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WRONG in all the RIGHT ways....
16/f okay so there is this boy who i am really falling for. and he is one of those boys that you know you shouldnt like and he doesnt hit my usual criteria but for some reason he is wrong in all the right ways. so there are alot of people that are against me and him (arent going out yet, supposedly asking me out tomorrow)...anyways alot of people are against it(younger sister,friends,best friend) cause he doesnt exactly have the best reputation with girls. i guess you could say he was somewhat of a player. But i see him diff. then everyone else. i truly feel that he likes me. and yes i know that i am taking a risk and that i might end up getting hurt but i am willing to take that risk for some odd reason. i know i will regret it if i dont do this and i feel like i need to. but my question is am i a total idiot??? i mean i tried not to falll for him .....I TRIED SOOO HARD. but i couldnt help it. i love the way he holds me and kisses me and truly listens to me. any advice????!!! thanks for reading <3 sorry if its long......
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i think.... if its what you want which you already got then see how it works out. you know your smart and so does everyone else just dont forget who your friends are! k? promis you wont?!
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Well, i would trust your heart if you do anthing, trust it, and follow it, if this guy if for real youll definatley feel it, and i guess you do. So I say go for it. Talk to your friends and little sister and tell them exactly what you told us, maybe then they'll understand. If not, you guys stay strong.
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IDK BUT 4RM GUYS THAT HAVE A REPUTAION OF A PLAYER MAINLY JUST WANNA HITT IT AND QUIT IT LIKE HE'LL MIND PLAY YOU AND THROUGH TIME WHEN YOU BOTH LEARN MORE ABOUT EACH OTHER AND YOU REALLY LIKE HIM HE'LL GET AT SOME OTHER GIRL AND THEN LATER ON FALL BAQ TO YOU...BUT THEN AGAIN I DONT KNOW THIS GUY ONLY YOU CAN MAKE THE DESCION..BUT IF YOUR REALLY LIKING THIS GUY GO FOR IT JUST WATCH OUT BE PREPARED FOR ANYTHING YOU NEVER KNOW IT CAN GO GOOD OR BaD.
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I'm going to apologize in advance for the length of this answer...I'm sorry.
Speaking from personal experience, yes you are an idiot. BUT, that's okay. Many a times have I been a complete idiot in similar and EXACT situations, and this is where I stand today. It is VERY important that if you value the character and judgement of your friends that you DO listen to what they are telling you. They're only looking out for you. However, I still believe that it is equally important to give everybody an opportunity to make their own impression on you. If you like this guy and you want to attempt some sort of relationship with him, there is nothing wrong with that. BUT, I advise you on a couple of things. ONE - PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE keep everything that your friends and family have told you about this guy in your mind somewhere and DO NOT ignore it. Those are the people who should know you the best and have your best interests at heart. You may be okay with ending up hurt (props for that by the way, COURAGE RULES!), but your friends are not. They only want what's best for you. TWO - it is VERY important that when you become involved with a guy with a bad dating reputation that you take things SLOWLY and pay attention to EVERYTHING, otherwise you could end up with more regrets than you'd ever want in a lifetime. If you ever get an uneasy feeling during the relationship there is probably a good reason for it. Under NO circumstances should you ignore those feelings - address them instead. Don't hesitate to listen to your head when following your heart - you have a brain for a reason. I wish you the best of luck in the future. If you need anything else please feel free to write to me :) - Cassie Leigh
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