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Stuck between love and lust
Alright if anyone could help me it would be greatly appreciated. Anyways alright to get right down to it here is my problem, I moved from New York to Illinois to be with my boyfriend of 6 years. Well before i moved i always had a little thing for his best friend Nick. The problem is this my boy is great i love him to death but i have troubles being uhm sexually his.. im a bit premiscuous i know its bad im a tease i cant help it call me a slut and you wont get rated. Well iv slept with Nick when my boy goes off to work and i want to stop it.. but i think im falling for nick and falling out of love with my boy. Help me give me advice...
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well you have to think about this do you love your boy more then nick? if you do why are you doing this to him sleeping with his best friedn thats torture. that would be so humiliating for him and that would hurt him so much especially if he loves you. youre hurting him just leave your boy if you dont love him but its wrong to play him with nick. and if nick did that to his best friend then he isnt a good friend at all, and you know that. leave him if you dont love him but dont do that to him thats so hurtful. i would be so hurt if someone did that to me. hes been with you for 6 years thats alot so maybe you do love him and jsut like to have sex with nick. but thats not right i bet you wouldnt like it if someone did that to you just think of it that way. hopwe i helped and im sorry if i sounded mean i really didnt mean to be. =p
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Thats a tuff one. You cannot change your feeling I think you deff. need to talk to Nick about what his feelings are. He may not be into you at all except for the fact of you and him having sex. There are more important things to a relationship than sex. I know you know that if you have been in a relationship for as long as you have. In my oppinion I think that you need to stay with your guy you have now unless he is treating you wrong just hang around a while you may just be getting bored. If you are dead set on quiteing sleeping with Nick then set limits for yourself like not to see him when your boy isnt around because then you will not be in that situation. If you are needing something new and fresh for sex try diff. positions and things like that. I do not know if you relize this or not but hunny you are cheating on him. It can be hard to face yeah I know from experience, just try and get yourself out of situations that you will be alone with Nick that is really all I can say and make sure you are spending quality time with your man. Im sure he cares alot about you and would probally FLIP if he knew about you and Nick. Also just rember if Nick is his bff then he might end up telling him about what you two have done if he ever gets mad at him or anything. Just something to think about. Feel free to come and talk to me if you need more help or anything. Good Luck!
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