns out he never did so when i went back down there liek 3 months later, we hung out and once again we clicked and had a great time. but then i went ...
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Three girls. One serious, one not, one ex.
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 5:18 am
Alright. I'm pretty sure I know what I need to do, but reinforcement is always nice.
So I'm in a bit of a complicated situation.
First, theres the ex. We had a terrible breakup. We are still very much in love with each other. We are probably not right for each other. She cheated. I forgave. She moved home (4 hours away) and right now we're talking but thats about it. Ive told her I want to get her back.
Second, theres the future fuckbuddy. Shes gay but openminded. She wants an ongoing relationship with me thats based almost entirely on sex. This is not a problem for me in the least, and fresh out of a harsh breakup (3 months isnt that fresh, but it was almost a 3 year relationship) she seems t...
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......pissed........
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 1:38 am
I am so pissed off! I just can't understand that I have feelings for someone who is so immature! I like her when I first met her and I never understood it. Now when I couldn't hold my feelings in I told her how I felt in a chat room. She read what I wrote about how I was depressed and confused she respects my feelings but doesn't feel the same. I felt very unhappy because I can't stand to think of someone else having her. I didn't move on yet but my sister was trying to hook me up with some guy at a party but I didn't like him but I was kind enough to hang out with him. I wanted to share her about what happen at the party and then she gets jealous and pissed. She tells me that 'I guess time will tell for the both of us' and that got me very...
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are we going too fast?
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 1:11 am
okay my boyfriend we've known each other for 3 months asked me out in november 15 and we didnt really talk to each other that much and then we didnt talk for the whole week because of the day off in school and today we got back we talked and and today we kissed (just a peck) 2 times are we going too fast?
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Stuck between love and lust
Posted Tuesday November 27 2007, 12:17 am
Alright if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. Anyways alright to get right down to it here is my problem, I moved from New York to Illinois to be with my boyfriend of 6 years. Well before i moved i always had a little thing for his best friend Nick. The problem is this my boy is great i love him to death but i have troubles being uhm sexually his.. im a bit premiscuous i know its bad im a tease i cant help it call me a slut and you wont get rated. Well iv slept with Nick when my boy goes off to work and i want to stop it.. but i think im falling for nick and falling out of love with my boy. Help me give me advice...
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christmas gifts?!
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 10:37 pm
So i want to get my boyfriend (13) something for christmas. Not to expensive ($20). any ideas? i've already ruled out video games, cologne, and clothes. i really appreciate it your help. We've been going out for about 3 monthes and he said he'll like what ever i get him but i dont want to get him something stupid =P
PS- i was thinking a movie. any good movies?
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Stuck between two guys =[
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 9:13 pm
Ok, I've been dating my bf Alex for 6 months on the 3rd and I like him alot but I recently met this guy Mike and I'm starting to like him alot too. He is so nice to me and makes me feel pretty but then so does Alex. I'm having a hard time deciding if I should stay with Alex or try things with Mike. HELP ME PLEASE! What should I do? Stay with Alex or try with Mike? Much appreciation!
<3 Chelsea
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Christmas
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 8:33 pm
Okay so i have no clue what to get my boyfriend for christmas.we've been dating for 6 months i know its far away but i dont like to procrastinate.
Anyway..
Hes 17 jocky and kinda preppy style
hes a Jock n plays every sport...
He already has perty much eveything
he likes sports, music, video games,the color green, fox motocross r watever, under aromor,and nike
Any ideas would help please!
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does he like me or dosnt he?
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 8:17 pm
Okay here i go, there is this really hot guy at my school named john and he has huge muscles im in 8th grade. He is a huge jock and our families have been friends for a reallyyy longgg time. He is so cute and i happen to really like him. I have no clue if he likes me back. He looks at me a lot we talk often and he trusts me with things. Like he tells me secrets and stuff. he would always tell me like jokeslike watch this and i would watch and he would pull down his pants and say i dont even have to unzipper,he would flex his muscles for me he told me to pat his stomach and tell him if its rock solid. I thought he liked me but then he got a girlfriend that he thought was really hotttt and i would go okay and now their going out does he like me or is he like a "tease"
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WAT 2 DO???
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 6:50 pm
Well I Like This Boy Let's Call Him "A"
I Use To Like His best Friend Let's Call Him "B"
I Did'nt Like "A" As Much As I Liked "B"
But When I Did Like "A" I Told Him I Wouldnt Go Out With Him Because My Friend Liked Him
Now "A" Told "B" When I Told Him That
Then A Found OuT I Liked "B" And Told "B"
"B" Asked Me If I Liked Him And I Confessed
Now Acting Like He's Intrested
But Today He Caught His Friend Holding My Hand Under The Table
And His Friend Told Him To Look
(His Friend Asked Me Out And I Said Maybe)
Now Even THough B Is Acting Like Hes Intrested
Im Not...
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try or just give up?
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 6:46 pm
hey ive been hookin up with this kid and like im starting to like him alot...the problem is that hes my like ex hookups best friend. we both argreed for now to keep it quiet. im just afraid that im going to start falling for him and not be able to have anything with him. what should i do?
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I'm not sure if my guy friend likes me
Posted Monday November 26 2007, 6:05 pm
Ok, so I know you've probably heard it all before.... but I've liked this guy for the past year (I'm female sophomore now, 15 years old) and we really didn't talk much last year. This year, we have the same lunch/studyhall and two other classes together. Well,we both go to the school library during the lunch/studyhall and i usually sit with my friends and he sits with his friends. For a while, i would go and sit at his table, but lately, hes been sitting at my table with me and my friends. Hes not the most intelligent person, but hes really sweet and really funny, and i like him a lot because he's always trying to make me laugh and goof around. According to everyone else that's in classes with him, he's really quiet and doesn't talk much, w...
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