Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like almost 2 years and we want to have sex but i am a Virgin and i dont know how it would fell can i get some advice explain how it fells and what i should do
hailebop answered Tuesday December 30 2003, 11:16 am: I think this is something you and your boyfriend need to discuss together. I'm not trying to fill you with doom and gloom and horror stories, but it sounds to me from your tone that you are quite nervous and aphrehensive. The problem is, if you're feeling like that you really won't enjoy it.
It's hard to know when you're ready for sex, which is why I think it's a good idea to talk to your boyfriend about your expectations and his expectations. If this sounds like a scary prospect, then the truth is you probably aren't ready for a sexual relationship just yet. Explain to your boyfriend that you do feel aprehensive, and hopefully he'll reassure you and you'll feel more comfortable moving on to the next level. Remember at all times though that it is your body and if you find it too overwhelming and want to stop, you have every right to change your mind. [ hailebop's advice column | Ask hailebop A Question ]
OneMan answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 5:33 pm: Hmmm sorry...can't answer that for you. Different people have different sensations the first time. It depends on several factors. Most women express pain when having sex for the first time. Some, who have been more physically active, sports, cheerleading, etc., etc., may have torn their hymen during those activities and may experience very little to no pain. [ OneMan's advice column | Ask OneMan A Question ]
Girlwithamansname answered Tuesday December 23 2003, 8:11 am: How old are you?
You don't sound like you are ready to have sex-you are obviously freaking out and blatantly undecided.
I think you should talk to your boyfriend about it-if you can't talk to him then do not even consider sleeping with him.
You probably won't want to talk to your parents but maybe talk to your school nurse,your friends.
MFS answered Monday December 22 2003, 10:26 pm: Until you can learn how to spell, I'd recommend continuing to abstain. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
1800Advice answered Monday December 22 2003, 9:32 pm: First, you need to think about what your about to get yourself into. Consequences, you could get pregnant, diseases, etc. Second off, the first time is always painful and it can cause bleeding. You should only go through with it if you've completely thought through it. Also, to learn more about it, you should go to some websites, do some research. ALWAYS think through your plans before going through with them. KNOW what your about to do. [ 1800Advice's advice column | Ask 1800Advice A Question ]
shay*shay answered Monday December 22 2003, 8:19 pm: Im very sorry that I cannot help you with that. How old are you? You must be ready to try this. Try to keep your virginity as long as you can!
-shay :-) [ shay*shay's advice column | Ask shay*shay A Question ]
zoe. answered Monday December 22 2003, 7:52 pm: well. sex feels good when youre emotionally and physically ready. its a wonderful thing you can share with someone, seriously. the first time a girl has sex, it usually hurts, because the penis breaks the hymen ("pops the cherry"). to make sure it feels good, make sure youre "wet" enough. if your vagina is dry, it will be rough and painful. foreplay is helpful, or lubricant. and use a condom! [ zoe.'s advice column | Ask zoe. A Question ]
NoOneCares311 answered Monday December 22 2003, 7:21 pm: *How old are you?* . .I am not exsprirenced either, so im sorry I cant give you advice. . 2 yrs is must be a really soid commitment, go for what your heart tells you! If you love him, you will . .*Eventully* lol bye [ NoOneCares311's advice column | Ask NoOneCares311 A Question ]
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