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I want to keep it
i am 15 nd going 2 be having a baby.i havent told my rents yet,and i want 2 keep the baby,but i was wondering if there was ne way my rents or the state could take my baby away without my consent
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Your way to young to have a baby, beacause you still call your parents "rents" and cant type at all.
Yes the states takes children away, for many reason usally beacause of bad parenting, or abusive parenting. So if you take it to heart, you will do the best you can.
Usally Parents cant make you give up the child, but if you end up not being able to take of the baby, or are abusive, the parents can go to court and usally they end up with the child.
Im sorry that the truth hurt you.
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Yes, there are many reasons the state could take your baby. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it happens all the time. They normally will look at family placement of the baby first, and this may be your parents. If you can take your responsibility of being a parent seriously, and do all the things a good parent would normally do. You most likely won't have to worry about any intervention from CPS. I would recommend going to an organization called "Birthright" or something on that order and tell them you want to keep and raise your baby. They will refer you to resources that can help you. Of course the first thing you may want to do, is to tell your parents and then get the right kind of medical attention. Part of raising a child is to plan for the future so be sure to finish your education and try to eliminate the "gang slang" from your vocabulary. It just doesn't seem to suit a mommy real well.
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they cant take your baby unless, like the other said you are proven to be an unfit mother..my best advice would be to make sure you go see a doctor and talk to your doctor about prenatal vitamins and stuff that will benefit the health of your baby...dont smoke. dont drink. dont do drugs. all of those could point out that you're an unfit mother because those things can be unhealthy for the baby...make sure the father knows that you're pregnant and tell him you are not aborting the baby...dont let him try to talk you into an abortion. thats just the guys way of gettin outta responsibility. if hes "mature and responsible" enough to have sex then he damn well be mature and responsible enough to take responsibility for his actions...takes two to make a baby..and personally i think that the baby is better off if both parents play an active role in the childs life...but talk to him about it...and then go to your parents together..yes your father may want to kill him..but your parents will appreciate him being there with you when you tell them...if hes there with you when yall tell your parents...your parents will see that he cares and wants to do as much as possible....him gettin a job would also help too:P chances are that your parents will be mad at first..but they too went through finding out that they had a baby on the way at one time and they will know that support from your family is one thing that you need the most...most likely your parents will offer to help you out as well. best of luck with your pregnancy sweet heart. make sure you go to the doctor and get checked out. best of luck<3
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nope nobody can take it away.
*~Stephanie~*
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Nobody can take it from you if you don't want to give it up.
Good luck! :)
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hey. nah your parents cant take away your kid unless your shown to be an unfit mother. just to warn you, people will be keeping a close eye on you since you are young. just talk to your parents about it, thats what you need to do as soon as possible. things will turn out fine, good luck.
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hey
Your parents cant take the baby or the state unless you are proven to be an unfit mother.I hate to sound like im telling you its a bad idea to keep the baby but are you sure you can handle this. im not saying abort it but.Babys arnt all fun and games and they cost lots of money.Talk to your parents as soon as you can about this and see how they will handle it and if they will help out. Im sure they will and wont let you be in this by your self.Take care and let me know if you need any thing
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Well, if you are proven to be an unfit mom then yes the baby may be taken away. However, u have obviously done nothing wrong yet unless you are not seekin prenatal care. That is of the most importance is the health of the baby. Make sure the father knows you are pregnant it is not fair for you to do all of the work when it takes 2 to make a baby. I hope your pregnancy goes well.
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