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How to ask out a police officer
Posted Thursday February 6 2020, 11:45 pm
There is a cop that has been working on a case involving the place where I work. He comes in all the time when I’m there and seems like he’s flirting with me. Is it weird or inappropriate to friend/message him on Facebook?
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Dating dealbreakers and disclosing information
Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:33 pm
I have a vast history of sexual assault. I am in therapy and attempting to recover but I still struggle with the symptoms of PTSD on a daily basis. I am not necessarily comfortable talking about this part of my life with people and would prefer to not bring it up all together. Men, would you prefer a woman to be open about her past experiences? I don’t want to feel like I’m not being honest in relationships by not telling my partner. On the contrary, I am terrified of being seen as damaged goods and having way too much baggage for anyone to want to be with. Do you view women who are rape victims as too much drama and not worth it? Would it be a deal breaker?
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This girl love/loved me, but I don't know why she's giving me altitude
Posted Friday January 31 2020, 1:09 pm
23 years male from Nigeria..... I met this girl about two months ago in school, you see I just got admission into university and we are both in the same class. When I first met her we clicked we had so much in common we became beasties,she would follow me around school and we call and talk to each other on the phone...she tells me deep personal stuff after herself and her family, she even jokingly said I should ask her out in like 3 months time....everything was going great until we both traveled for Christmas break but still got in touch with each other on the phone... She was even the first person to call and wish me happy new year...although I've not officially asked her out but we were like boyfriend/girlfriend..... on getting to school...
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Mental Health gone down the drain.
Posted Wednesday January 29 2020, 1:43 pm
Hi Everyone,
Its been a while since I posted here. I stopped asking for advice a long time ago because I never felt like talking about how i felt. However, I decided to give it a try and see what answers i get. I have been feeling so terrible and just need someone, anyone to listen to what i have been through the past few months, and past 3 years. It is a little long so please bare with me.
I have known this guy (lets call him M) for 10 years. We became friends when i was 17 and Now i am almost 26. I was head over heels inlove with him for years. I ended my first long term relationship when i was 17 and when i met him, i fell for him a few months afterwards. We share an amazing bond and have great chemistry. We unders...
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Cheating
Posted Saturday January 25 2020, 1:36 pm
My boyfriend of over a year just informed me that he cheated on me three times about six months ago. And my trust for him is just about gone, but I don’t know if I should go or stay. But he’s said he’s changed since then. I’m just not sure what to do??? - Female, 15.
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Am i a bad person
Posted Thursday January 23 2020, 1:40 pm
I need to know if im a bad person. I was recently broken up with due to something i did months ago. It was wrong and i should have been honest and not waited this long. When i was fresh into my new relationship i had a best friend. we had unfortunately dated thus my boyfriend did not feel i should be communicating with an ex. i dropped him from my life. social media, text, from hanging out. everything. just so my now ex would be OK. I accidentally forgot to delete him off of snapchat and one day he snapped me. i freaked out because i forgot i had not deleted him and i acted shady. i said it was someone else and would not show my now ex boyfriend. i panicked and deleted the app... after a week or two of begging he took me back. we broke up ...
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Does she still have feelings?
Posted Saturday January 18 2020, 9:08 am
Male, 21. PH
My ex and I broke up months ago (last year) and we recently had a closure in our relationship. But I still have feelings for her (she's the one who broke up with me). She made it clear that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore, but these past few days she started messaging me again. We talked casually liked before. And again she made it clear that she just want someone to talk to because she doesn't have that someone who'll listen to her and that she doesn't have feelings for me.
What do I do? I'm confused. Does she still have feelings for me and that maybe she's just confused about it?
I still pray for her everyday.
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Wife's past is ruining our sex life.
Posted Friday January 10 2020, 3:53 am
Good day all,
I'm asking this question because I have nowhere else to go.
So here follows the situation:
The day I asked my wife out, she confessed that she had been in a sexual relationship with her previous boyfriend. Although I had been saving sex for the woman I would marry, I assured her that I understood her situation and accepted her past. I was, however, fairly foolish, and never asked to what extent she had this relationship and wrongfully, by judging what person she was, assumed that it was a case that certain things happened that she was not proud of, but all within relative bounds.
About two years after we had been married, and our sex life was taking strain, I finally put one...
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My family wants to meet him
Posted Wednesday January 8 2020, 10:15 pm
Ok so I am 30 years old and I have been talking to this 41 year old guy that I met on plenty of fish. We have only been talking a little over 2 months . He has already met my mom and stepdad . He is a really good guy. The problem is my mom told my aunt and cousin about him and now they are saying they want to meet him already. I think 2 months is a little to soon for him to meet my whole family. U want to take things slow and not rush into anything. Is 2 months to soon for him to meet them . How will I know when the time is right ? Thank you.
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My cousin and I have a crush on each other.
Posted Tuesday December 17 2019, 4:22 pm
I'm a sixteen year old girl and I have a huge crush on one of my male cousins. He's the same age as me and has a crush on me as well. I know this because we recently admitted our feelings to each other. Now we're both really confused because we're not sure if it's right for us to date. Also, we're worried about how our family will react if we do. Any advice?
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should i pursue this guy and how to tell my friend?
Posted Monday December 16 2019, 6:26 pm
a guy that i have a lot in common with likes me and i like him too. the thing is, my friend used to have a little crush on him. she never really fell for him because once she saw him around more she thought he was annoying. now she likes someone else and has no feelings left for the first guy. but you see over time i’ve started to like him more and it’s getting harder to ignore. i do know for sure that he likes me back. we walk in the halls during school and he’s very sweet to me. i just know he’s a very good guy and i have no doubt about that. everything about him is what i’ve been looking for, from his kind and funny personality, to his looks and charming attitude. what i don’t know is how to tell my friend that i like him and...
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I'm pretty sure he likes me, but uses the excuse of us just being friends?
Posted Sunday December 8 2019, 4:04 pm
Okay, I'm in a master program in Scotland for physical therapy and there is this guy lets call him Wayne from Canada. Wayne and I didn't not talk much at the beginning of the year and then we got super close during a class trip in May. Since that trip we just clicked and connected and have been flirting with each other. Then one night have after our neuro final we all went out as a class (I drank a little too much😜) and that whole night he was all over me (dancing, drinking, close touching) and he even walked me home (interlacing hands the whole way) and he lives on the other side of town. Then I went on clinical placement, he went out of town for it and he came back to town and we all went out for a drink. That night, same thing, we ta...
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Dating while lesbian
Posted Saturday December 7 2019, 7:30 pm
16 female. I'm openly lesbian, and my life is fine for the most part. Despite living in a small, conservative town that would probably fit the stereotype for being homophobic, I do just fine. In all areas except one: dating.
Tbh, being a lesbian feels pretty lonely. I've had a few gfs before, but none now. It feels like there's such a small population of lesbian and bi girls, then you narrow it down to people you'd actually like, then the ones who are single, then the ones who would like you...and there just isn't a dating pool.
And it feels like most of the LGBT stuff is so geared towards guys all the time, it annoys tf out of me that gay and bi men get their own bars and clubs all over the damn place, but g...
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can i be disvirgined at the age of 18
Posted Monday December 2 2019, 3:50 am
well,am a girl of 18 year and I had a boyf when I was 16 BT we never had any intercourse together because I told him I am not ready then BT nw DAT I turn 18 he is asking me for it,BT I really have a mix feeling abt giving up my virginity not because I don't lyk him BT I don't just no BT recently he is really afraid and asking for it because I will be resuming into a university, pls wat should i do ,I need advice.
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Moving forward on a decision that you made
Posted Friday November 29 2019, 12:04 pm
Hi so I am 20 years old and I am a university student currently. I met a guy in July 2019. He was working in a small market and i had went in their with a family friend because she wanted to make a complaint about something she had bought there. While she was there she was "quarreling" with this guy who seemed really confused about what she was saying, then a guy stepped in and saved the poor guy who apparently didnt speak English. I had guessed that and while observing his desire to try to understand the problem even after his coworker stepped in to help him I wanted to talk to him. So after that day i kept visiting the market with this note i had written. For about 4 days i did this but every time i went it was close. Then i fi...
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I’m 16 and never had a boyfriend should I be worried
Posted Thursday November 28 2019, 12:00 pm
I’m a 16 year old girl and I’ve never had a boyfriend before, unless you count elementary when I had a boyfriend for like 2 hours then we broke up cause we had to go home for the day. I’ve come close to having boyfriends, one was 7 or 8 grade, he wasn’t the best looking but I don’t pay attention to looks and he treated me with a lot of respect so I did like him but my mom said I was too young and plus he was moving to a whole another state as well so that didn’t work out. In 6 I had a crush on a guy but he asked my sister out and she knew I liked him so she happily dated him for 3 months then broke up with him for unknown reasons. Another one was at bible camp and he confessed his feelings for me via Snapchat but my dad and ste...
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I’m seeing a guy more than fans but less than an official relationship
Posted Wednesday November 27 2019, 1:54 pm
My question is if the guy that I’m seeing wants to secretly get me pregnant and why does he go hot and cold now when before he wouldn’t. Well, he last cummed inside me knowing that I am not on the pill and we look like a real relationship but just without the title. He has been out of a bad relationship that left him with a no negative contact restraining order that was violated and he almost went to jail for it. We had a huge argument when I got jealous about him talking to my friend then I got drunk and made bad comments ever since then he’s been restraining from cuddling me and he’s backed off with that special touch that we had together before the incident like he’s slowly progressing to calling me baby etc. again. He even reg...
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how to stay angry
Posted Monday November 25 2019, 12:27 pm
I am sure in your minds you are thinking why I want to stay angry at someone well I will tell u why
I like this boys in my class everyone now knows I like him because a couple of friends and I went to the movies and they made us sit together because some of them said he liked me I didn't believe them thought while others told him I liked him anyway we were siting together and we started cuddling up and my friends started taking pics I begged them not to tell anyone but one of the posted the pic on there statue so now everyone knows about us.
Anyway well a couple of days ago a friend of mine told me he liked me. since I liked someone else I told him I didn't like him that way but he still didn't give up he told me he was going ...
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Someone posted pictures of my boyfriend with a caption saying he’s single
Posted Saturday November 16 2019, 6:25 am
What should I tell to the girl who posted pictures of my boyfriend saying he’s single without me and my boyfriend knowing in a badass but educated way?
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Me and my guy problems lol
Posted Sunday November 10 2019, 11:55 pm
I have the worst of luck with guys and I have lots of book resources, I'm not sure why I can't find a decent guy to date. I am currently working on myself and it would be nice to date for once. Anyways, I know of this guy and I'd say he is probably 7 years younger than me. Needless to say there is a huge gap and not to mention maturity. I want to know why he is always around me then completely flakey. I get the notion he cares too much about what people think of him and is a bit weird. He is a nice looking kid and I might think he might be in the closet. Why is it so hard for us to be friends or connect? He's around me non-stop and looks at me ALOT. Btw we are swing dancers, in class he makes me laugh and I overall get the sense he's a smar...
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